Giving Up on Women

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I’m turning twenty in a few days and I have yet to kiss a girl. Being 5’6 doesn’t help my situation.
On a positive note, I’m starting to come to terms with the fact that I will probably die alone. So yeah, glad I could share.[/quote]

hmmm

[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I’m turning twenty in a few days and I have yet to kiss a girl. Being 5’6 doesn’t help my situation.
On a positive note, I’m starting to come to terms with the fact that I will probably die alone. So yeah, glad I could share.[/quote]

hmmm
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LOL

my favorite way to instigate arguments with my gf.

Who ive kissed and done stuff too, jealous OP?

[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:

[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I’m turning twenty in a few days and I have yet to kiss a girl. Being 5’6 doesn’t help my situation.
On a positive note, I’m starting to come to terms with the fact that I will probably die alone. So yeah, glad I could share.[/quote]

hmmm
[/quote]

LOL

my favorite way to instigate arguments with my gf.

Who ive kissed and done stuff too, jealous OP?[/quote]

ha, you’re tall so you instantly get women? Isn’t that the way the world works?lol

[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:

[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:

[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I’m turning twenty in a few days and I have yet to kiss a girl. Being 5’6 doesn’t help my situation.
On a positive note, I’m starting to come to terms with the fact that I will probably die alone. So yeah, glad I could share.[/quote]

hmmm
[/quote]

LOL

my favorite way to instigate arguments with my gf.

Who ive kissed and done stuff too, jealous OP?[/quote]

ha, you’re tall so you instantly get women? Isn’t that the way the world works?lol
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False, I am 6’6" I believe they are actually scared of taller guys unless they are like athletes at a college or professional.

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:

[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:

[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I’m turning twenty in a few days and I have yet to kiss a girl. Being 5’6 doesn’t help my situation.
On a positive note, I’m starting to come to terms with the fact that I will probably die alone. So yeah, glad I could share.[/quote]

hmmm
[/quote]

LOL

my favorite way to instigate arguments with my gf.

Who ive kissed and done stuff too, jealous OP?[/quote]

ha, you’re tall so you instantly get women? Isn’t that the way the world works?lol
[/quote]

False, I am 6’6" I believe they are actually scared of taller guys unless they are like athletes at a college or professional. [/quote]

I was just giving audiogarden a little friendly shit. Height helps with getting women. How are your social skills?

[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:

[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:

[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:

[quote]RonSwanson wrote:
I’m turning twenty in a few days and I have yet to kiss a girl. Being 5’6 doesn’t help my situation.
On a positive note, I’m starting to come to terms with the fact that I will probably die alone. So yeah, glad I could share.[/quote]

hmmm
[/quote]

LOL

my favorite way to instigate arguments with my gf.

Who ive kissed and done stuff too, jealous OP?[/quote]

ha, you’re tall so you instantly get women? Isn’t that the way the world works?lol
[/quote]

False, I am 6’6" I believe they are actually scared of taller guys unless they are like athletes at a college or professional. [/quote]

I was just giving audiogarden a little friendly shit. Height helps with getting women. How are your social skills?
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I think mine are pretty good. I am not complaining about women over here, I was just saying. I imagine if I went out to bars women may be more open but bars aren’t my thing.

[quote]theBeth wrote:
I thought we already decided on this? I promise i won’t burn you, unless of course…friction.

or hot wax.[/quote]

[quote]PB Andy wrote:

[quote]timbofirstblood wrote:

[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Hmmmm… You’ve been here a year and have over 100 posts so odds are that you’re not a troll…

Remember that old confession/question thread that got lost when SAMA went away?

Perhaps a new public evolution is in order.

OP, are you interested in re-evaluating some of your limiting beliefs and getting this part (and by necessity, other parts) of your life handled?

If so, take a step out of your victim mentality and convince me.

[/quote]

OP in case you missed the Confession/Question thread, this is an opportunity worth taking advantage of.[/quote]
whatever happened to that guy? Travis or something? Did he get laid?[/quote]

After we switched from the public to the private forum (after someone violated the rules I had set for the thread and brought a bunch of negativity), Travis had some personal shit come up and he asked to step back to handle it. A lot of the guys continued to use the forum after that for their own work, but I stopped posting their shortly after Travis did, as my obligation to him had ended. I’m not sure if it is still active or not, but probably not.

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:
With regard to Walkway and his statements about women, I often wonder how the majority of women of my generation can be so much sleazier, than previous generations. Finding a woman who fits the bill is certainly a challenge; one I haven’t been successful with.

I’m over the whole mental game/proving grounds. It’s just a conundrum of clusterfuckery that takes me to a place I don’t want to be.
I don’t think I’ll ever adhere to it.

Obviously I’m going to hear “you’re looking in the wrong places” but it shouldn’t be that hard.

I can’t be the only jaded one.
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You’re not lol. I made a post pretty much exactly like this in some other thread. Basically the gist was “No, I’m not looking in the wrong places, and it shouldn’t be this hard.”[/quote]

Not all North American women are like this, I’m sure.

Having said that, I had great success with finding quality women from other countries.

Find a way to be around an immigrant or international community. You’ll be pleasantly surprised.
[/quote]

X2

I’ve had an international penis since high school and I support that statement

[quote]angry chicken wrote:

[quote]PB Andy wrote:

[quote]timbofirstblood wrote:

[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Hmmmm… You’ve been here a year and have over 100 posts so odds are that you’re not a troll…

Remember that old confession/question thread that got lost when SAMA went away?

Perhaps a new public evolution is in order.

OP, are you interested in re-evaluating some of your limiting beliefs and getting this part (and by necessity, other parts) of your life handled?

If so, take a step out of your victim mentality and convince me.

[/quote]

OP in case you missed the Confession/Question thread, this is an opportunity worth taking advantage of.[/quote]
whatever happened to that guy? Travis or something? Did he get laid?[/quote]

After we switched from the public to the private forum (after someone violated the rules I had set for the thread and brought a bunch of negativity), Travis had some personal shit come up and he asked to step back to handle it. A lot of the guys continued to use the forum after that for their own work, but I stopped posting their shortly after Travis did, as my obligation to him had ended. I’m not sure if it is still active or not, but probably not.[/quote]

I remember that thread and the spinoff threads, I actually may have started one…

I was a virgin when I first started reading that thread and then lost it shortly after (thank you AC and some others that I can’t remember), coincidence? Maybe

First kiss: 21
Lost virginity: 22
Now: 25 and my gf is moving in with me in 3 weeks

I never felt like “giving up on women” just taking breaks from trying/caring really hard

Take THAT OP!!!

[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:
I thought we already decided on this? I promise i won’t burn you, unless of course…friction.

or hot wax.[/quote]
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[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
He probably benched 600 in HS as well.
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You think he didn’t?[/quote]

Possibly, I had 4 500+ benchers in my HS so anythings possible ;)[/quote]

Inclined, right?[/quote]

Umm of course, what did you think I mean’t? Flat, lol, 500+ is weak sauce on flat, Gosh…

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Where are you all looking?[/quote]

Eyes peeled everywhere I go. [/quote]

Ya, but where is that?

*Gym, can be an okay place to meet women, but the whole shit where you eat saying applies.
*Bar, not good, imo. Unless it’s just a slam piece.
*Club, same as bar.
*Co-ed sports, good choice.
*College (if your that age), is another good one.
*Online, is becoming a good one.
*Any type of organization (like a church group), good. It at least gives you a common “ice breaker” and then go from there.

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Where are you all looking?[/quote]

Eyes peeled everywhere I go. [/quote]

Ya, but where is that?

*Gym, can be an okay place to meet women, but the whole shit where you eat saying applies.
*Bar, not good, imo. Unless it’s just a slam piece.
*Club, same as bar.
*Co-ed sports, good choice.
*College (if your that age), is another good one.
*Online, is becoming a good one.
*Any type of organization (like a church group), good. It at least gives you a common “ice breaker” and then go from there.

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The Subway commute and girls at coffee shops/in public.

So much more open and willing to talk to you than at clubs/bars.

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Where are you all looking?[/quote]

Eyes peeled everywhere I go. [/quote]

Ya, but where is that?

*Gym, can be an okay place to meet women, but the whole shit where you eat saying applies.
*Bar, not good, imo. Unless it’s just a slam piece.
*Club, same as bar.
*Co-ed sports, good choice.
*College (if your that age), is another good one.
*Online, is becoming a good one.
*Any type of organization (like a church group), good. It at least gives you a common “ice breaker” and then go from there.

[/quote]

I’ll add to this:

*Dentist. It worked for me once.
*Cafe - especially if you live in the Northeast or Northwest, where coffee is central to daily life.
*hobbies or events that have a big turnout like charity fundraisers, concerts, competitions for whatever sport you like
*the beach
*tourist hotspots
*the grocery store

YO.

Where should I meet dudes?

I kinda like this big grunty bald guy from the gym, but he never looks at me. And he’s always with his buddies so I can’t just waltz over there and be like, sup?

This one guy came into my work the other day wearing a shirt WITH A T-REX SKELETON ON IT !!!

I was like

!!! WHere did you get your shirt?! THe Tyrell museum?!!
I thought this was my chance to finally become friends with a fellow dinosaur lover, maybe even a paleontologist.

But no, no, no…
He just mumbled ya, and turned around and walked right out of the store.

My dino-induced excitement scared him off.

Men are a mystery to me, really they are…

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Kakarat wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Where are you all looking?[/quote]

Eyes peeled everywhere I go. [/quote]

Ya, but where is that?

*Gym, can be an okay place to meet women, but the whole shit where you eat saying applies.
*Bar, not good, imo. Unless it’s just a slam piece.
*Club, same as bar.
*Co-ed sports, good choice.
*College (if your that age), is another good one.
*Online, is becoming a good one.
*Any type of organization (like a church group), good. It at least gives you a common “ice breaker” and then go from there.

[/quote]

I’ll add to this:

*Dentist. It worked for me once.
*Cafe - especially if you live in the Northeast or Northwest, where coffee is central to daily life.
*hobbies or events that have a big turnout like charity fundraisers, concerts, competitions for whatever sport you like
*the beach
*tourist hotspots
*the grocery store[/quote]

A few more

  • gas stations/convenience stores
  • bars and clubs – but only if they work there and have a high bullshit tolerance; a lot of staff/bartenders look down on their patrons, but if you can distinguish yourself from that and come across as higher class, you’re good
  • climbing gyms
  • yoga classes, if you can do it without being classed as a guy who just joined to meet women

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
YO.

Where should I meet dudes?

I kinda like this big grunty bald guy from the gym, but he never looks at me. And he’s always with his buddies so I can’t just waltz over there and be like, sup?

This one guy came into my work the other day wearing a shirt WITH A T-REX SKELETON ON IT !!!

I was like

!!! WHere did you get your shirt?! THe Tyrell museum?!!
I thought this was my chance to finally become friends with a fellow dinosaur lover, maybe even a paleontologist.

But no, no, no…
He just mumbled ya, and turned around and walked right out of the store.

My dino-induced excitement scared him off.

Men are a mystery to me, really they are…[/quote]

You can meet em anywhere! on the street, construction sites, cafe’s, gas stations, whereever! the key is when you aquire your target: make eye contact and hold it. wink. Then bite your lower lip and look down.

it does something to their pee pee.

[quote]theBeth wrote:
You can meet em anywhere! on the street, construction sites, cafe’s, gas stations, whereever! the key is when you aquire your target: make eye contact and hold it. wink. Then bite your lower lip and look down.

it does something to their pee pee.[/quote]

Its true.

The lip bite should be illegal.

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
YO.

Where should I meet dudes?

I kinda like this big grunty bald guy from the gym, but he never looks at me. And he’s always with his buddies so I can’t just waltz over there and be like, sup?

This one guy came into my work the other day wearing a shirt WITH A T-REX SKELETON ON IT !!!

I was like

!!! WHere did you get your shirt?! THe Tyrell museum?!!
I thought this was my chance to finally become friends with a fellow dinosaur lover, maybe even a paleontologist.

But no, no, no…
He just mumbled ya, and turned around and walked right out of the store.

My dino-induced excitement scared him off.

Men are a mystery to me, really they are…[/quote]

I bet you’d do good at a museum, library, or other more cerebral locations and events. The ones around here always have special interest events and presentations. Given the format some knowledge, exuberance, and want for discussion is welcome and expected.
(hope that doesn’t come off as critical)