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Do you ever wonder why though, mate? I’m not digging you out or anything but have you ever considered that perhaps it’s you who’s the problem and not everybody else?

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I see things here haven’t changed much while I’ve been away…

This exact interaction has happened at least a dozen times with this poster. I’m sure it makes us feel better to say it, but I’m very doubtful that it actually makes an impression on the gentleman. Alas.

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I’m curious, who is the “we” who do?

I can guess at one or two who might endorse that statement, but it’s probably best not to group people as diverse as the ones posting here, and speaking for others is always problematic unless asked.

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Sorry, I didn’t want to come off to him as abrasive

Which is absolutely fine, it’s just pluralizing the sentiment to include others that I question. It’s a clique behavior, which “we” have been accused of at times, but I think the diversity of the posters here makes a clique unlikely. There seems to be a majority of posters in OT who share a general outlook on male/female dynamics which amounts to “not doomed,” but beyond that I don’t know that there are majority-shared political positions.

Even GB…he seems to feel about Trump as I do. Are we “we”?

It’s just best to be “I.”

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I honestly don’t have a problem with abrasive people and I don’t have a problem with greenboy based solely on the fact that he’s “abrasive”. Older posters can confirm that I have been one of the few defenders of the most abrasive poster to have ever posted on this site.

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If we have the same person in mind, I actually hope he’s doing alright.

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Now I’m dying to know who the all-time most abrasive poster is, lol.

I don’t have a problem with abrasive people, and have enjoyed my interactions with people like @orion and Professor X. What I don’t like is for someone to move to personal insults, and then start screaming bloody murder when someone reacts with scorn or disapproval or mockery or whatever.

@anna_5588 is nice. I would never intentionally insult her. When someone calls me “stupid as fuck” I feel less constrained.

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It was PX.

I actually kind of liked him.

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Challenge accepted.

@EmilyQ

What I don’t like is for someone to move to personal insults, and then start screaming bloody murder when someone reacts with scorn or disapproval or mockery or whatever.

When someone calls me “stupid as fuck” I feel less constrained.

Then you should probably work on your condescending tone. Different things can piss different people off. I’m starting to wonder if you even know that you’re doing it, which is even more of a problem since you actually might do this IRL.

He actually had significant training knowledge, development, and pic portfolio.

You aren’t even remotely qualified.

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See, this is the type of condescending tone that he’s talking about. Jeeze, can’t you think of his feelings??

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I’m a bit myopic if I do say so myself!

can you type that bigger? My hearing isn’t good

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I would but I can’t understand your post. I stutter pretty badly when I read.

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most of you in this off topic section don’t have that , wtf hahahha

I haven’t seen pics of polo, or many of DT, York, dagill ,Pfury, …

at this point I know @SkyzykS is about the banter, and I’m good with that, I actually enjoy it, until it becomes purposely malicious.

Let me explain this in the simpliest way possible.

You trying to be PX is like Ant Man developing an edgy streak and deciding he wants to be Thanos.

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Yes, but also actually lift, with many pics over the years IRL meet ups, and a few in my log now, the 2020 transformation, etc.

You?