Jiu Jitsu in Real Life Situations

[quote]zecarlo wrote:

[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:

[quote]Heroic Wolf wrote:
I imagine I might’ve been screwed if ground-and-pound was allowed. [/quote]

People who do BJJ and think it will save them in the street need to drill this line into their heads.[/quote]

Really? GnP, as well as nut shots, foot stomps, soccer kicks and headbutts were allowed in the early UFCs and before that in VT in Brazil. How did RENZO, ROYLER, BUSTAMANTE, ISMAIL, AND GOES do? [/quote]

Fixed that typo for you.

Royce was/is amazing, and I have heard that he is a FANTASTIC teacher, but his showing against Kimo and the Shamrock rematch make him a poorer example of a BJJ fighter who can excel against a STRONGER, yet capable, opponent.

Just my opinion.

RE: BJJ for “real” life situations.

My take on the BJJ vs boxing/kickboxing/stand up striking for self defense/violence with no ref is that they offer solutions to different potential problems.

I am of the opinion that rolling around on the ground in a non refereed environment where you or your allies are not in control of the immediate area is very risky. I can fully understand the logic of “Stay off the ground in the street!” Where I break from the the BJJ is shitty for self defense mantra is that in my experience the guys who train BJJ or grappling are the best at getting OFF the ground in one piece if they get there.

There are some VERY dialed in folks who are pretty harsh on making BJJ your primary style for self defense. They usually note unknown/uncontrolled environments, possible weapons on one or both parties(simply having a pocket knife can start a cascade where a fight turns lethal), limited mobility, and vulnerability to other aggressors as key reasons.

There are other VERY dialed in folks who look at the above and say “That is why we need BJJ, to not get killed on the ground if we wind up there.”

My experience, and simple logic, tells me the trained grappler is in the better spot to un-fuck a bad situation on the ground. So I see the point of the guys who say the ground is hell, so don’t go there. I also recognize the notion that the ground is hell, so we must prepare for it. At the end of the day, since I live in fly over country, it comes down to schools more than styles anyway.

Regards,

Robert A

[quote]zecarlo wrote:

[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:

[quote]Heroic Wolf wrote:
I imagine I might’ve been screwed if ground-and-pound was allowed. [/quote]

People who do BJJ and think it will save them in the street need to drill this line into their heads.[/quote]

Really? GnP, as well as nut shots, foot stomps, soccer kicks and headbutts were allowed in the early UFCs and before that in VT in Brazil. How did Royce do? [/quote]

For the last fucking time, that shit doesn’t count for dick out in the street. It was still a sporting event.

The point was that in straight BJJ competitions, none of that shit is allowed, and the great majority of schools therefore don’t train for it.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again - biting can negate half the shit that goes on in grappling. Breaking fingers negates half that shit. One pocketknife with a 3/4 inch blade can negate ALL of it.

Its simply an inadequate style for self defense. Some ground skills are necessary. A system based on them cannot be used for anything but sport.

Get over it.

I agree with the viewpoint that BJJ is helpful in the sense that if you do wind up in the worst case scenario, on the ground and in bottom position, you can get back to your feet quickly with sweeps (which submissions can help set up). I guess one way to word it would be that self defense BJJ is focused on leaving the ground ASAP whereas sport BJJ is the reverse (lol Jake Shields).

I remember watching a YouTube vid on the US marines’ martial arts training and elements of BJJ were involved. So it must be somewhat practical.

[quote]Heroic Wolf wrote:

I remember watching a YouTube vid on the US marines’ martial arts training and elements of BJJ were involved. So it must be somewhat practical.[/quote]

That is the wrong way to look at things. Just because the armed forces use it does not mean its good for self defense.

It’s more so bored soldiers don’t kill each other.

Read this. Explains it better than I ever could.

http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/grappling.html

[quote]Heroic Wolf wrote:
I remember watching a YouTube vid on the US marines’ martial arts training and elements of BJJ were involved. So it must be somewhat practical.[/quote]

Have you seen the fight quest or similiar where they train with the USMC? Jason Chambers pulls guard on the guy and he pulls a plastic knife and proceeds to fuck up his leg. Last place you ever wanna be is on the bottom in a street fight where death is a very real outcome.

Also quote of that show the guy that wins the fight is the one who’s buddies show up first with a gun.

[quote]punchedbear wrote:

[quote]Heroic Wolf wrote:
I remember watching a YouTube vid on the US marines’ martial arts training and elements of BJJ were involved. So it must be somewhat practical.[/quote]

Have you seen the fight quest or similiar where they train with the USMC? Jason Chambers pulls guard on the guy and he pulls a plastic knife and proceeds to fuck up his leg. Last place you ever wanna be is on the bottom in a street fight where death is a very real outcome.

Also quote of that show the guy that wins the fight is the one who’s buddies show up first with a gun.[/quote]

Another thing to consider is that in modern warfare (much like when the samurai first created Jiu-Jitsu), soldiers are often times going to be wearing body armor, kevlar helmets, and other protective glothing/gear. This makes striking far less effective, but since none of this clothing protects the joints themselves, they are still vulnerable to attack, thus making Jiu-Jitsu a natural choice of combative systems.

Irish also made a good point that BJJ can be trained full speed/force on a regular basis and helps soldiers to get in shape, engage in a friendly form of competition (which still has some combative application), and I’m sure burn off some excess energy.

In reality though, the army isn’t planning on sending it’s soldiers into battle armed with BJJ skills as their primary weapons. Unarmed combative skills would be pretty far down the list of priorities and things would have to be pretty bad for a soldier to wind up in such a scenario while on duty.

I’m a big fan of reality based applications with a combative aspect to them. Google you tube vids of Kelly McCann, Lee Morrison, and combatives. Karate (if trained correctly) boxing and combatives are what should be used in a “street fight”-whatever that is. Let’s face it , real fights are not going to be two guys squaring off in a school yard, cage match fashion. If so then of course MMA is by far the best style.(Remember Couture-Toney?) If there are constraints like close quarters, sudden attack, multiple attackers then tactics need to be different.

If “an MMA guy is fighting a bodybuilder” is the question then unless the size difference is outrageous then I got to think the mma guy will win.

Best bet is to train it all and rely on a few go to techniques, train hard and as realistically as possible, and know what to do if you end up on the ground - an don’t stay there.

[quote]Josann wrote:
I’m a big fan of reality based applications with a combative aspect to them. Google you tube vids of Kelly McCann, Lee Morrison, and combatives. Karate (if trained correctly) boxing and combatives are what should be used in a “street fight”-whatever that is. Let’s face it , real fights are not going to be two guys squaring off in a school yard, cage match fashion. If so then of course MMA is by far the best style.(Remember Couture-Toney?) If there are constraints like close quarters, sudden attack, multiple attackers then tactics need to be different.

If “an MMA guy is fighting a bodybuilder” is the question then unless the size difference is outrageous then I got to think the mma guy will win.

Best bet is to train it all and rely on a few go to techniques, train hard and as realistically as possible, and know what to do if you end up on the ground - an don’t stay there.[/quote]

More or less what I’ve always thought myself. I LOVE Kelly McCann’s stuff - between his unarmed stuff, his folding knife stuff, and his gun shit, he’s about as close to having created his own modern day martial art as possible that can be used in a present day warzone.

[quote]zecarlo wrote:

[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:

[quote]zecarlo wrote:

As far as “no rules”: BJJ does not leave you exposed unless you are dealing with more than one opponent or weapons. It was developed to be applied under the conditions of no rules. Of course that aspect is not as stressed in many schools anymore but traditionally BJJ has standing techniques and striking (both on the ground and on the feet). [/quote]

THIS IS NOT TRUE.

BJJ, just by the close proximity of your bodies, leaves you open to all kinds of shit that is not taught in BJJ classes.

Maybe if someone, somewhere, is teaching a sort of combat JJ with strikes that relies on standing more and keeping the other guy’s body AWAY from you, I’d agree, but the idea of grappling in any capacity inevitably leaves you open to broken fingers, biting, eye gouging, and all sorts of other nasty shit that is not regularly taught as BJJ.

Hell, biting alone is enough to nullify half the shit that you get taught as “self-defense” in a BJJ class.[/quote]

You do know in Brazil they had something known as Vale Tudo? How about the Gracie Challenge? On the In Action tapes those fights were anything goes at times. The idea that the moves you mention can only be done by the other guy also reveals your ignorance. [/quote]

You’re a retard.

Vale Tudo does not allow biting, gouging, let alone stabbing your opponent to death

Good luck holding a triangle when some dude is grabbing a fistful of your gonads. Good luck pulling guard on someone only to get stabbed. Good luck trying to work submissions while his buddies are soccer kicking your head from behind.

Being on the ground is a retarded place to be in life or death situation.

The funniest thing about this thread is that BJJ might actually hurt the 165lb guy. Especially if he’s not advanced.

#1) Unless they streetfight regularly, less advanced fighting art(Except Boxing) practitioners tend to think too much in a fight.

#2) I’ve seen more 165lb guys who were supposed to lose a fight win by catching the bigger stronger athlete on the chin and throwing a a ton of punches, then the other way around. Specially if the fight has a chance of being stopped. You get about 10 seconds of punches in before the big guy knows what happened.

#3) Do you really want to start wrestling with somebody who can lift 3 of you? Even if you have great workout numbers, there’s a certain amount of strength that comes with walking around with 50 extra pounds. God forbid he gets the drop on you he can simply use his weight.

Here is the thing, originally Jiu-Jitsu (and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu) was designed as a real world combatives system and did include things like biting, gouging, weapons, multiple attacker strategies, etc… But it has been largely sterilized and modified to fit the sport of submission grappling and the rules established therin.

Zecarlo trained BJJ with, what seems like from his accounts, someone who taught him the original form of BJJ, which contained many of these elements. While these individuals are exceedingly rare in the US, they probably still do exist in Brazil.

As a result, those of us in the states have a very different picture/understanding of what BJJ is than Zecarlo. So both sides wind up talking past each other, all the while not realizing that from the other sides perspective/experience is very true to them, even though it may not be the same perspective/experience.

I’ve said this before, but the day before UFC 1 my instructor was at one of the seminars (held in the same venue as UFC 1) being held by the Gracies on BJJ and was teaching a bunch of the guys there also attending the seminar the version of Jiu-Jitsu that he had learned (which did include things like biting, eye attacks, body handles, weapons, etc…) when one of the high ranking black belts under Helio walked up to him and said, “what you are doing is more like the real Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu than what is being taught in this country.”

Now I realize that was almost 20 years ago, but if anything BJJ has become even more sport oriented here in the states than it was back then.

[quote]Sentoguy wrote:
Here is the thing, originally Jiu-Jitsu (and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu) was designed as a real world combatives system and did include things like biting, gouging, weapons, multiple attacker strategies, etc… But it has been largely sterilized and modified to fit the sport of submission grappling and the rules established therin.

Zecarlo trained BJJ with, what seems like from his accounts, someone who taught him the original form of BJJ, which contained many of these elements. While these individuals are exceedingly rare in the US, they probably still do exist in Brazil.

As a result, those of us in the states have a very different picture/understanding of what BJJ is than Zecarlo. So both sides wind up talking past each other, all the while not realizing that from the other sides perspective/experience is very true to them, even though it may not be the same perspective/experience.

I’ve said this before, but the day before UFC 1 my instructor was at one of the seminars (held in the same venue as UFC 1) being held by the Gracies on BJJ and was teaching a bunch of the guys there also attending the seminar the version of Jiu-Jitsu that he had learned (which did include things like biting, eye attacks, body handles, weapons, etc…) when one of the high ranking black belts under Helio walked up to him and said, “what you are doing is more like the real Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu than what is being taught in this country.”

Now I realize that was almost 20 years ago, but if anything BJJ has become even more sport oriented here in the states than it was back then.[/quote]

I don’t doubt that the original system did indeed have more self-defense type tactics, but I still find it hard to believe that any ground based grappling system would be effective.

If it was more like judo, where it was a standing art that didn’t depend on going to the ground, and didn’t need effective takedowns to function, than I would say fair enough.

But everything I’ve ever seen from that art has been about how to end up on the ground, and what to do when you get there.

Hah. This I do feel qualified to answer…I’ve been in a few fights.

Don’t go to the ground in a street fight. If he’s got a buddy, that’s a great time for his buddy to walk up and kick you in the back of the head (happened to me). Also, god knows what’s on the ground…nails, broken glass, other stuff than can cut you up pretty good if you wind up rolling on it. In a fight, the best thing to do is knock them down hard and run like hell. Get in enough of them and it’s only a matter of time till someone pulls a weapon and uses it on you.

I’m not particularly harsh on BJJ–and frankly I’m not very good at grappling myself, when I did MMA in high school and college, I did more ground and pound, but I can appreciate the skill and athleticism it takes to do BJJ. But it’s way down on my list of what I’d trust in a fight. The biggest thing, IME, is being able to take a hit or two, and hit back hard without freezing up. I’ve heard of plenty of cases where even a guy that’s pretty good in a ring just…freezes if someone actually hits him out in a bar or a street. It’s not that he’s incapacitated, it’s just surprise. Day to day, most of us don’t expect that.

You’re also assuming, it seems like, that the big guy can’t fight, which may not be true. All other things being equal (skill, speed) size is an advantage–if I can stand up while you’re trying to get an arm guard on me, because I’ve got a foot and a hundred lbs on you, you’re in for a hurting.

[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:

[quote]Sentoguy wrote:
Here is the thing, originally Jiu-Jitsu (and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu) was designed as a real world combatives system and did include things like biting, gouging, weapons, multiple attacker strategies, etc… But it has been largely sterilized and modified to fit the sport of submission grappling and the rules established therin.

Zecarlo trained BJJ with, what seems like from his accounts, someone who taught him the original form of BJJ, which contained many of these elements. While these individuals are exceedingly rare in the US, they probably still do exist in Brazil.

As a result, those of us in the states have a very different picture/understanding of what BJJ is than Zecarlo. So both sides wind up talking past each other, all the while not realizing that from the other sides perspective/experience is very true to them, even though it may not be the same perspective/experience.

I’ve said this before, but the day before UFC 1 my instructor was at one of the seminars (held in the same venue as UFC 1) being held by the Gracies on BJJ and was teaching a bunch of the guys there also attending the seminar the version of Jiu-Jitsu that he had learned (which did include things like biting, eye attacks, body handles, weapons, etc…) when one of the high ranking black belts under Helio walked up to him and said, “what you are doing is more like the real Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu than what is being taught in this country.”

Now I realize that was almost 20 years ago, but if anything BJJ has become even more sport oriented here in the states than it was back then.[/quote]

I don’t doubt that the original system did indeed have more self-defense type tactics, but I still find it hard to believe that any ground based grappling system would be effective.

If it was more like judo, where it was a standing art that didn’t depend on going to the ground, and didn’t need effective takedowns to function, than I would say fair enough.

But everything I’ve ever seen from that art has been about how to end up on the ground, and what to do when you get there.
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Well, technically it did come from judo, so originally there was likely more focus on throwing and standing based tactics. Again, a lot of what we see now as modern BJJ has been influenced strongly by the sport of submission grappling/BJJ.

[quote]Sentoguy wrote:

[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:

[quote]Sentoguy wrote:
Here is the thing, originally Jiu-Jitsu (and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu) was designed as a real world combatives system and did include things like biting, gouging, weapons, multiple attacker strategies, etc… But it has been largely sterilized and modified to fit the sport of submission grappling and the rules established therin.

Zecarlo trained BJJ with, what seems like from his accounts, someone who taught him the original form of BJJ, which contained many of these elements. While these individuals are exceedingly rare in the US, they probably still do exist in Brazil.

As a result, those of us in the states have a very different picture/understanding of what BJJ is than Zecarlo. So both sides wind up talking past each other, all the while not realizing that from the other sides perspective/experience is very true to them, even though it may not be the same perspective/experience.

I’ve said this before, but the day before UFC 1 my instructor was at one of the seminars (held in the same venue as UFC 1) being held by the Gracies on BJJ and was teaching a bunch of the guys there also attending the seminar the version of Jiu-Jitsu that he had learned (which did include things like biting, eye attacks, body handles, weapons, etc…) when one of the high ranking black belts under Helio walked up to him and said, “what you are doing is more like the real Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu than what is being taught in this country.”

Now I realize that was almost 20 years ago, but if anything BJJ has become even more sport oriented here in the states than it was back then.[/quote]

I don’t doubt that the original system did indeed have more self-defense type tactics, but I still find it hard to believe that any ground based grappling system would be effective.

If it was more like judo, where it was a standing art that didn’t depend on going to the ground, and didn’t need effective takedowns to function, than I would say fair enough.

But everything I’ve ever seen from that art has been about how to end up on the ground, and what to do when you get there.
[/quote]

Well, technically it did come from judo, so originally there was likely more focus on throwing and standing based tactics. Again, a lot of what we see now as modern BJJ has been influenced strongly by the sport of submission grappling/BJJ. [/quote]

If we want to put these things into historical, and I feel STILL relevant context:

Jujutsu was a catch all term for fighting. Because of this there is a huge variety in technique from striking to grappling to throwing. Still, most of the "traditional"ish systems are going to contain atemi(hitting tender parts), standing techniques, and ground work with various degrees of emphasis. Purpose/rules of competition drove the focus. As for what the striking/standing joint locks looked like, most everything I have ever seen done by “combatives” instructors I saw first from traditional jujutsu or karate guys.

Okinawan karate was/is largely striking focused (I am not buying the guys who try to sell the kata as elaborate single person grappling drills, mostly for the fact that good grappling doesn’t look like that). To paint with an offensively broad brush training often focussed on physical conditioning/being really fucking strong and hitting damn hard. However, when reading biographies/history it seems that wrestling was popular past time for children. Funakoshi’s biography makes a note of how he would have to get up with two or more smaller children pinning him down. If we associate that then the striking emphasis in karate on top of a base of being hard to hold down gets us the general tactic/strategy of Lidell, Fillopovic, and (at this point) Dan Henderson. So, this don’t spend time on your back and hit the other guy hard idea is still plenty valid for empty hand fighting.

The serious end users of jujutsu were not, however, as interested in empty hand dueling as they were with fighting in an environment with weapons. Now I am not trying to sell the “knife” defenses seen so much in “traditional” martial arts as even a way, much less THE WAY. I will make the following observations.

1.) The wrist releases and standing joint locks do an excellent job of making the other guy let go of you even if they “fail”. Part of being effective with any technique is making it benefit you even if it doesn’t go perfect. Most punches do not result in a KO, they are still worth throwing. I have found finger and wrist locks seem to keep people from wanting to cuddle.

2.) The bullshit “formal” attacks seen in standing jujutsu/aki-jutsu actually happen when someone is trying to dive for your gun/knife or keep you from getting your weapon into use.

3.) If we accept the “bushi/samurai” lineage of jujutsu we need to keep in mind that it was being used as an adjunct to weapons. Spears, bows, and finally swords were primaries. Knives were secondaries. At best jujutsu was a tertiary alternative.

4.) If we think of having a weapon, and we recognize that drawing a weapon (be it a sword, fixed blade knife, folding knife, or handgun) takes time and thus distance, than the exercises in not being dragged down/playing keep away from multiple opponents that are so very common in Aikido and Aiki-jutsu start to take on grim purpose. They allow us the time/distance to bring our weapons into the fight.

5.) Weapons were invented for a reason, they help us render others unable to continue being a threat.

6.) If we accept that 5 is true, than we can see using a grappling focused art as a way to keep from being tangled up in, or failing that to un-tangle one’s self, from a pile of assholes and elbows. This allows us solve the problem with mobility(Run Away! Errr…maintain tactically prudent distance) or by getting our weapon into the fight (Run whatcha’ brung. So put a piece of steel in your hand and put holes in the other guy.) Either is a fine choice when trying to solve the problem of a feral human who wants to make you dead or pregnant, RIGHT NOW.

7.) There is a difference between “fighitng” in the “street” sans ref and defense against criminal assault. In both legal and actual terms fighting implies a degree of mutual consent. Legally, it opens you up to problems, but from an amoral perspective I am going to say…just refuse consent unless the terms are favorable. So, grapplers make sure you have enough friends to run crowd control and a suitable venue. Do this and BJJ has an enviable track record in “real fights”.

Defense against criminal assault is one party consent. If you are the attacker you can use the previous strategy. As the potential victim you have to act “RIGHT NOW” because you are by definition at the scene of the crime. On the other hand you are usually legally, and I submit morally, justified in using potentially lethal force in your defense. So going “hands on” need not be your first answer and focussing on a style that will work when you cannot get to your primary weapon (this will usually be a knife or handgun in the US) and can allow you to literally “fight your way to your gun” is valid.

Criminal assaults often “go hot” at very close range. So if you miss the set up, shit may start at bad breath range. If you don’t miss the set up than the problem is often resolved without physical contact by using tactics, or failing that can be better solved once a weapon is in your hand.

These are just my opinions based on years of study, thought, observation, and learning from my own experiences and the experiences of others who are more qualified than me (some Gun-monkey on the internet).

Having said that I do not think BJJ plus “gun-fu”(actually training and practice, not just owning) is a bad 80% solution for most folks.

Of course, neither is boxing plus firearms.

Regards,

Robert A

I would like to point out that Ju-do and Ju-jitsu originated in the same art. ju-jitsu is the real original art and it encompasses kicks, throws, takedowns and self defense. Judo is the abbreviated version of the art and kept its focus on throws etc and less focus on fighting on the ground.

A common anaolgy I use is Kendo and Kenjitsu… look up the particle jitsu in japansese you will see that what it means and that the word do is just “the way of” Same as Karate do…the way of empty hand fighting, it does not imply a specific style or Ryu. Kendo uses fake swords and Kenjitsu uses real swords. Judo sticks to kicks sweeps and throws for take downs ju jitsu is all encompassing.
That being said I think the MMA and Brazilian jujitsu craze has bypassed much of the stand up game and focused on fighting from your back and submissions…might as well call it submission wrestling but wait someone else is using that.

I have a slight problem with people saying that Brazil is the birthplace of MMA and that BJJ is this or that, uh hello they learned from the Japanese! They have made modifications that do work better than the original style especially with sweeps from half guard etc… again the focus has been laying on the ground fighting and it is pretty cool to practice but not practical in most street situations. The self defense stuff is pretty cool and I would like to do more of it, I know Royce teaches it quite often but I am a MMA junkie and spend all my time doing that right now.

there have been plenty of good things said here

BJJ is excellent in a street situation. BJJ isnt just fighting from your back and submissions. My coach and several of the guys I train with, including police officers, have sick top game and can pretty much destroy without ever pulling guard.

Not my school or people I train with, just a great vid without too much bottom game. Sick D’Arce at 3:18

It is interesting that so many of these threads pop up, asking whether this or that works best in a ‘real’ fight. Any poster who asks the question always gets a huge amount of thoughtful, informed and experienced responses that focus on situational training, awareness etc. It is interesting that mentality gets relatively little focus (althought that may be my bad reading comprehension, so I reserve the right to be completely wrong). In my experience, and I’ve generally (but not always) avoided trouble, your mindset is the deciding factor. Admittedly, I’m not talking about a bar brawl where you might get a busted nose or a black eye and have that be the end of it. In a real fight, where if you go down your head is going to get stomped, your balls kicked in your bones all broken and you’ll get spat on (or worse) while you’re unconscious, the manner and speed with which you accept the situation and decide your response, will generally be the deciding factor.

I would suggest the following from my experience, although I am far from expert compared to many of the people who have already given you sound advice:

Growing up in a rough spot I always made it a point to walk (read run like a schoolgirl) away from genuinely bad situations. In my quieter moments though, far from the madding crowd, I made up my mind that if someone ever made it dangerous/impossible to leave then I would fight to kill them, and that would be the underlying mentality of everything I did. It sounds strange and over the top to some, maybe, but I have found that on the odd occassion when it really mattered, having this decision already made in my head allowed me to make the right decisions to win in the moment. Technique played little part compared to the mental readiness to do lasting, life altering harm (DISCLAIMER: I have never killed/done life altering harm). From the fights I have seen, which forms the bulk of my experience, to me it seems that it is the willingness to kill by one party that will see them prevail against bigger, stronger, more skilled people most of the time. If you honestly want to know what single discipline really wins fights ‘in the street’, it is being the kind of ruthless little shit that would happily take a life and spend their life in prison rather than lose the fight, in my opinon at least. To me, it really does boil down to the simple principle: escalate the level of violence first. Never try and match someone, like you would in sport fighting, never try and restrain them, never try and hurt them just enough, don’t think you’ll hit them and put them off going any further. If you really think you have to fight, fuck their shit up. That is less a matter of technique, and much more a matter of willingness to hurt someone much more than they are willing to hurt you AT THAT MOMENT IN TIME. That could just mean sucker punching them, but it could mean picking up a brick and hitting them over and over again with it.

“This is the law:
There is no possible victory in defense,
The sword is more important than the shield,
And skill is more important than either,
The final weapon is the brain.
All else is supplemental.”

  • John Steinbeck

[quote]LondonBoxer123 wrote:
It is interesting that so many of these threads pop up, asking whether this or that works best in a ‘real’ fight. Any poster who asks the question always gets a huge amount of thoughtful, informed and experienced responses that focus on situational training, awareness etc. It is interesting that mentality gets relatively little focus (althought that may be my bad reading comprehension, so I reserve the right to be completely wrong). In my experience, and I’ve generally (but not always) avoided trouble, your mindset is the deciding factor. Admittedly, I’m not talking about a bar brawl where you might get a busted nose or a black eye and have that be the end of it. In a real fight, where if you go down your head is going to get stomped, your balls kicked in your bones all broken and you’ll get spat on (or worse) while you’re unconscious, the manner and speed with which you accept the situation and decide your response, will generally be the deciding factor.

I would suggest the following from my experience, although I am far from expert compared to many of the people who have already given you sound advice:

Growing up in a rough spot I always made it a point to walk (read run like a schoolgirl) away from genuinely bad situations. In my quieter moments though, far from the madding crowd, I made up my mind that if someone ever made it dangerous/impossible to leave then I would fight to kill them, and that would be the underlying mentality of everything I did. It sounds strange and over the top to some, maybe, but I have found that on the odd occassion when it really mattered, having this decision already made in my head allowed me to make the right decisions to win in the moment. Technique played little part compared to the mental readiness to do lasting, life altering harm (DISCLAIMER: I have never killed/done life altering harm). From the fights I have seen, which forms the bulk of my experience, to me it seems that it is the willingness to kill by one party that will see them prevail against bigger, stronger, more skilled people most of the time. If you honestly want to know what single discipline really wins fights ‘in the street’, it is being the kind of ruthless little shit that would happily take a life and spend their life in prison rather than lose the fight, in my opinon at least. To me, it really does boil down to the simple principle: escalate the level of violence first. Never try and match someone, like you would in sport fighting, never try and restrain them, never try and hurt them just enough, don’t think you’ll hit them and put them off going any further. If you really think you have to fight, fuck their shit up. That is less a matter of technique, and much more a matter of willingness to hurt someone much more than they are willing to hurt you AT THAT MOMENT IN TIME. That could just mean sucker punching them, but it could mean picking up a brick and hitting them over and over again with it. [/quote]

It is the difference between one party being there for a fight and the other being there for combat.

I agree with you - I’ve always said that often, it’s the guy who’s going to be the most brutal the most quickly that will win - who will hit first, who will claw or rip first, who will draw the first knife, who will pull the trigger without thinking.

But at the same time, the notion of severe violence like that is appalling to most people. It’s appalling to me. And the idea that it’s very possible that you’ll spend the rest of your life in prison is even more appalling.