Since this topic is bound to roll around, I’m just gonna get the first word in.
My penis is wayyyyyy bigger than all of yours put together.
[quote]TrainerinDC wrote:
I had the same situation in high school. I used to fight full contact and teach martial arts. This one guy thought he was hot shit and would try to pick fights with me in the hallways. I ran into him at one of my friends houses, and tried to talk to him and let it go. He wouldn’t. I was a little intoxicated, so I knocked him out cold. I’m not proud of it at all. There is no honor in beating up on the weak.
After this I had all his friends trying to pick fights. I had to avoid places and events. Now at 25, I’m a personal trainer, 3rd Dan Black Belt in goju ryu, and 2nd Dan in Tae Kwon Do, and very happy with myself. Try to pity these people. They will never be anything, and you will. [/quote]
This is true. If he isn’t saying it to your face, he’s coming off the one looking like a pussy. Words aren’t hurting you and he obviously deep down probably does not want to confront you. He’s building himself up being very careful not to have put up. Let that part be. He’s digging his own hole and everyone does or will soon see his charade. However, I am with the camp, that says let him throw the first punch and then hand his ass to him. Otherwise, live and let live. You will be the bigger man for it. Let this inspire you to work harder and with more focus in the gym in whatever “discipline” you choose.
I remember a guy I went to school with. He got cornered by about 20 guys. He grabbed the first guy who stepped up to him and bit the end of his nose off. Then he turned to the rest of the gang, blood all over his face, spit out the first guys nose, yelled like a wild animal and said “who is next!” They all scattered.
Steer clear of this guy, but if his crew corners you bite his nose off.
Seriously kid we’ve all been in your shoes at one time or another. Just ignore this little punk and get on with your life. You can’t win with people who have nothing to lose.
OK, without reading all the other responses, here is the advice I give to my own son (who’s 13 in a week).
Never start a fight. However, if anybody ever lays a hand on you, you punch them directly in the nose with everything you’ve got.
What happens after that can’t be predicted. Either the fight’s over or it’s on. If it’s on, your only option is to win, and hurt the kid bad enough that he never wants to fuck with you again.
Of course, that’s all easier said than done… some guys just want to fight all the time… I’ve never understood that mentality. I don’t like fighting… I’m guessing you don’t either or the fight would have already happened before your Dad got involved.
But, if you really want to fight this kid, let him start it. Then teach him a lesson and tell your Dad it was self defense.
OK. I’m done here.
[quote]BlakedaMan wrote:
Ok, so I’m 15 years old and a sophmore in high school. Kid’s my age are so f*cking dumb. They are willing to fight you for looking at them wrong. They don’t give a shit about anyon or anything. They fail in every class. And don’t care enough even about themselves to do anything active or healthy, they just smoke fucking joints all day.
So to my story. This kid my age who is like 5’4" and like 110 pounds at most, thinks he can fucking kick my ass. I’m 5’10" and 150 Pounds. I am way more built then him and way stronger. The problem here is that my dad found out he wants to fight me and said if I come home with even a little bruise that shouldn’t be there, he’ll ground me for 6 months and personally beat my ass. Now, I can’t just say that to his face because everyone would laugh there asses off at me and I would be the biggest pussy ever to them. I don’t really care what people think, but kids at my school will seriously not talk to me and my friends will follow them. I’m not scared of him at all because I know he has no chance, but I can’t because my dad.
So what should I do? Please help.[/quote]
[quote]Sxio wrote:
E-man wrote:
Kick the kids ass
Kick your dad’s ass
Then in true Schwarzenegger fashion blow up the school.
Hahahahahahaaaa!
And I call serious bullshit on some of these fight stories. I’ve been doing MMA and working security (not anymore thank goodness) for a long time and I can tell you without a doubt, 2 guys do not beat 5 ‘big’ guys who know how to fight and roundhouse kicks to the head are never seen on the street.
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Lets say rarely. I didn’t do it but he did. The attacker was coming in straight on, George (my brother) took one step to the side and leveled him with a roundhouse. They weren’t trained fighters either, just neighborhood punks. 99.99% of the time I agree with you completely that you will not see a high roundhouse. This was that one exception, and it worked.
As far as the angel, yes there was an angel that day. This is why I tell people that fighting is never worth it, you never know what day your angel will not be present.
I dont know if this has been mentioned, but you don’t live in Scottsdale do you? Bc I do and went to HS there, and I saw the same exact shit going on. Nobody gave a flying fuck about anything. It was nice bc the school turned out to be kinda lenient too, so it wasnt as hard as some other schools, not that AZ has a “hard” system to begin with. But come on, these kids are the laziest sons of bitches ever, and it rubbed off on me, bigtime.
From everything I’ve read, I’d have to say the best advice is:
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Talk to your Dad - just what that other guy said - mention the “switches” and the fact that you’ll do what you can, but he might start it.
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Recognize that he’s probably talking big so people think he’s big. He probably doesn’t want to fight, and its doubtful that it will go any further.
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It’s all about his reputation. Giving his a little will get you a long way. That simple dip of the head mentioned may be your best option. If you do fight, show him your serious, then stop the fight and telling him he’s “pretty good,” “You win, man…” or whatever is going to help you escape from his buddies doing something. Just letting him know (in a private way, like hurting him bad but letting him get up) then being the one to call it off makes him look like he still has a dick.
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I had a teacher once who used to work in one of these schools. Between lessons he told us about how he used to have to break up these fights. He told us about a pregnant girl and another girl smashing each other with locks from their lockers. Fucked up. Know what he said? He said guys want it to end. Guys are more likely to stop fighting when a someone (friends, teachers,etc) breaks it up. They delay the fight to begin with (shoving each other) and break it up almost as soon as a friend says to. Girls, though - they don’t stop. Try to break up a cat-fight, you WILL get hurt. Guys just want respect, that’s what the fight is about. Just the fact that the fight started in the first place and that he had the balls to pick on a bigger kid is all that matters. He gets props, but if you handle it well, you won’t get hurt.
[quote]BlakedaMan wrote:
WOW our genereation seriously consists of a bunch of retarded, gay, uninteligent, lazy, pothead, bitches.[/quote]
Yeah, technically we’re Generation Y (Im 18), but I prefer to associate with myself with Generation X (at least from what I gathered listening to Radio X in GTA; San Andreas).
What? Would you rather associate yourself with Alternative rock and “ambitious” pot smokers or emos, Linkin Park and MySpace?
As far as the fight, I agree with the people who said that if HE starts it, YOU should finish it
In regards to shanks being pulled: No, I am not trying to get the kid gutted. Sometimes you can’t run; if that’s the case, do w/e you have to. It’s always good to have a plan ‘b’ if plan ‘a’ (running the f*ck away) doesn’t work. Grab a brick, a garbage can, use your backpack full of heavy textbooks, grab little Sally and use her as a human sheild. It’s your ass on the line, remember that.
Naturally, avoiding that whole situation would be best, but that goes without saying. I am again talking about if shit hits the fan.
Oh, and not saying these moronic kids won’t shank your guts, but if they were seriously going to use them or fight you or jump you, you think that wouldn’t have occured by now ?
My suspicion is that the morons carry these knives around for the visual/psychological effect. Nevertheless, knives are a serious weapon; some might argue even worse than guns. Just…be careful…don’t assume it’s over at any point, but don’t be so worried…that’s not saying you shouldn’t keep an eye out. Just have a plan to get the hell out if it comes to it, and a plan b to do ape-shit and do something to preserve yourself.
The other problem here is that if I do fuck him up, he’s the kind of kid that will gather his “posse” (aka bitch as emo kids that wear tight pants and say theyre hardcore muthafuckas) and jump me right after. None of my friends would get involved as they are all friends with him (he, the kid that wants to fight me, was a good friend).
Step 1 get new freinds
Step 2 stay calm and as hoeky as it sounds watch Road House "Be nice untill it’s time to not be nice
Make the kid come to you don’t start anything but be sure to finish it.
Walk up to him and say "You wanna fight like a man? than meet me alone like a man. Put in your mouthpiece, lean into him and say quitely, "I’m going to crack your F’ing face so bad, You’re gonna be feeling for it on the ground on your knees you little F^&*. I assure you he will think twice, knowing you mean business.
Or just file a lawsuit against his parents .