So you live among middle class swedes. Do you have contacts with other americans in Sweden? I understand that feelings like that you describe are not uncommon when you are immersed in another culture. Superficially everything seems to be fine but deep down something is out of place. A common theme in horror movies, too.
‘Lagom ar bast, sager mamma’. You will never fully learn that but your kids will.
The scandinavians, in general, play a fairly bland style of football.
With a few notable exceptions. Namely: Henrik Larssen, and Ole Gunnar Solskjaer. Ibrahimavic is exotic enough, and he was supposed to be a terrible student to deal with.
Not very helpful information, I know, but I wonder does that style of football represent the common good ethos?
I guess soccer just isn’t an american sport
So…its been six months now.
After a good bit of reflection on the situation I was in and the pearls of wisdom I gathered on the topic I made a move. I decided to quit being a pussy and do something about my situation. After a few rounds with wife she made it clear that she is not what I want to sleep next to for the rest of my life. Nor is she the only female influence I want my kids to have shaping their ideal of what a woman should be.
I am now divorced, with 50% custody of my kids. I get them every other week. And we split the kids expenses 50-50 aside from that she gets not one nickel.
I have more quality time with the kids, more money in the bank, more freedom and get more quality ass now than I have in 10 years…what the fawk was I waiting for…to all those that followed my trip for the last 4 years and offered their insight I thank you. Eventhough the net is often a useless void I found my strength through this site and its patrons…probably could have done it with out you but it still helped. Thanks T-men and women…you know who you are… 
The door was open man.
The guy:‘’ fuck you’’
you: ‘‘fuck me? fuck YOU!’’
you take him and you throw him on the wall. Then you tell him to turn down his music a little bit. If he doesnt and laugh in your face or whatever you break his radio