[quote]florelius wrote:
[quote]SteelyD wrote:
[quote]florelius wrote:
… and my goal is to look good nekkid [/quote]
IMO, the use of this phrase often by T-Nation authors and the interpretation of most people who use it often has contributed more to the derailment of T-Nation’s direction toward ‘bodybuilding’ (ie. the getting bigger part of bodybuilding) than just about anything else on this site.
Sure, I wanna ‘look good nekkid’, too, but not at the expense of meeting my size/strength goals, which I would think (hope) would be the common goal on a ‘bodybuilding’ forum. I think the goal of getting ‘skinny and abzey’ probably belongs more in the ‘Conditioning’ or ‘VDiet’ forums-- BB competition dieting, like Stu’s thread excluded, of course.
Hell, I’m fine with looking “good enough nekkid”.[/quote]
my goal is to gain weight, not get skinny with a skinny pack, thats where i am now. Even so I do now I cant be a pro BB or PL, I am born as a weak and skinny guy. I started out as a 48kg guy, I am now 60kg. so a realistic goal for me is not to be 90kg ripped. If this is a problem for you guys, then I am sorry but I am not leaving T-Nation because of that.[/quote]
Well, first, nobody asked you to leave T-Nation.
Second, you’ll certainly never get much bigger with THAT attitude-- you’ve already defeated yourself dude! Seriously, how can you possibly force your body to do something it wants if on every rep you’re subconsciously (or consciously) reinforcing to yourself that you’ll NEVER get big. Along the lines of an art thread in G.A.L. right now, I can totally visualize myself with the arms/torso/legs I’m looking to build. It’s going to take a fuckton more food and that much more work.
Third, why isn’t 90kg realistic— what is that, around 200-ish? You qualify it with ‘ripped’. How about “90kg relatively lean”, or “90kg smooth”? If you can get to 90kg smooth, and you can live with it, you can diet down to 80kg and look leaner, no?
I’ve been working out with a kid (I say kid, he’s like 22 or 23) who is 6’-3". He’s got skinnyman disease and always used the word ‘hardgainer’. He asked me for ‘advice’ awhile back, and I said “start eating like a man”. In a few months, he’s put on about 15 pounds since around Aug/September. He looks a little fuller and his weights have gone up even given his crappy leverages (see? another ‘excuse’ he used).
He set his mind to it, and he’s been executing to meet the goal: Eat enough to grow, workout 5 days a week. In that short time he has passed his buddies at the gym who still eat like birds and hit the weights at ‘scrimmage speed’.
I’m just sayin.