What’s amazing to me, is that other people generally have a very difficult time grasping the concept you speak of WestCoast (carving your own path, living for you).
I go out. I decide not to drink.
Of course inquiring minds need to figure out why someone would do such a thing.
I tell people, “I am not drinking because I do not want to drink” they always have to ask why.
I simply say “I don’t want to do it, so I’m not.”
If I’m feeling friendly and not annoyed (you know, for the first 5 people that harass me about it) I’ll maybe go into detail about how I don’t really enjoy alcohol that much, or how I try to live a healthy lifestyle, or that I dont see the point in drinking because it doesnt really serve ME any purpose or advantage. I also make sure to note that I dont judge or condemn the use of it by others. I let people do what they want. To each their own…
However regardless of the description,
They ask why again.
I say “because I do, in life, what I want to do. I live for myself”
They stare at me like I’m an alien…
Anybody have a surefire way to get this point across more simply and easily? It’d be nice not to be annoyed by the multi-person interrogation every night. It doesnt stop me from going out or staying sober however!
I have considered just telling people I’m a recovering alcoholic lol
It still fits my worldview because I love messing with people haha