I guess im no longer Cassanova’s perfect man. Whatever am i to do?
True, true…one of the things that’s hard to remember in this game is who you do what you do for.
The answer should be yourself.
Goldberg, when Cass finds her perfect man, beat his pansy bodybuilding ass.
Just kidding.
Sort of.
NEIL G: Fuck the average woman, er, to hell with them (don`t you have standards j/k), well at-least until T-Vixen status becomes mainstream and indeed the average. ;0)
Oh my goodness,
I think I just lost my future husband! Goldberg, you took this all wrong. Geeze, a girl has one bad day and all hell breaks lose. Goldie, you have the brains, the body, and you keep me entertained when we chat via AIM on those lonely Friday nights. (grin)
In terms of other academic/street smart, strong, and good looking guys, there really isn?t all that many out there. Or maybe I’m just not meeting them because I’m always in front of this computer?
Cass, are you saying that you want a guy that understands your passion of academic interests or a man that shares the passion for the same interests (nutrition)?
If it’s the former, they abound. If it’s the latter, they’re more rare, but probably spend a whole lot of time doing what you’re doing, thus you rarely find them. 
Jared, I think I get along better with someone who shares similar academic interests (nutrition, and exercise phys), but also someone who has the same drive -as I have- for success. I’ve never been one to be “average” and I know that appreciate someone who wants to the same things.
Also, it’s strange, but you sound an awfully lot like Maureen. It’s amazing how much delivery of a topic can change the audience’s reaction.
Oh my! From what I’ve heard about this girl, I’m not sure if that’s a good thing! yikes.
Where do we draw the line between EVERYTHING we want, and chasing after some fantasy thats probably just that.
Vain, I’ll draw the line when I get tired of being single. But for now, I’m not in any hurry to settle down. I have too many things that I want to accomplish, that I’m not interested in sacrificing the single status I have to just be with someone for the hell of it.
Also, I’m a firm believer that you find the right person when you’re not looking for it. So, I’m just not looking. PLUS, I’m moving to Connecticut very soon, and it would suck to fall for someone here and then have to leave him.
Cass,
with you 100% on your thoughts…i was being more rhetorical in the initial statement.
Like you said, I think it comes down to developing on your own, and not looking. YOU are the only one that can complete yourself, and once you have down that…self-actualized so to speak…then, its all good.
Also like you said, very few have the drive for perfection…very few…its both a blessing and a curse to have that drive, but one thing is for sure…you do get ahead and you do get what you want.
Vizzle
Well if it were up to me… Smart and sexy girls like Cass would just start emailing me because they saw my website. Life isn’t fair is it? But I think there a a couple of girls like Cass in the US… I hope so… because if not, I am just going to live off prostitutes… haha jk
Sully26 is my perfect man :-). Big, strong, lean (not because he tries) smart, sexy, definatley not enduranced trained. And we both like to lift heavy things!
Arnold’s look in Conan - big, thick, not super cut and vieny but still some nice rounded definition. mmmmmmm.
The Brad Pitt/Fight Club look doesn’t do anything for me.