You know that feeling when you are talking to a borderline girl who is into you, but you aren’t sure whether the effort is worth it; you’re leaving your options open as you talk to her while feeling a mixture of confidence and apathy (a feeling of latent power)? If you can apply that to your dealings with the hotties-- in a way not too obvious to her-- you will do well.
Be a player, charm the pants off all chicks so when you run across a hottie it’s old hat, then you’re money.
Remember you are NEVER rejected, you just find out that some girls have poor taste…
And someone said don’t play her game she just wants you to start something so she can reject you. Well, first off, you never know she may want to start something so you can finish by doing the horizontal mambo, or vertical, or perpendicular, etc, etc. But if she is just trying to play you, that’s when you unleash the inner smartass that can point out every imperfection and problem and psychosis that pretty women have. I hate to do it, but sometimes you just have to give them a little something back that they give you. 
rickbravo thas right
The worst thing you could possibly do is be “yourself”. Whatever the fuck that is in the first place. You need to just realize that nothing you do actually matters in the grande or even local scheme of life and just start to talk to her. There is no possible way she is going to blow you off completely or make fun of you. That type of stuff just doesn’t happen in the real world. Be calm, the reason she is looking at you is because most women have different standards of what to look for in a man. They look for a nice face and an “acceptable build”. As long as you don’t come off creepy date rape ish, you’ll get her number or a date. Two studies were done in which men went around campus asking random girls out. 50% of them said yes sure I will. The study was repeated in about 1990 with the same results. Women are always more nervous than you are.
posted it in the wrong topic but oh well… just say at the end of the first convo “Eh, I’ll see ya round her name” and just walk away. She’ll wonder why you didn’t ask her out. Then next time at the end of the convo ask her out or for phone. It’s easier that way because it proves you aren’t a desparate weirdo or a psycho.
emckee: as fucked up as that line of thinking is, it’s probably the best advice I’ve seen given here and the absolute right attitude.
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Watching the classic B action movie “The Substitute” the other night, I couldn’t help but think how aptly the line, “Power perceived is power achieved,” applies to the dynamics of intergender relations.
No, a girl has never looked at me like that. You are lucky!
Jeff, you would blush if they did.
The thing is this…you “holler” and keep moving. This week so far I’ve hollered at 7 women. I got 1 number, and gave mines out twice. The others had bf’s or were married with kids.
Do I care? No. Keep moving.
The more at bats you have, the more strikeouts you will have, but you will also have more hits.
If you don’t swing you can’t hit…