Good lord… my stepbrother dropped a piece of red-hot rebar into his boot.
I nearly cut my nose in half on a flange busting a nut loose on the opposite side.
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Yeah. I’m still reading that “no” is the point of contention, or lack of one.
“I didn’t want to take ketamine, but I did”.
“I didn’t want him to fuck me in the ass, but I let him”.
I get that we often have to read between the lines with the softer sex but this is also how mixed signals happen. Playing devils advocate.
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I agree. It’s just something to talk about. And I did a quick search on Google which made it apparent that the entire circle of people involved come off as narcissists, weirdos, and douches who are mentally and emotionally weak. It’s a bunch of vapid, no substance baby adults who think they are far more interesting than they really are. If you’re queer, be queer. If you are polyamorous, which sounds like BS to me, be that. But do you have to tell the whole world? Not that being an empty headed, soulless product of the social media age justifies being raped, but it’s hard to care about these people when they are so dependent upon seeking validation. They are all on some journey, and they want you to follow it.
It appears we are in agreement about 100%.
The thing I noticed was the complete lack of ownership on the part of the writer of the piece.
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The old timers would never chip their slag off of welds. Theory was that they wouldn’t rust (not true).
So I’m cutting away a big plate from a support frame, and hit an old weld with slag. It reflected all of the molten steel back on to my arm. Burned through the suede, the FR jacket, my hoodie, and undershirt before embedding in the skin.
Bad day. Very very bad.
Here’s my advice to women: if a man is heterosexual, go ahead in the relationship. If he says he’s bi or queer or whatever, walk away; he’s gay. Gay men belong with other gay men. A gay man who wants to also have sex with women has mental problems. A woman who knowingly gets into an intimate relationship with a gay man also has mental issues.
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I have not done this independent research so I’ll defer. In general I agree that people proselytizing a belief or lifestyle are annoying at best and maybe have some internal issues to overcome at worst. Jehovas Witnesses annoy me equally as much as the “look at me” LGBTQXYZEFDAKLJ crowd.
Where I’m reading puritanical views from you is between the lines of comments like “he’s in his forties and likes anal sex. Even the Greeks taught outgrowing deviance”.
I’m in my 40’s and I love anal sex 
. Maybe I’m deviant but it seems pretty common. Nothing like working a pussy until she’s done and then finishing off in the tight hole. And he likes drugs, so what. How many “date nights” don’t include a little wine?
To each their own, but the guy is evidently in some kind of established “kink” community, with “kink” peers. Or at least people who shouldn’t be surprised when it gets kinky. It’s not like he’s being sneaky about it, as you point out.
He insists on it. That’s strange.
I won’t even let a doctor stick his finger up there.
I think that most of these people are attracted to it out of curiosity or more likely, a need to feel free spirited, rebellious, or whatever. Then the reality hits them that it doesn’t provide them with they need and are just as lost and lonely as they were before. I don’t think the path to self discovery leads to anal.
For the record, I do the fucking. Of women. Which is what I read in John’s case.
I had a bad joke here before, but I’ll just pop in to say I’m glad to see some frank conversations about butt fuckin on t-nation again.
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It isn’t all that bad, especially if she has small fingers.
I don’t think he discriminates.
Cue Pushharder
Fuuuuuuck… id get slag in my scalp
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I wholeheartedly agree!!
I will also add that I have always believed that there is NO BISEXUAL when it comes to men! I’m sorry, but if you have sex with women, but occasionally like to gargle hairy balls, or take it in the ass, then you are gay. Yes, you may be a gay man who, for whatever reason, likes to have sex with women sometimes, but any man willing to smoke a pole, etc IS gay…which I could care less about, but don’t be ashamed of your gayness dude and try to hide behind bisexual or pansexual [lol, i actually don’t even know what the fuck PANsexual is, but it sounds made up], it’s 2024 nobody gives a fuck if you’re gay.
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I agree. I’m sure some of them are veterans and in to it but would imagine many were exploring. And this is the problem. Turns out they didn’t like the experience. This doesn’t make them victims of assault necessarily. Just another version of the walk of shame. Post fuck regret.
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This will sound corny but they are sold on this idea of freedom and how they don’t have the burden of being in a committed relationship to one person, which they are told is like being a prisoner. Yeah, they are free, including free of love. I think they realize that they were used for sex, that that is the only value the other person saw in them. Not exactly a liberating feeling.
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Maybe. I’ve never been in to BDSM or rape but I was pretty sexually active when younger.
I don’t remember women getting fucked to feel jailbroken. There were occasionally women who had issues and I would say the women you describe fit this scenario, but usually they were just enjoying sex for the pleasurable act it is. And at that age experimenting.
And some women absolutely love being dominated. Most for sure at least appreciate assertiveness. It gets them out of their heads. Not to be confused with forcefulness or rape. And BDSM was never my thing, so.
Yeah. One of my commentaries on our contemporary state in the US is that people don’t really want freedom anymore, they just want to be irresponsible.
This type of stuff is just a manifestation of that fundamental breakdown.
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The people in question are well into adulthood. A middle aged man pushing polyamory? That’s verging on sex cult leader. A college aged person just having fun is one thing, but these people have made it a lifestyle and defining part of who they are.