I’m always crude.
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If you mean “chores” to include sex, it’s probably not the right relationship, because that should be categorized as a leisure time activity.
Sex maintains marriages, not households. My mind was not there, at all.
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Okay. Good then. ~fist bump~
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Let me clarify for the sake of not being asked the same question again: Work, in whatever context you perceive it, should be distributed equally among partners, regardless of gender, not including sex because if you’re paying your wife (because let’s be fucking honest, this really doesn’t work the other way around) to sleep with you directly or indirectly she’s a whore (in the dictionary sense of the word too, before everyone tells me not to use that terminology), and you’re her client.
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I can only talk from my own experience, but as a night owl, trying to wake up early and do stuff in the morning usually made me do sub-par work.
Studying for pharmacy school, for example, came easy for me. So if I needed to wake up early to study, then I could do so. But writing a novel, on the other hand, was something that took a lot more focus and mental energy. If I tried to do that early in the day, I’d just write horribly and have to waste time editing everything later. For that, what worked best was writing when I FELT like it. That resulted in me writing better quality stuff. The only problem was that I’d often start writing at 11pm and continue until 7am the next day even though I had school/work/interning that morning. But I didn’t care because the writing was more important.
Controversial opinion, but I don’t believe procrastination, motivation and discipline exist. I have a strong innate desire to write fiction, so I do it even if I’m super tired and don’t feel like it. No “motivation” needed. For stuff I don’t care about, I end up “procrastinating,” “needing a schedule,” and “needing motivation.” If I need a schedule or discipline to do something, then that’s usually a sign that I don’t really care about it at all.
I completely agree with all of this. Completely. I wasn’t sure of your meaning in the first post, but we’re on the same page about all if it.
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Oh, okay. Cool. @dagill2 let’s get square
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I figured we’d already agreed man.
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Then this means I care about nothing but working out and watching futbol. lol
dude, read her fucking responses to these. She has the richest man in the world hitting her up and she’s playing that fucking game…dudes in the states are ruining it for the rest of men around the world.
Don’t let feminism infiltrate anything
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She’s married. She valued her husband more than the check. Just because neither of us have experienced this kind of unconditional and unrequited love from our parents doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. 
Yeah, but step back for a second.
She was married to a famous NFL player then to one of the founders of William Morris, and just so happens to receive text messages from Bezos? uhhhhhh
Mind you, she’s 50 with a ton of plastic done.
Like WTF. WTF is wrong with these dudes? this is the state of the United States man. It’s fucking up men all over, no matter what income bracket.
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Did she cheat on either of them? And who cares what she looks like? If they both cheated on her, that’s their problem. Lol.
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Those terms have been in use for a very long time.
WAAAYYYY be for the internet. 
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Then this means I care about nothing but working out and watching futbol. lol
Haha. That’s usually the response I get from people. Speaking from my own experience, even if my desire is something I consider time wasting (like just watching football), it’s usually indicative of some grander desire.
Personal examples:
- Watching MMA for hours = I want to train MMA
- Spending hours on porn = I want to get laid often
- Watching endless cartoons = I want to get into the animation industry
I realized my desire to write fiction because I’d spend hours daydreaming about random stories while in school.
We respect your opinion, but continually disrespecting some of the most respected posters in the forum is stepping a bit out of line
When I first saw this thread, I didn’t read the opening post and so I thought it was just a general thread on relationships. But after seeing the opening post and going through it… Holy shit what a clusterfuck haha.
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“be the change you want to see in the world”
We’ve been trying to “derail” the thread in that direction
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Sigh… yes, I know.
you mean respected posters within the off topic section? I have to deal with condescending tone on almost every reply towards me so… fuck em.