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[quote]HangerBaby wrote:
ephrem wrote:
pushharder wrote:
…it is therefore not the non-american who is in need of breaking free, but the american himself who isn’t even aware of the shackles that bind him to a predetermined way of life…

This sounds like mostly babble from a whiny bastard.

I do agree that the “sheeple-izing” of American society, in general, is in full swing. We have a great pre-established pattern to go by to make it easier. In Europe.

…since when is speaking your mind, and be frank about it being a ‘whiny bastard’? This is exactly the kind of forced conformist behaviour i was referring to: either you agree with me, or you be damned!

since it was pseudo-enlightened bs[/quote]

…right, since everything that doesn’t comply with the official american common view must be bs. You just keep proving my point…

[quote]ephrem wrote:
HangerBaby wrote:
ephrem wrote:
pushharder wrote:
…it is therefore not the non-american who is in need of breaking free, but the american himself who isn’t even aware of the shackles that bind him to a predetermined way of life…

This sounds like mostly babble from a whiny bastard.

I do agree that the “sheeple-izing” of American society, in general, is in full swing. We have a great pre-established pattern to go by to make it easier. In Europe.

…since when is speaking your mind, and be frank about it being a ‘whiny bastard’? This is exactly the kind of forced conformist behaviour i was referring to: either you agree with me, or you be damned!

since it was pseudo-enlightened bs

…right, since everything that doesn’t comply with the official american common view must be bs. You just keep proving my point…

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But what you are missing is this- We can and do argue and fight over ideals. Hell, it’s even recomended and considered healthy.

Take a guy who has his own set of ideals and go against them. He will argue and fight (as you and Push are doing now, just in real life face to face) and may even lose land and life, but in the end will have held his ground and earned the respect and admiration of his fellows and adversaries.

Can or do people do the same in Holland or Sweden?

[quote]ephrem wrote:
HangerBaby wrote:
ephrem wrote:
pushharder wrote:
…it is therefore not the non-american who is in need of breaking free, but the american himself who isn’t even aware of the shackles that bind him to a predetermined way of life…

This sounds like mostly babble from a whiny bastard.

I do agree that the “sheeple-izing” of American society, in general, is in full swing. We have a great pre-established pattern to go by to make it easier. In Europe.

…since when is speaking your mind, and be frank about it being a ‘whiny bastard’? This is exactly the kind of forced conformist behaviour i was referring to: either you agree with me, or you be damned!

since it was pseudo-enlightened bs

…right, since everything that doesn’t comply with the official american common view must be bs. You just keep proving my point…

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Did you ever stop to think that maybe, just maybe, you are talking pseudo-enlightened bs? Just a thought … I guess it’s tough to think outside a comfy little box … schmea

[quote]SkyzykS wrote: Take a guy who has his own set of ideals and go against them. He will argue and fight (as you and Push are doing now, just in real life face to face) and may even lose land and life, but in the end will have held his ground and earned the respect and admiration of his fellows and adversaries.

Can or do people do the same in Holland or Sweden?
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…i guess we could, but we wouldn’t. If it’s merely about a difference of opinion, i think it’s silly to fight over it to the extent of losing land or life…

…but especially in Holland, we don’t have excess land to spare. There isn’t any wilderness here, at all. As the population steadily increases, social restraints become tighter, and the quality of our living spaces stagnate. That means that we can’t fight our neighbours for a better spot, because it’ll be exactly the same…

…this also forces us to look for the consensus instead of polarisation, because a confined society cannot function if it’s constantly disrupted by conflict…

…this black or white thinking, either/or, not with me then against me mindset resulted in endless warfare and suffering in Europe. That is not something we could return too, not ideologically nor geographically. That’s why i called it juvenile bravado, because to me it feels like juvenile bravado: plenty of emotion with little to no reflection…

…whenever you or push feel it’s necessary to post demeaning comments in reply to an opinion that did not warrant such responses, it is not me who finds it tough to think outside a comfy little box…

[quote]pushharder wrote:
ephrem wrote:
polo77j wrote: Did you ever stop to think that maybe, just maybe, you are talking pseudo-enlightened bs? Just a thought … I guess it’s tough to think outside a comfy little box … schmea

…whenever you or push feel it’s necessary to post demeaning comments in reply to an opinion that did not warrant such responses, it is not me who finds it tough to think outside a comfy little box…

See, this is the whiny bastardism again. I mentioned sheepdogs were a necessity - ALWAYS have been and ALWAYS will be. In Europe. In America. In Antarctica. Wherever.

That caused you to squeal like a pig. And it shouldn’t have. Unless you’re not a sheepdog and you see no need for them.[/quote]

…no matter how you try to spin this push, it doesn’t make it right. You are acting like many do on these boards, as if you’re a one dimensional cardboard caricature devoid of afterthought and contemplation. Merry Christmas!

Are you guys getting all emo again? About Sweden?

I’m gonna walk away from this one.

[quote]ephrem wrote:
SkyzykS wrote: Take a guy who has his own set of ideals and go against them. He will argue and fight (as you and Push are doing now, just in real life face to face) and may even lose land and life, but in the end will have held his ground and earned the respect and admiration of his fellows and adversaries.

Can or do people do the same in Holland or Sweden?

…i guess we could, but we wouldn’t. If it’s merely about a difference of opinion, i think it’s silly to fight over it to the extent of losing land or life…

…but especially in Holland, we don’t have excess land to spare. There isn’t any wilderness here, at all. As the population steadily increases, social restraints become tighter, and the quality of our living spaces stagnate. That means that we can’t fight our neighbours for a better spot, because it’ll be exactly the same…

…this also forces us to look for the consensus instead of polarisation, because a confined society cannot function if it’s constantly disrupted by conflict…

…this black or white thinking, either/or, not with me then against me mindset resulted in endless warfare and suffering in Europe. That is not something we could return too, not ideologically nor geographically. That’s why i called it juvenile bravado, because to me it feels like juvenile bravado: plenty of emotion with little to no reflection…
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But when that difference of opinion comes down to a difference of idealogical applications, like what you can or can not say, where you can or can not sit on a bus, what you can or can not be in life, basic human rights, it IS worth fighting over, and here, it WILL be fought over.

This IS our expression of popular consensus. It is in that conflict that our society is defined. It is in that conflict and free expression that our society is not disrupted, but thrives.

You see it as polarization. Thats fine. What a lot of Americans see it as is room to move(metaphoricaly). The flipside is that we see some other cultures as homoginized, bordering on decadent, and complacent, while they see themselves as (and I can only take a wild guess here) refined, stabized, or undisrupted.

It realy is a difference of perspective.

It comes down to this for me at least- I would rather die by my own ideals than live under someone elses.

You may not agree, and you don’t have to, but if you won’t make a stand for something that you believe in- an ideal, do you even have any beliefs or ideals worth having?

It’s not just an academic rhetorical exercise, either. Last year I was charged with disorderly conduct for saying “Fuck You” to a cop. Found guilty at the magistrate, I appealed it. The charges were withdrawn at the county level. If I had to, which someone previously had (Commonwealth of PA vs. Hock) I would have taken it as far as needed. Even if it had come down to bloody and fatal violence, I am willing to go there.

You know why? Because as a free man I will die before I have someone else dictate what I can or can not say, No matter how insignifigant those words may be. It’s not the actual words being protected here, it’s the ideal. If you can’t say something insignifigant, what happens when you need to say something important?

Had I not fought that, I would have set the precedent in this township for the successfull prosecution and punishment of a person for what they say. That might seem insignifigant considering the words used, but I don’t want to be responsible for the erosion of rights in this country in any way shape of form.

That might seem disruptive, non-compliant, or what ever else to somene from another country, but around here, it sounds like Freedom.

And believe me, there was plenty of reflection on that. I could have just taken the easy way and paid a small fine, but civil rights are worth a hell of a lot more than $25.00 plus court costs.

If you think that civil disobedience as a means of achieving freedom is juvenile bravado then the efforts of the likes of Mahatma Ghandi and Martin Luther King jr. are lost on someone like you, and that is why people are referring to your posts as “pseudo-enlightened whinney bullshit”.

{warning: Thread convergence alert!}
From your own thread-

Lets hope we have not become a nation of complacent cowards yet?

How weak is that? Your government is steamrolling you into something that you disagree with, and you want to Hope about it?

Fuck that! If you actually believe in the way of life that you have and want to protect it, you are going to need to do a hell of a lot more than hope.

Or is this going to be solved as a thought exercise? Contemplating and afterthought?

At least here in America, as soon as pot was made illegal a battle for it started, and has not relented. Hell, there has even been progress.

Even if I don’t smoke, I can still appreciate the hard work and determination of the people who want to decriminalize it. They have balls. They are willing to make a stand.

You just want to sit around hoping. AKA “whiney bastardism”.

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

But when that difference of opinion comes down to a difference of idealogical applications, like what you can or can not say, where you can or can not sit on a bus, what you can or can not be in life, basic human rights, it IS worth fighting over, and here, it WILL be fought over.[/quote]

…and i agree with you. It just didn’t occur to me that your civil rights are trampled upon on a daily basis in the USA. I basically don’t give a shit, and do whatever i want [in good conscience]…

[quote]This IS our expression of popular consensus. It is in that conflict that our society is defined. It is in that conflict and free expression that our society is not disrupted, but thrives.

You see it as polarization. Thats fine. What a lot of Americans see it as is room to move(metaphoricaly). The flipside is that we see some other cultures as homoginized, bordering on decadent, and complacent, while they see themselves as (and I can only take a wild guess here) refined, stabized, or undisrupted.

It realy is a difference of perspective.[/quote]

…ofcourse it is, and it’s nothing more than that. What i’m argueing against is the idea that one perspective is somehow universally applicable to all, when it isn’t…

[quote]It comes down to this for me at least- I would rather die by my own ideals than live under someone elses.

You may not agree, and you don’t have to, but if you won’t make a stand for something that you believe in- an ideal, do you even have any beliefs or ideals worth having?[/quote]

…but you are already live under someone else’s ideals, aren’t you? The fact that you’ve been raised to believe those ideals are righteous does not mean they’re yours, they’re just the values and morals of the culture you’ve been raised in, nothing more. I am not influenced by other people’s mores upto the point that i feel governed by them. I have conflicting views on certain key issues, and i simply act on those views regardless of the consequences. Who cares what other people think of you?

[quote]It’s not just an academic rhetorical exercise, either. Last year I was charged with disorderly conduct for saying “Fuck You” to a cop. Found guilty at the magistrate, I appealed it. The charges were withdrawn at the county level. If I had to, which someone previously had (Commonwealth of PA vs. Hock) I would have taken it as far as needed. Even if it had come down to bloody and fatal violence, I am willing to go there.

You know why? Because as a free man I will die before I have someone else dictate what I can or can not say, No matter how insignifigant those words may be. It’s not the actual words being protected here, it’s the ideal. If you can’t say something insignifigant, what happens when you need to say something important?[/quote]

…what i can’t relate to is not the fact that a person must indeed be free to say what he feels is important, but the apparent rush of emotion that seem to follow this. I don’t know, is aloof the right word for it?

[quote]Had I not fought that, I would have set the precedent in this township for the successfull prosecution and punishment of a person for what they say. That might seem insignifigant considering the words used, but I don’t want to be responsible for the erosion of rights in this country in any way shape of form.

That might seem disruptive, non-compliant, or what ever else to somene from another country, but around here, it sounds like Freedom.[/quote]

…you have me smiling here SkyzykS, but remember, i can smoke a joint on the street and ask a cop the time without getting arrested…

[quote]And believe me, there was plenty of reflection on that. I could have just taken the easy way and paid a small fine, but civil rights are worth a hell of a lot more than $25.00 plus court costs.

If you think that civil disobedience as a means of achieving freedom is juvenile bravado then the efforts of the likes of Mahatma Ghandi and Martin Luther King jr. are lost on someone like you, and that is why people are referring to your posts as “pseudo-enlightened whinney bullshit”.[/quote]

…and now you’ve gone and spoiled it all. Comparing yourself to the likes of Ghandi and King because you were flippant to a cop and defeated the subsequent fine is bestowing yourself with way, way too much honor. Get a little perspective please…

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[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

Lets hope we have not become a nation of complacent cowards yet?

How weak is that? Your government is steamrolling you into something that you disagree with, and you want to Hope about it?

Fuck that! If you actually believe in the way of life that you have and want to protect it, you are going to need to do a hell of a lot more than hope.

Or is this going to be solved as a thought exercise? Contemplating and afterthought?

At least here in America, as soon as pot was made illegal a battle for it started, and has not relented. Hell, there has even been progress.

Even if I don’t smoke, I can still appreciate the hard work and determination of the people who want to decriminalize it. They have balls. They are willing to make a stand.

You just want to sit around hoping. AKA “whiney bastardism”.

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…nice find! The fact that growing weed is illegal didn’t stop me from growing it, did it now? Another point you failed to consider is that if weed is recriminalized in Holland, street prices go up and that is to my advantage…

…but what i have at my disposal is my vote, and that vote will not go towards any party that towed the current line. On state and federal level. As of yet, eventhough the tide seems to shift towards recriminalizing weed, we’re not there yet. When we do, then things become interesting.

Honestly, i have no idea how this will pan out, nor how it will affect this society as a whole, but you can be sure of one thing: we won’t be asking your help ((-:

[quote]ephrem wrote:
…but you are already live under someone else’s ideals, aren’t you? The fact that you’ve been raised to believe those ideals are righteous does not mean they’re yours, they’re just the values and morals of the culture you’ve been raised in, nothing more. I am not influenced by other people’s mores upto the point that i feel governed by them.

I have conflicting views on certain key issues, and i simply act on those views regardless of the consequences. Who cares what other people think of you?
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No, they are not origionaly mine, but I do live by them. I also have the balls and ability to protest them and change them. Something that your social construct has obviously removed from its citizenry.

Can you tell him to go fuck himself when he tells you to put it out? (see previous post for details)

So you see it as likening myself to them? I don’t. I see it as taking a lesson from them an applying it to more than just whinney pseudo intelectualism. You see it the way you do because you don’t apply these things. You just sit around whining and intelectualizing.

It’s o.k. though. No one realy expects you to understand the meaning of standing for something. You have nothing worth standing for.

See ya.

[quote]Donzi wrote:
911 Girl wrote:
one word- Opera

Babies like it too.

Now that is brilliant!!!

Any suggestions??
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Anything Mozart or even Verdi.
Lots of coleratura sopranos.

Phillip Glass is good. Nice and repetative.

Want to grate their marrow? Penderetski (It’s been a time, I think I got the name right) or Shoenberg.

[quote]Donzi wrote:
911 Girl wrote:
one word- Opera

Babies like it too.

Now that is brilliant!!!

Any suggestions??
[/quote]

Anything Mozart or even Verdi.
Lots of coleratura sopranos.

Phillip Glass is good. Nice and repetative.

Want to grate their marrow? Penderetski (It’s been a time, I think I got the name right) or Shoenberg.

…ofcourse i can…

[quote]So you see it as likening myself to them? I don’t. I see it as taking a lesson from them an applying it to more than just whinney pseudo intelectualism. You see it the way you do because you don’t apply these things. You just sit around whining and intelectualizing.

It’s o.k. though. No one realy expects you to understand the meaning of standing for something. You have nothing worth standing for.

See ya.[/quote]

…happy holidays SkyzykS, and don’t forget: you don’t need to fight, if you’re not under attack…

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You guys just took a shit on my thread.

I found a few pearls though…thanks.

Sorry man. My bad. I thought it may have been an expository of beliefs through civil discourse between people of opposing perspectives, but I guess shitting on a thread works too.

[quote]pushharder wrote:
When I read this thread and muse on the collective psyche of countries like Sweden, and individuals (worldwide) that share their collective mentality, it reminds me why the sheep of this world so desperately need the sheep dogs, regardless how long it’s been since the last wolf sighting. The numbers of the wolf may ebb and flow but one thing is for sure, they, the wolves, will not go extinct.

Donzi, whatever you do, don’t become that which you abhor; don’t let your bark metamorphize into a bleat. [/quote]

Good advice.