Wow, flap. Really? Like, the penis could be viewed as like the key, and like the lock is sorta like a vagina, so like the penis goes like, into the vagina and stuff…never thought of it like that, no.
You’re so smart.
Thanks for your concern but we’re doing fine, ta. x
I’m assuming @brickhead isn’t a misogynist, that’s all. I like to remind myself, and everyone, and him, that he is no longer consumed by bitterness, hatred, and playing the victim, which is why he is happily married with a beautiful family. It’s called giving someone the benefit of the doubt, and I was assuming that he glossed over the analogy without giving real thought to how laughably reductionist and childish of an analogy it is.
At the end of the day, you two are so much more different than you are alike, because what we say on the internet is one thing, but how we conduct ourselves in real life, and treat others, is a completely different story. I don’t think you’ll ever have what some of us have, in a loving family, a healthy relationship, and beautiful children to wake up to every day, and that’s legitimately sad. I just wish your presence here was less of dragging brick back into old habits and more a reminder of how his life could have been if he always thought the way you did.
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So you think a man sleeping with a bunch of women is the same as a woman sleeping with a bunch of men?
This is how much feminism has fucked you up dude.
I suggest you watch this podcast
Considering ‘feminism’ means equality, and I think men and women are equally at fault for sleeping around recklessly, I’d say I’m right where I need to be.
And I’m not watching a Joe Rogan podcast on the subject. Have you considered getting your information from somewhere else? I’m happy that I’ve gotten to a point where I’m just amused by your ridiculousness, instead of incensed by it.
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Why don’t you try and explain the difference to us in your own words, O Enlightened One?
What would you do then? I mean, he has a husband and wife on there, Phds, both academics, Is that not good enough for you?
I know you aren’t a scholar, you probably don’t read a lot, or actually delve into topics deeply. So where do you formulate a lot of your outlook? Just life experiences in general? Where, or when did you decide feminism was a good thing and based on what?
just curious
Yes. Yes! This may even be what motivates my endless willingness to engage this asshat. I see lovely men and women in their 20’s ALL THE TIME having delightful datings and relationship beginnings and engagements and weddings and discoveries of pregnancy. And I see them getting dumped and cheated on and having trouble attracting people. Of course! Life is variable.
Similarly I see super healthy people in their late 70’s and I also see people struggling to walk down a hallway in their early 60’s.
On the question of the lock and key, there is no way I’d go into a relationship with a male slut. Not when I was 20, not now. It’s icky, not cool.
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? No, dude, hahaha you just don’t get it, which is par for the course at this point - I am happy and comfortable with my beliefs. I am happy and comfortable with my family, my relationship, and my life, even when it’s hard. I don’t need echo chambers to reinforce my insecurities. I just wish Brick realized that he doesn’t need that stuff either. I’m way past the point of trying to change your mind on anything. Despite your supposed need for anonymity you’ve given us more than enough information about your life for me to determine that I want no part of the way you think or act.
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Show some respect dude…
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Once again, @brickhead - look past the supposed shared interests and see how this is a disgusting thing to say to a woman. This is on top of calling her trailer trash and a dumb bitch.
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My irony-meter is broken.
Weren’t you supposed to be taking a break from here?
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Nobody does, that’s why Brick grew out of it.
I remember when Brick and I were discussing the declining family units in this country, and we saw eye to eye on the vast majority of talking points (except where I disagreed that cheating should be govt level illegal). The biggest agreement we came to was that most of modern day breakdown in the family unit, from the male side of the fence, was due to immature men not ready to be father figures, yet still expecting quality mates.
He’s procrastinating on that too.
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He is.
So, about those happy marriages and relationships…
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QED.
I was pretty, pretty sure that the last over the top aspersion cast at @EmilyQ was going to get “noticed” ROFLMFAO.
Legitimately, thank you to you and the admin staff.
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I’ll kick it back off with something a little jaded and whatnot.
I think the 2 largest factors to relationship success is:
- religious background
- financials leanings / general responsibleness with money
Change my mind.
I was going to delete my response to that, but I see it was already removed. Thank you!
The second, definitely. The first is probably only an issue in the States if one or both of the partners are devout. People who are largely culturally whatever-they-are probably won’t have an issue.
Other areas of unresolvable conflict are views on child rearing, partner’s families (which could relate to religion), and sex.
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