[quote]Derek542 wrote:
^ Life is not fair thats for sure.
How do you put the number of dicks to make a slut?
What about women who forgo relationship to get a degree? And just want some dick now and then on the way?
What is your theory on the high divorce rate?
Who is to blame?[/quote]
Well, I think arranged marriages were not all that bad.
Here is why:
A girl in her late teens or early twenties (and 24 was considered to be tempting the gods), was married to an older man with as good prospects as could be managed and then HER parents still paid HIM in order that he would take her.
Because marrying as a man is, indeed, a sacrifice.
Not for a manboy looking for female validation and the occasional mercy pussy, but a man.
Then he got her years of youth and beauty and in turn worked his ass off to provide for their children.
Incidentally, her prime years where also the years of her highest fertility.
When she no longer was the freshest apple on the tree, they had already raised several kids, the sexual pair bonding was strong because they did not know any better and he was older than her anyways so probably not as likely to stray, given his 14 hour backbreaking job.
Plus, working in the house 8-10 hours a day and unprocessed food probably meant that she did not look like a beached whale at 35.
Do you realize how far away we are from that?
Point two, what about women who forego dick to get a degree.
Well, that is her choice, but women are hypergamic, always, and that poses a problem.
The more degrees she has, the more success she has, the more she wants from a partner. Such men exist, but if women fuck upwards, men necessarily fuck downwards.
That means while she has less and less options, the guys she is interested in have more and more options.
What is even worse is that some of these women operate under the illusion that it works the same for them as it does for men, meaning they think their accomplishments count for anything. They might, to a degree, if youth and beauty are still there, if not it is irrelevant.
The men she would be interested in could either fuck her or the buxom, easy going waitress with the cute dimples.
And that waitress does not have a laundry list of achievements she expects from a man.
Point three:
How much dick maketh a slut?
Dunno?
Just pointed out that more dick = less likely stable marriage.
In conclusion: No matter whether a woman wastes her prime years getting a degree or tons of dick, she is throwing away the years of her maximum fertility and sexual magnetism. It is the the 20s when the power in the marketplace shifts from women to men and if you made sure that the man was a few years older it would be pretty even for the next 10-15 years.
Clever, huh?
Now, she waits into her 30s, where she has a few years of high value left, if she is lucky, while he still has decades.
The sheer disparity is a problem, she also has to deal with men who did not get it in their 20s and are determined to get whats theirs in the 30s and all of that in an environment where she can leave at the drop of a hat, which makes marriage a risky proposition.
What these women actually should do is transfer 100000$ * to a third party in case she leaves the marriage, acknowledging the mans sacrifice and risk and yet a lot are still pretty much the spoiled rotten princesses they were in their 20s.
*There are cultures that did that by the way
