With regard to Walkway and his statements about women, I often wonder how the majority of women of my generation can be so much sleazier, than previous generations. Finding a woman who fits the bill is certainly a challenge; one I haven’t been successful with.
I’m over the whole mental game/proving grounds. It’s just a conundrum of clusterfuckery that takes me to a place I don’t want to be.
I don’t think I’ll ever adhere to it.
Obviously I’m going to hear “you’re looking in the wrong places” but it shouldn’t be that hard.
[quote]Kakarat wrote:
With regard to Walkway and his statements about women, I often wonder how the majority of women of my generation can be so much sleazier, than previous generations. Finding a woman who fits the bill is certainly a challenge; one I haven’t been successful with.
I’m over the whole mental game/proving grounds. It’s just a conundrum of clusterfuckery that takes me to a place I don’t want to be.
I don’t think I’ll ever adhere to it.
Obviously I’m going to hear “you’re looking in the wrong places” but it shouldn’t be that hard.
I can’t be the only jaded one.
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You’re not lol. I made a post pretty much exactly like this in some other thread. Basically the gist was “No, I’m not looking in the wrong places, and it shouldn’t be this hard.”
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
C)I like being a virgin… I like what it symbolizes… “purity” “untainted-ness”. It adds an element of exclusivity to who I am. it makes me a rare commodity…It’s what sets me apart from just about every other guy… women are always so surprised to hear about my innocence (my friends always put me on blast whenever I meet a new girl). I could easily be like everyone else… but how would that be special? [/quote]
I don’t think being a virgin really symbolizes anything for a man. I guess that’s a double standard, but whatever. Women don’t prefer virgins anyhow (although I guess you’re not worried about that). There’s only an “innocent, pure, untainted” aspect to it if you’re a girl. Besides what guy wants to be those things? There are more and better ways to differentiate yourself and be “special”. For example not being a fat, weak piece of shit like most humans.
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you would be surprised… women are always comparing themselves to other women, in every way imaginable. they know that a virgin guy has so sexual experience to recall, and therefore would not be comparing them to any woman he has already had… this means a lot to a girl if they are honest with themselves… they would enjoy the comfort of knowing that she is the best he has ever had, because she is the only he has ever had. That’s what I meant about exclusivity.
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Sooooo… You want a woman who is so insecure that she is comforted by the fact that you are with her because you don’t have anything to compare her to? That’s a pretty weak position. And with your VAST experience with the fairer sex, you think they will be able to truly trust and give themselves to a man who lacks the experience to lead them? Perhaps the weak willed waif you have on your little pedestal, but not a woman worth having.
Your view of women is skewed. I mean, I’m a male chauvinist pig with mommy issues and misogynistic tendencies, and I think your view of women is just sad.
Frankly, your position smacks of blind, self indulgent humility, which in my experience stems from fear. What are you REALLY afraid of? Being judged? No way around that, brutha.
Methinks YOU are the one who would find comfort in knowing that she has no one else to compare YOU to…
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Hmmmm… You’ve been here a year and have over 100 posts so odds are that you’re not a troll…
Remember that old confession/question thread that got lost when SAMA went away?
Perhaps a new public evolution is in order.
OP, are you interested in re-evaluating some of your limiting beliefs and getting this part (and by necessity, other parts) of your life handled?
If so, take a step out of your victim mentality and convince me.
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I don’t post ever, mostly lurk. I’ll take this torch if OP wants no part of it. I’ve pulled off some decent success with women, but I still have some residual low self confidence from earlier in life that I need to get rid of.[/quote]
Sorry, but that’s not how it works. Post more so I can see what you’re about. Right now you are tabula rasa to me.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Sooooo… You want a woman who is so insecure that she is comforted by the fact that you are with her because you don’t have anything to compare her to? That’s a pretty weak position. [/quote]
im not sure how you misunderstood my words to mean this, but I will agree with you that it is a pretty weak position.
what do you mean lacks experience to lead them? plowing through pussy after pussy will help me lead women?
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Your view of women is skewed. I mean, I’m a male chauvinist pig with mommy issues and misogynistic tendencies, and I think your view of women is just sad.
Frankly, your position smacks of blind, self indulgent humility, which in my experience stems from fear. What are you REALLY afraid of? Being judged? No way around that, brutha.
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I don’t think you truly have your mind wrapped around my view of women. if there is something im afraid of, I have no clue what it is… but it’s certainly not being judged.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Methinks YOU are the one who would find comfort in knowing that she has no one else to compare YOU to… [/quote]
I can see why you would think this… but I can assure you that I am certainly better off than any broke, unfaithful (yes), uneducated, tiny, genital herpes infested (yes), homeless (yes), small dicked (yes), thin shouldered, ex-convict (yes), abusive (yes), methhead (yes) excuses for men that my female acquaintances and friends are sleeping with.
btw the (yes)'s indicate characteristics of guys they have been with, and are currently with.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Sooooo… You want a woman who is so insecure that she is comforted by the fact that you are with her because you don’t have anything to compare her to? That’s a pretty weak position. [/quote]
im not sure how you misunderstood my words to mean this, but I will agree with you that it is a pretty weak position.
what do you mean lacks experience to lead them? plowing through pussy after pussy will help me lead women?
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Your view of women is skewed. I mean, I’m a male chauvinist pig with mommy issues and misogynistic tendencies, and I think your view of women is just sad.
Frankly, your position smacks of blind, self indulgent humility, which in my experience stems from fear. What are you REALLY afraid of? Being judged? No way around that, brutha.
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I don’t think you truly have your mind wrapped around my view of women. if there is something im afraid of, I have no clue what it is… but it’s certainly not being judged.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Methinks YOU are the one who would find comfort in knowing that she has no one else to compare YOU to… [/quote]
I can see why you would think this… but I can assure you that I am certainly better off than any broke, unfaithful (yes), uneducated, tiny, genital herpes infested (yes), homeless (yes), small dicked (yes), thin shouldered, ex-convict (yes), abusive (yes), methhead (yes) excuses for men that my female acquaintances and friends are sleeping with.
btw the (yes)'s indicate characteristics of guys they have been with, and are currently with.
and no im not joking. [/quote]
2nd post in this forum. Sounds like the problem is the type of person you surround yourself with, male and female. High quality men attract high quality women. I am jealous (not in a negative way, more that I hope for the same someday) of the quality of women some of my friends are in serious relationships with.
I don’t believe there is anything wrong with you not having had a relationship at your age. I had one for several years starting at your age (now 24), pretty much because I felt I should. It was a fucking disaster. I spent the whole thing essentially sabotaging it by deliberately not getting attached.
The reality of my current situation is that I am not ready to have a long term committed relationship, due to aspirations of getting beyond where my life circumstances would otherwise see me land. What scares/bothers me is how many great girls I know that I stay clear of to make sure that I don’t end up distracted from getting where I want to go in terms of getting set over the next few years. Seriously, if you’ve got the rest of your shit in order as much as you say you do, you shouldn’t have any trouble finding a great girl, or mates you can speak more highly of.
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
Ahhhh the old “giving up on women” charade. About as accurate as “I’m never drinking again”.[/quote]
Y’know, every now and again, somebody will make a statement like that, and they’ll mean it. I’m not saying they should, and I’m not saying this guy means it, unless he plans to pursue slurping on tube steaks instead of playing with boobies, but I woke up one morning saying “I’m never drinking again” and I haven’t had a drop since. Course, it wasn’t the first time I’d said that, but still.
But to be clear, I haven’t seen any good argument against the pursuit of women in this thread. Just because life isn’t spoon feeding you exactly what you want doesn’t mean it isn’t out there, it just means you’ve got to work a little harder to find it. That’s kind of how life works for most of us.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Sooooo… You want a woman who is so insecure that she is comforted by the fact that you are with her because you don’t have anything to compare her to? That’s a pretty weak position. [/quote]
im not sure how you misunderstood my words to mean this, but I will agree with you that it is a pretty weak position.
what do you mean lacks experience to lead them? plowing through pussy after pussy will help me lead women?
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Your view of women is skewed. I mean, I’m a male chauvinist pig with mommy issues and misogynistic tendencies, and I think your view of women is just sad.
Frankly, your position smacks of blind, self indulgent humility, which in my experience stems from fear. What are you REALLY afraid of? Being judged? No way around that, brutha.
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I don’t think you truly have your mind wrapped around my view of women. if there is something im afraid of, I have no clue what it is… but it’s certainly not being judged.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Methinks YOU are the one who would find comfort in knowing that she has no one else to compare YOU to… [/quote]
I can see why you would think this… but I can assure you that I am certainly better off than any broke, unfaithful (yes), uneducated, tiny, genital herpes infested (yes), homeless (yes), small dicked (yes), thin shouldered, ex-convict (yes), abusive (yes), methhead (yes) excuses for men that my female acquaintances and friends are sleeping with.
btw the (yes)'s indicate characteristics of guys they have been with, and are currently with.
and no im not joking. [/quote]
2nd post in this forum. Sounds like the problem is the type of person you surround yourself with, male and female. High quality men attract high quality women. I am jealous (not in a negative way, more that I hope for the same someday) of the quality of women some of my friends are in serious relationships with.
I don’t believe there is anything wrong with you not having had a relationship at your age. I had one for several years starting at your age (now 24), pretty much because I felt I should. It was a fucking disaster. I spent the whole thing essentially sabotaging it by deliberately not getting attached.
The reality of my current situation is that I am not ready to have a long term committed relationship, due to aspirations of getting beyond where my life circumstances would otherwise see me land. What scares/bothers me is how many great girls I know that I stay clear of to make sure that I don’t end up distracted from getting where I want to go in terms of getting set over the next few years. Seriously, if you’ve got the rest of your shit in order as much as you say you do, you shouldn’t have any trouble finding a great girl, or mates you can speak more highly of. [/quote]
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I can see why you would think this… but I can assure you that I am certainly better off than any broke, unfaithful (yes), uneducated, tiny, genital herpes infested (yes), homeless (yes), small dicked (yes), thin shouldered, ex-convict (yes), abusive (yes), methhead (yes) excuses for men that my female acquaintances and friends are sleeping with.
btw the (yes)'s indicate characteristics of guys they have been with, and are currently with.
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wtf
[quote]Kakarat wrote:
With regard to Walkway and his statements about women, I often wonder how the majority of women of my generation can be so much sleazier, than previous generations. Finding a woman who fits the bill is certainly a challenge; one I haven’t been successful with.
I’m over the whole mental game/proving grounds. It’s just a conundrum of clusterfuckery that takes me to a place I don’t want to be.
I don’t think I’ll ever adhere to it.
Obviously I’m going to hear “you’re looking in the wrong places” but it shouldn’t be that hard.
I can’t be the only jaded one.
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You’re not lol. I made a post pretty much exactly like this in some other thread. Basically the gist was “No, I’m not looking in the wrong places, and it shouldn’t be this hard.”[/quote]
