How I Train, Eat, and Think About Stuff

I just found this thread recently and did wonder at your lack of posts but have to say this has been an awesomely informative read. You don’t know me, but as far as I’m concerned you don’t have a damn thing to be ashamed about. Life happens to throw curveballs every once in a while and you just have to deal with it as best you can.

It’s how you recover and what you learn from it that is most important. And given how things have turned out you seem to have done pretty well there. :slight_smile:

Considering all you’ve been through, getting back in to shape will be the easy part!

It’s just nice to hear that you’re ok. As weird as the whole ‘knowing’ people in cyberspace concept is, you’re one of the folks that others not only respect, but genuinely like, and when you just go ‘missing’,… well, it seems no one from this site has any method of checking to see if everything’s cool or not. So in light of that, it’s good to see you back.

Sounds like you had quite a run there, and let’s face it, you seem to have taken care of your business as well as anyone could have hoped to. Training, competing,… that’s fun, but as I usually point out, it’s not your ‘real’ life, it’s the fun stuff. Obviously you’ll get back to where you were, you’ve got the know-how, and you’ve got the desire. Also, I imagine there’s a nice peace of mind that comes with having taken care of so many issues that must have always been chomping away at the back of your mind, so enjoy that!

All the best brother, glad to have you back.

S

[quote]ParagonA wrote:
I feel ashamed. This really isn’t what you expect or want to hear from somebody some had called role model. This really doesn’t sound very “T-man’ish”.
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Nonsense - nothing to be ashamed of for helping your family. That makes a bigger man than all the muscle in the world. Best of luck with things from here on out…

It’s good to see that things have turned around for you and your family. I have a brother that is not, and has not been on the best terms with my mom and it really is depressing to know, but he has started to come around recently. I’m gad your brother has come around with your dad, again. It’s sad to see family not be able to get along, when that should be the only thing that really matters.

As Stu said, you’re one of the posters on the site most people follow and even like. And it’s weird how a little part of us worries for you when we only know you through the internet :slight_smile: but I’m glad to see you’re alright!

Good to have you back, ParagonA. Glad to hear all is well with the family. IMHO, your serious commitment to your family is exactly the kind of thing that makes you such a good role model. You have nothing to be ashamed of. I hope everything goes well with getting back into ‘fantastic shape’ (I’m sure you are already there by the definitions of most of us lol).

You are a role model; even more so now. Taking care of what you have to, no matter what the cost, is what makes the man.

[quote]thoughts1053 wrote:
You are a role model; even more so now. Taking care of what you have to, no matter what the cost, is what makes the man.[/quote]

My thoughts exactly.

You dont owe ANY of us on T-Nation a damn thing, which is why its great that you give us these nice, long, thoughtful posts.

A “real man” takes care of his family, and thats what you have done brother. I know you’re not fishing for compliments, but thats the truth as I see it.

I truly am glad everything seems to be working out for you and yours. I hope it keeps up.

Overcoming all those obstacles proves you so much more that a “T-Man”

Everyone has already expressed everything i was thinking. Very motivational and a perfect role model for everyone. It shows that you know your priorities and know how to handle your business whether that be the weight room or family affairs. Great to have you back and glad everythign worked out


Thank you all very much! I can’t express how honored I feel by your posts, kind words and best wishes.
I know it’s just cyberspace, but behind every avatar “hides” a real human being - and I believe on this site one finds some impressively noble versions of our species.

I would like to let you know what I am currently doing in order to regain strength and some weight. Here we go:

TRAINING

As I’ve always done when it comes to build muscle and strength, I currently keep a very low-tech approach with my training. I work out 6 days a week. On 2 or 3 of these days I work out twice a day. I used to schedule in a lot more sessions in my weeks, but currently, this is about the maximum I find the time for and, even more importantly, my body can handle.

I limit myself to the following:

  1. Olympic Lifts (Snatch, Cleans)
  2. Powerlifts (Bench Press, Front and Back Squat, Overhead Press, Deadlift)
  3. Dips and Chins/Pullups as auxiliary exercises
  4. Additional Band Work, Tension Holds, Ring Work and TRX Work.

That’s it…

I don’t have an exact plan, I just follow the following rules:

  1. Mondays (usually 2 sessions) are fully dedicated to the Oly Lifts.
  2. Fridays are fully dedicated to the powerlifts, or one or two of them I feel I need to work on the most
  3. I lift heavy stuff whenever I hit the gym…
  4. I try to be as explosive as possible in a rep range of 1-5 reps and 40-90% of my current 1RM
  5. I don’t have a real rep or set target for each session. I just want to “spend time” with an exercise “in the zone”
  6. I usually don’t do more than 2, sometimes 3 exercises per session
  7. I don’t grind…

Point 5 might be a bit confusing. I give you an example. Last Friday I did a deadlift workout (regular deadlifts, raw). I worked in the range of 350-375lbs, which are very light weights for me. But I was so incredibly explosive, my performance was fantastic and I just “felt it”. I was “in the zone”. I ended up doing roughly 35 sets and a hundred total reps.

Another workout last week consisted of nothing but 3 sets of front squats. Performance was so poor, I just couldn’t accelerate the weight, technique was limited, nervous system activation was poor. So I stopped the workout to come back 6 hours later for a great front squat workout. I did 10 sets of 3 with 320lbs, which, again, is a rather light weight for me. In between sets and after the squats I did pullups for a total of 195 reps.

It’s pretty much autoregulation. If the energy is there, my CNS gets activated properly and I feel I am “in the zone”, I just want to spend time with that exercise I am doing as long as possible. I always make sure I stop before me performance decreases.

The additional work with bands, rings, TRX band I do before the main lifts as part of the warm-up, in between sets and after workouts as a cool down, over lunch break, or in the evenings at home. In short: as often and much as possible. I really just want to add some volume here and increase my motor skills, especially my ability to create whole body tension, and, what I call “explosive tension” (i.e. being able to create maximum whole body tension as quick as possible).

The latter not only improves technique and quality of the main lifts, but is also very functional and protective in daily life. Imagine you stumble over something. An untrained individual with poor motor skills will fall and get injured. A well-trained athlete with great motor skills (that would be the ability to create whole body tension quickly as well as explosive force production) will be in an immediate “alert state”.

All the body’s muscles will immediately tension up, hips, lower back, thorax and shoulder girdle will be stable, one leg will drive explosively to the front and catch the whole body in some sort of split squat position. The arms will be tense as well and stabilize the whole motion, which will have been completed in only a fraction of a second.
But I digress…

CONDITIONING

I do some sort of conditioning work 3-4 times a week. I like to use a mixture of Prowler work, sprints, Kettlebell work, sandbag work, jump rope and jumps of all kinds. Jumps are really more to work on explosiveness and less of a conditioning drill, but I still ist them here.

NUTRITION

Again, I keep it fairly simple. The first meal of the day is always my peri-workout protocol:

  • 2 Finibars (run out of them just the other day and will have to reorder this week)
  • 3-4 scoops Surge Workout Fuel
  • 20g additional BCAA
  • 10g Glutamine
  • 50g Whey Protein Isolate
    I know it looked different in the past, but this is what I am using at the moment.

Then I’ll have two more meals every day. I prefer a few big meals over many small ones when I try to gain size and strength.
My meals consist of:

  • unlimited veggies
  • 1-2 pieces of fruit, 1 portion of berries
  • 50g of mixed nuts, almonds, pumpkin seeds, or peanut butter
  • 10g olive oil
  • 5g fish oil
  • 2 to 5 eggs
  • 350g meat (beef, venison, buffalo, ostrich), chicken or fish (mostly salmon)
  • 150g probiotic yoghurt

If I get hungry in between meals (which usually happens mid-afternoon) I snack on veggies and nuts and sometimes another piece of fruit.

If I have another training session I follow the same peri-workout protocol as in the morning. For conditioning workouts I only use the BCAA and Glutamine/Whey shake post-workout.

SUPPLEMENTS

I use the ones mentioned in the peri-workout protocol above. In addition to that, I use:

500mg magnesium
30mg zinc
4000 IU Vitamin D
Superfood/Greens supplement

MY NEXT ORDER

Funny, but some PM’d me and asked about my supplement strategy and an next order… Honestly, I love supplements and I have been a very loyal Biotest customer for almost a decade. But still, it’s “only” supplements. The things people should really care about more in order to get strong and gain some size are:

  • lifting heavy stuff as often as possible
  • eating a lot of animal protein, some fruits and tons of veggies, berries and nuts/seeds.

Another answer to a question I was asked twice: I always try to buy organic. I buy organic, grass-fed beef, organic veggies and fruits, etc.
I know there is a big debate going on whether this is any better than buying non-organic. I just like to keep my life simple and don’t over-investigate or over-intellectualize it, and just buy organic whenever possible.

I will order some supps by the end of this week, though. Here we go:

  • Finibars (by far the most underrated Biotest supplement and my personal favourite)
  • Surge Workout Fuel (also a reorder)
  • Superfood (I just like it much better than all the other greens supplements)
  • Flameout (use another brand right now, but Flameout is the gold standard)
  • Elitepro Minerals (to cover my magnesium and zinc supplementation)

That’s it. Very simple and pretty basic :slight_smile:

Happy to answer any questions.

Yours,
PA

I don’t see shame anywhere… only a man at its best.

Glad to see things are coming together.

I love how your light weights are well above my PRs. You are one strong man. And that is after a huge gym layoff and large sickness. Great to see you killing it again. You will be back up to superhuman level in no time flat.

Your progross over the last months is very impressive. And I am quite a bit older than you are. I believe you will be much stronger than me not to far in the future. Just keep up the great work. And the enthusiasm. Progress comes easier if you do the things you do with PASSION :slight_smile:

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:
I love how your light weights are well above my PRs. You are one strong man. And that is after a huge gym layoff and large sickness. Great to see you killing it again. You will be back up to superhuman level in no time flat.[/quote]

Great update, thanks for the information.

Really means alot coming from you. You are one of the members on here i respect the most. I have been able to train with synergy once a week and he has given some amazing guidance. You two train in the same fashion and are both big advocates of the basics. In fact this wed we talked for a long time about just getting strong in the basics and that is the best way to do things.

Hope you are able to keep giving updates. This is a gold mine of info. Also hope life smooths out for you. You deserve it.

Hey man!

Thank you very much for your post.

Yes, it’s funny, there are quite a few similarities between Synergy and myself. Okay, he’s much bigger than I am… But we train pretty much the same and I feel the way we think about our training, or what it means to us, is pretty much equal.
Funny thing: there a quite a few other guys here on T-Nation who belong to the same clan of iron warriors (and, yes, you are one of them, too). That’s why I love this site so much.

Cheers, PA

[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:
Really means alot coming from you. You are one of the members on here i respect the most. I have been able to train with synergy once a week and he has given some amazing guidance. You two train in the same fashion and are both big advocates of the basics. In fact this wed we talked for a long time about just getting strong in the basics and that is the best way to do things.

Hope you are able to keep giving updates. This is a gold mine of info. Also hope life smooths out for you. You deserve it.[/quote]

I’m glad your back PA. Really happy you made the decision to basically be the superhero within your family and save everyone else, though it sounds like that’s a choice you made a long time ago and have continued to make ever since then.

I’m looking forward to the goldmine continuing… this thread is just a cut above. I’m right there with you on organic food and basic, time proven supplements. Hope to one day hang around you in the size and strength departments, as I’m sure many other members do here.

A short update sent from my iPhone.
Snatched 220 today. Bench press yesterday: 365 for a total of 45 reps in 20 minutes. Strength is coming back. Very happy.
Cheers, PA

Lurker in this thread, so far.
Good you’re back, Paragon, all the best.