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Well, you know best, but it sounds pretty bad. Maybe a “break” until certain things change.
This really sounds like she is cheating on you.
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Prob with the ex and the babby daddy!
Who the fuck seriously dates women with kids?
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White Knights, and other silly blue pill fucks who drink the feminist kool-aid. Poor guys just don’t know any better.[/quote]
Does this apply to single fathers, also?[/quote]
I was wondering that…[/quote]
No, it doesn’t in my books. Parents that take care of their kids are awesome and yet they suffer more judgment than deadbeat parents.
White knights, blue pills, feminist kool aid…sounds like somebody has their own unresolved issues.
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Having kids =/= too much baggage.
Having kids while willfully perpetuating all sorts of stupid drama with people with substance abuse issues = too much baggage. Way too much.
I totally agree that writing somebody off out of hand just because they have kids is just ignorant, regardless of gender. However, kids will absolutely compound any issues that person already may already have. [/quote]
I hear what you’re saying. The white knight, blue pill, kool aid comment made you yourself sound like you have your own baggage. Maybe it just struck a chord with me somehow.
In this case, I would agree that the OP has reason for concern. Although I wouldn’t really question her being a single mother, I would definitely question why she would have characters with substance abuse problems at her house where her children are. Personally, I don’t think I’d stay in a relationship like that, not because I didn’t like the other person, but because it would really cause me to question where their priorities lie…it should be with caring for and keeping her children safe, not shuffling bf’s and ex’s around.[/quote]
White knight blue pill guy is a whole other guy. I just jumped into the conversation.[/quote]
Crap. Sorry about that. lol Really. I suck. My bad.