[quote]Varqanir wrote:
Aha. Well, for the record, the young siren I was rhapsodizing about actually had very long hair. This was not the most captivating of her charms, but it didn’t hurt the overall effect. Looking back, I guess I’d have to say that I’ve been with, or been attracted to, more women with short hair than with long. Long hair is like makeup to some extent. Almost every woman looks good with it, the really attractive ones look good even without it.
I like your new avatar, by the way. [/quote]
Thanks. Do you think its an innate thing for guys to be attracted to the long hair? Kindof like boobs? Or does it stem from social conditioning etc
A)I believe that the greatest pleasure in life is freedom from pain and distraction. From what ive gathered by observing my male friends is… women bring both pain AND distraction… in abundance. They (my friends and males in general) are so ruled by pussy it’s comical… and disturbing… and pathetic… they stab each other in the back in efforts to obtain it. seems like a corrupting influence.
B)I don’t respect women in the slightest bit… or perhaps it would be more fair to say that ive never met a woman who was worthy of my respect. they are so foolish and impulsive… gluttons for punishment and abuse, they all but beg for pain… through my observation of women, I have become the most cynical person in history. They all appear to be similar in this regard. If anyone here knew my female friends, they would be just as cynical as me… I will go into detail if anyone is curious… it’s pretty wild, but provides a clear understanding of why I feel the way I do about women.
C)I like being a virgin… I like what it symbolizes… “purity” “untainted-ness”. It adds an element of exclusivity to who I am. it makes me a rare commodity…It’s what sets me apart from just about every other guy… women are always so surprised to hear about my innocence (my friends always put me on blast whenever I meet a new girl). I could easily be like everyone else… but how would that be special?
D)I would definitely prefer to be married to a woman who hasn’t been fucked by dozens of guys… and if im going to have to have standards for what I want in someone else… I should meet them myself yes?
E)risk of STD’s… unplanned pregnancies…(I know 4 with STD’s, 1 has genital herpes, other has HIV, and I know 4 who have had unplanned pregnancies)
-girl feeling guilty about it later and claiming you raped her, landing you in jail or worse (happened to a friend of mine).
TL:DR It just doesn’t really seem worth it at this point in time. [/quote]
He thinks he’s not getting laid by choice!!
I’m admiring your cognitive dissonance. Those grapes high up on that tree are probably sour anyways, right?
A)I believe that the greatest pleasure in life is freedom from pain and distraction. From what ive gathered by observing my male friends is… women bring both pain AND distraction… in abundance. They (my friends and males in general) are so ruled by pussy it’s comical… and disturbing… and pathetic… they stab each other in the back in efforts to obtain it. seems like a corrupting influence.
B)I don’t respect women in the slightest bit… or perhaps it would be more fair to say that ive never met a woman who was worthy of my respect. they are so foolish and impulsive… gluttons for punishment and abuse, they all but beg for pain… through my observation of women, I have become the most cynical person in history. They all appear to be similar in this regard. If anyone here knew my female friends, they would be just as cynical as me… I will go into detail if anyone is curious… it’s pretty wild, but provides a clear understanding of why I feel the way I do about women.
C)I like being a virgin… I like what it symbolizes… “purity” “untainted-ness”. It adds an element of exclusivity to who I am. it makes me a rare commodity…It’s what sets me apart from just about every other guy… women are always so surprised to hear about my innocence (my friends always put me on blast whenever I meet a new girl). I could easily be like everyone else… but how would that be special?
D)I would definitely prefer to be married to a woman who hasn’t been fucked by dozens of guys… and if im going to have to have standards for what I want in someone else… I should meet them myself yes?
E)risk of STD’s… unplanned pregnancies…(I know 4 with STD’s, 1 has genital herpes, other has HIV, and I know 4 who have had unplanned pregnancies)
-girl feeling guilty about it later and claiming you raped her, landing you in jail or worse (happened to a friend of mine).
TL:DR It just doesn’t really seem worth it at this point in time. [/quote]
He thinks he’s not getting laid by choice!!
I’m admiring your cognitive dissonance. Those grapes high up on that tree are probably sour anyways, right?[/quote]
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Push, I would have thought your son would have chosen a more classy username.
[quote]Fletch1986 wrote:
And to Orion. Hell yeah I can definitely see that. Especially in High School when clubs/bars aren’t an option. And the teenagers and young women sure doll themselves up and put on some tight skirts, they just don’t expose as much skin as at a club but definitely showing off some assets.
And FYI, I’m sure most everybody knows this, but ministers daughters are nuts in the worst and best of ways! [/quote]
Nothing like painting everyone with the same broad brush.
I have a problem with people that think if they met someone from a church that was an asshole they all are and no since giving it another thought.
Nobody is perfect and that includes people that attend church. Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than going to McDonald’s makes you a hamburger. Their reason for going is to bolster their fellow man and in so doing lift themselves spiritually. You are there to be used by a God that you are seeking. If you aren’t seeking, you won’t find, because he didn’t make robots of us. He gave us the power of free will. Free to squander your time on self interest and self love.
I would think that disciplined bodies would also seek disciplined souls but it isn’t always the case.
"Keith Green had a Jewish heritage and was raised in Christian Science . He grew up reading the New Testament and called the mixture of being Jewish and learning about Jesus “an odd combination” that left him open minded but deeply unsatisfied. He began doing drugs and became interested in eastern mysticism and “free love.” After experiencing what Green described as a “bad trip,” he abandoned drug use and became interested in philosophy and theology.
“When Keith was 19 he met a fellow seeker/musician named Melody. They were inseparable and got married a year later – now he had a partner as his spiritual and musical quest continued.” Green later stated, however, that in the midst of his skepticism, he had, “been lost in a fantasy, till [God’s] love broke through.”[9] and he renounced Christian Science totally and became a follower of Jesus, a Jewish believer in Jesus the Messiah. A week later, Keith’s wife Melody, whom he had married in 1973 and was also Jewish, became a Jewish believer in Jesus.
Along with eleven others, Keith Green died on July 28, 1982, when the Cessna 414 crashed after takeoff from the private airstrip located on church property they had just founded. The small two-engine plane was carrying eleven passengers and the pilot, Don Burmeister, for an aerial tour[16] of the LDM property and the surrounding area. Green and two of his children, three-year-old Josiah and two-year-old Bethany, were on board the plane, along with visiting church missionaries John and Dede Smalley and their six children. Keith Green’s wife Melody was at home with one year old Rebekah and six weeks pregnant with their fourth child, Rachel, born in March 1983."
P.S.
Christian schools and Christian churches are also two different things.
Do you think its an innate thing for guys to be attracted to the long hair? Kindof like boobs? Or does it stem from social conditioning etc[/quote]
I’ve always had a sneaking suspicion that long hair on females triggers a primordial ancestral memory in human males of dragging females back to the cave by their hair.
I subscribe to a related hypothesis that miniskirts, high heels and foot binding and were all invented by men to make it more difficult for women to run away.
Boobs and lipstick are another interesting subject (and not for the obvious reasons): accentuating cleavage and reddening the lips, it has been hypothesized, was a way of subliminally simulating exposed buttocks and an inflamed vulva, two incontrovertible signals that a simian female is ready to mate.
Yes, practically everything we do, we do it for sex.
And FYI, I’m sure most everybody knows this, but ministers daughters are nuts in the worst and best of ways! [/quote]
Yup. The sultry young green-eyed vixen I mentioned earlier, absolutely the freakiest, sexiest woman I have ever had the pleasure of sharing a bed with, is the daughter of a famous minister.
Do you think its an innate thing for guys to be attracted to the long hair? Kindof like boobs? Or does it stem from social conditioning etc[/quote]
I’ve always had a sneaking suspicion that long hair on females triggers a primordial ancestral memory in human males of dragging females back to the cave by their hair.
I subscribe to a related hypothesis that miniskirts, high heels and foot binding and were all invented by men to make it more difficult for women to run away.
Boobs and lipstick are another interesting subject (and not for the obvious reasons): accentuating cleavage and reddening the lips, it has been hypothesized, was a way of subliminally simulating exposed buttocks and an inflamed vulva, two incontrovertible signals that a simian female is ready to mate.
Yes, practically everything we do, we do it for sex.
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The caveman theory can’t possibly make sense. If humans were so animalistic about sex, how do you explain that in virtually all species of animal, the female has the same length (or shorter, less) fur or feathers than the male? Also, this would also depend on whether creationism or evolutionism were responsible for human orgins.
The red lipstick interpretation makes perfect sense though, as human males are more driven by visual cues for sexual availability, even though human females don’t come into “heat” and rarely have visual indicators for ovulation.
The caveman theory can’t possibly make sense. If humans were so animalistic about sex, how do you explain that in virtually all species of animal, the female has the same length (or shorter, less) fur or feathers than the male? Also, this would also depend on whether creationism or evolutionism were responsible for human orgins.
The red lipstick interpretation makes perfect sense though, as human males are more driven by visual cues for sexual availability, even though human females don’t come into “heat” and rarely have visual indicators for ovulation. [/quote]
The caveman hypothesis was mostly tongue-in-cheek, although I think it’s pretty safe to say that billions of women throughout the ages have been grabbed by the hair as a prelude to rape. Which gives one pause about the prevalence of hair-pulling fetishes among women. Rape fantasy is probably more prevalent than one would care to admit, and whether one subscribes to creation or evolution as a fundamental worldview, the fact that rape is so common gives credence to the idea that it may be a genetically determined practice, the genes of which must have certainly been passed on through rape.
Note too that our nearest genetic relatives, the chimpanzees, as well as the next most brainy animals on the planet, the bottlenose porpoises, are also unabashed serial rapists. Of course, neither dolphins nor chimps drag their victims off by the hair, so these examples don’t really support my hypothesis.
Reddening of the vulva is a sign of sexual arousal, not necessarily ovulation. Painting the lips so that they are red and moist-looking leaves little to the imagination.
[quote]Varqanir wrote:
Aha. Well, for the record, the young siren I was rhapsodizing about actually had very long hair. This was not the most captivating of her charms, but it didn’t hurt the overall effect. Looking back, I guess I’d have to say that I’ve been with, or been attracted to, more women with short hair than with long. Long hair is like makeup to some extent. Almost every woman looks good with it, the really attractive ones look good even without it.
I like your new avatar, by the way. [/quote]
Thanks. Do you think its an innate thing for guys to be attracted to the long hair? Kindof like boobs? Or does it stem from social conditioning etc[/quote]
It shows good health and grooming for an extended period, plus some domesticity, as it is a luxury, really.
One bit of evidence to being a fit mother, in other words.
[quote]Varqanir wrote:
Aha. Well, for the record, the young siren I was rhapsodizing about actually had very long hair. This was not the most captivating of her charms, but it didn’t hurt the overall effect. Looking back, I guess I’d have to say that I’ve been with, or been attracted to, more women with short hair than with long. Long hair is like makeup to some extent. Almost every woman looks good with it, the really attractive ones look good even without it.
I like your new avatar, by the way. [/quote]
Thanks. Do you think its an innate thing for guys to be attracted to the long hair? Kindof like boobs? Or does it stem from social conditioning etc[/quote]
It shows good health and grooming for an extended period, plus some domesticity, as it is a luxury, really.
One bit of evidence to being a fit mother, in other words.
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Ya know Ruff, one thing I don’t understand is why so many women feel that once they squeeze out a baby they immediately have to chop off their hair. I understand babies tend to grab at hair but some genius did invent the pony tail.
Related story: My next door neighbors had their first baby a few months after my wife and I had our last (yes, last). Shortly after they squeezed that kid out, he split across the country for law school. It was actually a one year post grad certificate in tax law.
She was clearly not doing well being alone with the baby. I kept hearing her yelling and could see the frustration in her the rare times I caught a glimps of her. One day when I was walking with my baby out in the front street I hear this blood curdling scream, it was so loud and gruff I couldn’t tell what direction it came from and I wasn’t even sure it was from a male or a female. Using my Sherlock Holmes like powers of deduction I determined the scream had to have emitted from the inside of my neighbors open, but dark garage.
I walked back and stepped part way into their driveway. Still not able to see anything I said “Erin, are you okay”. A perfectly calm and composed voice comes back at me out of the darkness “Oh, I’m fine”.
Minutes later I’m halfway up the street, she pulls out in her car at precisely the time my wife is out front getting the mail. She stopped to tell my wife that everything is fine. Raymond was just pulling her hair as she was trying to strap him in his car seat.
