Giving Up on Women

spar4tee · July 10, 2013, 5:36pm

[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]jbpick86 wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
OMG! DEADPOOL![/quote]

google ‘gentle giant deadpool bust’.

I have that sitting on my desk in my office, along with the venom and wolverine one but i love me some deadpool [/quote]

I like Deadpool but you picked the two others that he would have the hardest time getting my vote over. Venom is the coolest villain ever.[/quote]

I need to bump that favorite comic hero thread. I have already declared how venom is and will always be my favorite. But his stint as a villian isnt as good as his Brock anti-hero phase. I am also a huge fan of the new agent venom series wiht Flash Gordon as the symbiot host.

Deadpool is basically wolverine in concept just with slapstick and the breaking the 4rth wall concept. I mean, he is mentally insane and one of his afflictions is a dellusional fantasy they he is a character in a comic book…

Fuck I am a nerd. Thank god I am good looking and make good money. [/quote]
lol your post doesn’t look nerdy to me at all

Dr_Pangloss · July 10, 2013, 5:36pm

[quote]vancouvernewbie wrote:
If you want to practice go to a starbucks (probably one you don’t go to regularly) and just ask the girl at the counter out. Order your coffee, tell her she is cute and ask for a date. She might turn you down but just the act of asking her out will slowly build you up for when you have another girl in mind.
[/quote]

Awful idea. Don’t ask the barista out, they get asked out by 20 guys a day. It’s a damn cliche by now. Asking out women while they’re working in a service job (waitresses, bartenders, baristas, hookers) is generally skeevy. They are being nice to you to get a big tip. That heart-warming smile she gave you - it’s the same one she just gave the elderly guy in front of you and the same one she’ll give the other single dude behind you. No woman wants to go out with a guy she met while working, only to find out he’s a creep and now he knows where she works. If, on the slight chance, she wants to go out with you, she’ll let you know.

Ask out a girl in line, on the street, anywhere else. But yeah, definitely just ask a girl out. But not your barista.

Waittz · July 10, 2013, 5:38pm

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

I could write a book on this…

A)I believe that the greatest pleasure in life is freedom from pain and distraction. From what ive gathered by observing my male friends is… women bring both pain AND distraction… in abundance. They (my friends and males in general) are so ruled by pussy it’s comical… and disturbing… and pathetic… they stab each other in the back in efforts to obtain it. seems like a corrupting influence.

B)I don’t respect women in the slightest bit… or perhaps it would be more fair to say that ive never met a woman who was worthy of my respect. they are so foolish and impulsive… gluttons for punishment and abuse, they all but beg for pain… through my observation of women, I have become the most cynical person in history. They all appear to be similar in this regard. If anyone here knew my female friends, they would be just as cynical as me… I will go into detail if anyone is curious… it’s pretty wild, but provides a clear understanding of why I feel the way I do about women.

C)I like being a virgin… I like what it symbolizes… “purity” “untainted-ness”. It adds an element of exclusivity to who I am. it makes me a rare commodity…It’s what sets me apart from just about every other guy… women are always so surprised to hear about my innocence (my friends always put me on blast whenever I meet a new girl). I could easily be like everyone else… but how would that be special?

D)I would definitely prefer to be married to a woman who hasn’t been fucked by dozens of guys… and if im going to have to have standards for what I want in someone else… I should meet them myself yes?

E)risk of STD’s… unplanned pregnancies…(I know 4 with STD’s, 1 has genital herpes, other has HIV, and I know 4 who have had unplanned pregnancies)

-girl feeling guilty about it later and claiming you raped her, landing you in jail or worse (happened to a friend of mine).

TL:DR It just doesn’t really seem worth it at this point in time. [/quote]

Lol. I could also reverse the gender in most of your points, and then conclude all men are fucking evil, users, players, liars, manipulators, untrustworthy, diseases-carriers, violent, rapists, wife-beaters, deadbeat dads, motherfuckers son of bitches.

Stop generalising. You can’t assume all women are bad based on a dozen of ‘‘girls’’ you know or based on your friends’ girlfriends. [/quote]

theBeth · July 10, 2013, 5:43pm

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]vancouvernewbie wrote:
If you want to practice go to a starbucks (probably one you don’t go to regularly) and just ask the girl at the counter out. Order your coffee, tell her she is cute and ask for a date. She might turn you down but just the act of asking her out will slowly build you up for when you have another girl in mind.
[/quote]

Awful idea. Don’t ask the barista out, they get asked out by 20 guys a day. It’s a damn cliche by now. Asking out women while they’re working in a service job (waitresses, bartenders, baristas, hookers) is generally skeevy. They are being nice to you to get a big tip. That heart-warming smile she gave you - it’s the same one she just gave the elderly guy in front of you and the same one she’ll give the other single dude behind you. No woman wants to go out with a guy she met while working, only to find out he’s a creep and now he knows where she works. If, on the slight chance, she wants to go out with you, she’ll let you know.

Ask out a girl in line, on the street, anywhere else. But yeah, definitely just ask a girl out. But not your barista.
[/quote]

I asked out my dentist. Bad idea.

spar4tee · July 10, 2013, 5:44pm

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]vancouvernewbie wrote:
If you want to practice go to a starbucks (probably one you don’t go to regularly) and just ask the girl at the counter out. Order your coffee, tell her she is cute and ask for a date. She might turn you down but just the act of asking her out will slowly build you up for when you have another girl in mind.
[/quote]

Awful idea. Don’t ask the barista out, they get asked out by 20 guys a day. It’s a damn cliche by now. Asking out women while they’re working in a service job (waitresses, bartenders, baristas, hookers) is generally skeevy. They are being nice to you to get a big tip. That heart-warming smile she gave you - it’s the same one she just gave the elderly guy in front of you and the same one she’ll give the other single dude behind you. No woman wants to go out with a guy she met while working, only to find out he’s a creep and now he knows where she works. If, on the slight chance, she wants to go out with you, she’ll let you know.

Ask out a girl in line, on the street, anywhere else. But yeah, definitely just ask a girl out. But not your barista.
[/quote]
Very helpful

Derek542 · July 10, 2013, 5:45pm

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]vancouvernewbie wrote:
If you want to practice go to a starbucks (probably one you don’t go to regularly) and just ask the girl at the counter out. Order your coffee, tell her she is cute and ask for a date. She might turn you down but just the act of asking her out will slowly build you up for when you have another girl in mind.
[/quote]

Awful idea. Don’t ask the barista out, they get asked out by 20 guys a day. It’s a damn cliche by now. Asking out women while they’re working in a service job (waitresses, bartenders, baristas, hookers) is generally skeevy. They are being nice to you to get a big tip. That heart-warming smile she gave you - it’s the same one she just gave the elderly guy in front of you and the same one she’ll give the other single dude behind you. No woman wants to go out with a guy she met while working, only to find out he’s a creep and now he knows where she works. If, on the slight chance, she wants to go out with you, she’ll let you know.

Ask out a girl in line, on the street, anywhere else. But yeah, definitely just ask a girl out. But not your barista.
[/quote]

I asked out my dentist. Bad idea.[/quote]
Was that before or after the gas?

Testy1 · July 10, 2013, 5:48pm

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]vancouvernewbie wrote:
If you want to practice go to a starbucks (probably one you don’t go to regularly) and just ask the girl at the counter out. Order your coffee, tell her she is cute and ask for a date. She might turn you down but just the act of asking her out will slowly build you up for when you have another girl in mind.
[/quote]

Awful idea. Don’t ask the barista out, they get asked out by 20 guys a day. It’s a damn cliche by now. Asking out women while they’re working in a service job (waitresses, bartenders, baristas, hookers) is generally skeevy. They are being nice to you to get a big tip. That heart-warming smile she gave you - it’s the same one she just gave the elderly guy in front of you and the same one she’ll give the other single dude behind you. No woman wants to go out with a guy she met while working, only to find out he’s a creep and now he knows where she works. If, on the slight chance, she wants to go out with you, she’ll let you know.

Ask out a girl in line, on the street, anywhere else. But yeah, definitely just ask a girl out. But not your barista.
[/quote]

I asked out my dentist. Bad idea.[/quote]
Was that before or after the gas?[/quote]

Right after the filling.

csulli · July 10, 2013, 5:49pm

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:
I asked out my dentist. Bad idea.[/quote]
Was that before or after the gas?[/quote]
HA! That just reminded me of when I got my wisdom teeth out in high school. The nurse anesthetist was quite buxom. I vaguely remember telling her how hot she was after I started getting all loopy from the gas.

theBeth · July 10, 2013, 5:51pm

[quote]Testy1 wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]vancouvernewbie wrote:
If you want to practice go to a starbucks (probably one you don’t go to regularly) and just ask the girl at the counter out. Order your coffee, tell her she is cute and ask for a date. She might turn you down but just the act of asking her out will slowly build you up for when you have another girl in mind.
[/quote]

Awful idea. Don’t ask the barista out, they get asked out by 20 guys a day. It’s a damn cliche by now. Asking out women while they’re working in a service job (waitresses, bartenders, baristas, hookers) is generally skeevy. They are being nice to you to get a big tip. That heart-warming smile she gave you - it’s the same one she just gave the elderly guy in front of you and the same one she’ll give the other single dude behind you. No woman wants to go out with a guy she met while working, only to find out he’s a creep and now he knows where she works. If, on the slight chance, she wants to go out with you, she’ll let you know.

Ask out a girl in line, on the street, anywhere else. But yeah, definitely just ask a girl out. But not your barista.
[/quote]

I asked out my dentist. Bad idea.[/quote]
Was that before or after the gas?[/quote]

Right after the filling.
[/quote]

More like after I dumped her. It might have been worse if it was my gyno.

Derek542 · July 10, 2013, 5:53pm

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]Testy1 wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]vancouvernewbie wrote:
If you want to practice go to a starbucks (probably one you don’t go to regularly) and just ask the girl at the counter out. Order your coffee, tell her she is cute and ask for a date. She might turn you down but just the act of asking her out will slowly build you up for when you have another girl in mind.
[/quote]

Awful idea. Don’t ask the barista out, they get asked out by 20 guys a day. It’s a damn cliche by now. Asking out women while they’re working in a service job (waitresses, bartenders, baristas, hookers) is generally skeevy. They are being nice to you to get a big tip. That heart-warming smile she gave you - it’s the same one she just gave the elderly guy in front of you and the same one she’ll give the other single dude behind you. No woman wants to go out with a guy she met while working, only to find out he’s a creep and now he knows where she works. If, on the slight chance, she wants to go out with you, she’ll let you know.

Ask out a girl in line, on the street, anywhere else. But yeah, definitely just ask a girl out. But not your barista.
[/quote]

I asked out my dentist. Bad idea.[/quote]
Was that before or after the gas?[/quote]

Right after the filling.
[/quote]

More like after I dumped her. It might have been worse if it was my gyno. [/quote]
Yea those are awkward moments to ask someone out with your legs in the air and a cold speculum in place.

Love_Nike · July 10, 2013, 6:23pm

[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:
Oh and also, I’m 5’7", and if you’re going to use your height as the reason that you’re not getting poontang, you’re just being a pussy.

I’ve dated lots of women. Hooked up with lots of women. Done awful things with lots of women. Never had anything to do with my height, or lack thereof.

My girlfriend now is actually taller than me, and she’s the second girl I’ve dated that has been.

Your problem is in your attitude, not your physical attributes, my friend.[/quote]

I am a big fan of O’Hooligan.

MytchBucanan · July 10, 2013, 6:28pm

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]LankyMofo wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]MytchBucanan wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
don’t worry about it OP, im 23 years old and still have my virginity [/quote]

Bull fucking shit.
[/quote]

that’s basically everyone’s response when they realize ive never had sex[/quote]

Why not then?[/quote]

I could write a book on this…

A)I believe that the greatest pleasure in life is freedom from pain and distraction. From what ive gathered by observing my male friends is… women bring both pain AND distraction… in abundance. They (my friends and males in general) are so ruled by pussy it’s comical… and disturbing… and pathetic… they stab each other in the back in efforts to obtain it. seems like a corrupting influence.

B)I don’t respect women in the slightest bit… or perhaps it would be more fair to say that ive never met a woman who was worthy of my respect. they are so foolish and impulsive… gluttons for punishment and abuse, they all but beg for pain… through my observation of women, I have become the most cynical person in history. They all appear to be similar in this regard. If anyone here knew my female friends, they would be just as cynical as me… I will go into detail if anyone is curious… it’s pretty wild, but provides a clear understanding of why I feel the way I do about women.

C)I like being a virgin… I like what it symbolizes… “purity” “untainted-ness”. It adds an element of exclusivity to who I am. it makes me a rare commodity…It’s what sets me apart from just about every other guy… women are always so surprised to hear about my innocence (my friends always put me on blast whenever I meet a new girl). I could easily be like everyone else… but how would that be special?

D)I would definitely prefer to be married to a woman who hasn’t been fucked by dozens of guys… and if im going to have to have standards for what I want in someone else… I should meet them myself yes?

E)risk of STD’s… unplanned pregnancies…(I know 4 with STD’s, 1 has genital herpes, other has HIV, and I know 4 who have had unplanned pregnancies)

-girl feeling guilty about it later and claiming you raped her, landing you in jail or worse (happened to a friend of mine).

TL:DR It just doesn’t really seem worth it at this point in time. [/quote]

I think it’s unfair to base this on gender. Some people are just insecure assholes regardless of their plumbing. There are immature girls and there are ladies. I respect your point of view but I get the feeling you have been looking in the wrong places without even knowing it.[/quote]

well of course most of my guy friends are complete assholes to these girls, which is why they are so successful.

either way, emotional pain, unwanted babies/std’s etc… are enough to keep me away from women for the time being…im only 23 after all… with no emotional scars or baggage whatsoever… I might as well be 11 years old[/quote]

Judging by your posts in this thread I’d argue you have plenty of emotional scars and baggage, way more than most.
[/quote]

I can see why you would say that.

I am very very cynical yes… but by emotional scars and baggage I mean that I have never had my heart “broken”, there are no females who I have unrequited feelings for, whom I think of when alone or on the toilet… ive never been abused, etc… sadly that is saying something[/quote]

I think you should risk the broken heart. The “successful” asshole guys who you refer to are acting like assholes because they are also afraid of being hurt. If they remain assholes and only see women as sex toys they will pay a much bigger price in 20 years when they have no feelings left. A broken heart is proof that you’re not used goods.

jbpick86 · July 10, 2013, 6:33pm

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]Testy1 wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]vancouvernewbie wrote:
If you want to practice go to a starbucks (probably one you don’t go to regularly) and just ask the girl at the counter out. Order your coffee, tell her she is cute and ask for a date. She might turn you down but just the act of asking her out will slowly build you up for when you have another girl in mind.
[/quote]

Awful idea. Don’t ask the barista out, they get asked out by 20 guys a day. It’s a damn cliche by now. Asking out women while they’re working in a service job (waitresses, bartenders, baristas, hookers) is generally skeevy. They are being nice to you to get a big tip. That heart-warming smile she gave you - it’s the same one she just gave the elderly guy in front of you and the same one she’ll give the other single dude behind you. No woman wants to go out with a guy she met while working, only to find out he’s a creep and now he knows where she works. If, on the slight chance, she wants to go out with you, she’ll let you know.

Ask out a girl in line, on the street, anywhere else. But yeah, definitely just ask a girl out. But not your barista.
[/quote]

I asked out my dentist. Bad idea.[/quote]
Was that before or after the gas?[/quote]

Right after the filling.
[/quote]

More like after I dumped her. It might have been worse if it was my gyno. [/quote]
You dumped HER? I find this little development intriguing.

Mr_Walkway · July 10, 2013, 6:53pm

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]LankyMofo wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
but your view on women does seem unhealthy and quite frankly, unwarranted.
[/quote]

you grew up in a much different time period than I have[/quote]

Dude Lanky and myself are maybe 2-4 years older than you… [/quote]

Lanky is definitely in his 30’s[/quote]
Wrong[/quote]

You are correct in that he is wrong.

Just turned 28 a couple months ago, actually. [/quote]
Yes sir I somehow knew that :)[/quote]

my mistake… for some reason I mixed him up with countingbeans

Mr_Walkway · July 10, 2013, 6:54pm