You want to win fights? Be fast.
One time (over a year ago, so I didnt have my liscense) I was walking my GF home and we noticed we were being followed. Anyway, it was only about 4 blocks so we just kinda walked faster and kept an eye out. (unfortunately, neither of us had our cell phones on us.) So we saw this car drive by us about 4 times in 2 blocks (which is when we noticed them. Then we didnt see them again) So me being the genious I was, I dropped her off, told her to lock her doors, and I started running back to my friends house… Where I was spending the night.
So anyway, once I reached the first corner, I saw the car again. Started running a little faster, at the corner of the end of the second block and the beginning of the 3rd, the car made a sharp right trying to get in my way. I ran around it and one kid got out of the car. I started sprinting and after about a block I out-ran the kid… the car came and picked him up to follow me again. By this moment, I was outside of my friends house knocking on the door frantically (and he could see it was me, theres a window right near the front door). Anyway, I’m standing on his porch and 5 kids come out of the car. My friend (with 3 other guys who were there) answer the door. My friend reaches in his closet and hands me a baseball bat and grabs one for himself. The 4 of us stood on his porch with 2 bats. They ran away like little bitches. (although I didnt have to fight, haha)
Anyway, the moral of the story is… Whenever you can avoid a fight, do it. You never know what will happen. Had I not been able to outrun those kids, I would have been seriously fucked up. The next weekend, there was a report of kids from the town over jumping a few kids. A couple were just beaten, but two ended up in the hospital. Never found out who the cocksuckers were, but I know if I had found out the hard way, I would have had my ass handed to me.
[quote]I think your 3 apply to adult life but I have a feeling this is a kid and fighting in highschool can be about respect and self preservation. Not just life or death. I feel that kids need to be able to fight to some extent. It is an important part of growing up.
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I kind of disagree with this. Out of curiousity, how old are you? I’m a senior in high school. The above experience was in my junior year. Although this was the scariest run in, there have been a few other times where I could have gotten into a fight. Many times, I would have won. The only real time I would feel the NEED to get into a fight was if someone was putting me, my brothers, or my girlfriend in any sort of danger.
And even in these situations, pride isnt an issue. A punch to the nose, ear, or throat to stun them… a kick to the knee, a knee to the ribs and an uppercut would leave me enough time to get the fuck out of there.
Its not like I would stand there as a boxer would in a ring. I’d get the fuck in there, do what I had to do, and get the fuck out. No pride involved. Its too bad that many kids these days dont think this way. Its stupid, really, to get into a fight for “machoness”. It also shows a lack of self control.
Anyway, ramblings over.