Ever Had an Affair Outside Marriage?

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

Your way will work very well if the OP wants to burn his relationship to the ground. And I guarantee she will lose the weight, most likely right after the divorce is finalized.

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While this is most likely true, think about what that says.

She cant lose it for the man she is with, but she could to find a new one?

Interesting…

[/quote]

She’s engaging in disordered eating. It may be that her food intake is one of the few things in her life that she can control.

Then she gets divorced…now here time is her own, her money is her own, her body is her own. The need to exert control over something (anything) is no longer. She loses the weight not to spite her ex - she couldn’t lose the weight to save their relationship! - but instead because she now feels a sense of empowerment that comes with control over one’s circumstances.

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[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
how long have you been married? How long have you had a full time job? How long have you lived under your own roof? How many bills do you pay a month?[/quote]

how does any of this make someone consume tens of times more calories than they are using on a daily basis?

you have the mentality of a fat person too… “it’s all these other things that made me fat… not the fact that I shovel chocolate covered churros down my hatch 12x a day”

“it’s muh genetics”[/quote]

All the above can affect life choices. You have the mentality of a young inexperience man. [/quote]

lol what is with you acting like you are fucking Yoda?

PLEASE explain how those questions can result in morbid obesity.

“wait a second the gas bill has just arrived - right that is fucking it i am going to eat ice cream until these jeans no longer fit”

your “logic” really does not tie in with your “wisdom”

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[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I read a guy’s story where he through out all the shit food in the house, and she started going to down on doughnut stores. [/quote]

Do you have any personal experiences with this. Please don’t freak out like Yolo. I ask because perspective matters. [/quote]

ill let you be the judge:

-my ex girlfriend

when we started dating, she was 5’3 140lbs (almost triple D’s contributed a lot to her weight). We broke up 2 years later, but stayed friends. 2 years later she started ballooning up (155lbs at 5’3) and came to me for advice. I told her to clean up her diet and start walking on her treadmill.

Her response? “Im just going to eat whatever I want and work out more to compensate.” No matter how many times I told her it would fail… she didn’t believe me (lol). She’s about 180lbs at the moment (still 5’3)

-my mom

after she quit her full time job, she started putting on weight (I guess there goes the argument of working more makes u fat). she was about 5’1 170.

I started throwing away food in our refrigerator because im the man in my house (jk but serious).

She and my dad regularly have “get-togethers” with members of their church to eat and socialize. Of course, all the men were in decent shape, and their wive’s were ham planets (disturbing).

the fat wives brought all kinds of treats which my mom FUCKING DOVE ON. She would eat it and smile at me… as if she was “sticking it to me”.

as time went by, her mood REALLY began to tank. my brother and I convinced her that her fat-fuckness was what was causing it… and my brother and I both saw a look in her eyes that we had never seen before… it was like she was “waking up”. Now she has been eating right, working out, lost a shit ton of weight… and is really happy with herself and with life

and my parents marriage is as strong as ever 28 years and counting

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[quote]yolo84 wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]yolo84 wrote:

So she would lose the wight after the divorce - to spite me?

fuck her then!

just proves she could have lost it when we were together and could not be bothered.

good riddance. [/quote]

Huh.

I thought we were talking about the OP.
[/quote]

lol was replying as you were saying she will leave “you” etc

nevermind[/quote]

Meant it in a general sense. More of a “y’all”.

Ultimately, I don’t think you and I disagree. I just don’t see how being loving and compassionate somehow absolves them of responsibility. No one is denying the 300lb elephant in the room.

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Tiribulus wrote:
ME ME ME ME ME ME ME.

There’s a desperate hurting women over there who probably hates to open her eyes in the morning and all anybody (just about) cares about is whether this guy is happy. Yeah, she’s probably angry and nasty and impossible to get along with on top of being obese too. That’s how hurting people are. None of that is the point. Marriage (on the human level), including sex, is ALL about GIVING every bit of yourself on every level and in every way to another and ESPECIALLY when they least deserve it and are most difficult to live with. That’s when they need you most.

Marriage was designed by God, one man and one woman, for life, as an earthly illustration of the covenant relationship of Christ with His church bride. He GAVE Himself in a gruesome bloody death to redeem His people, his bride, from death themselves. He commands husbands to love their wives this way. (see the 5th chapter of the apostle Paul’s letter to the church at Ephesus) No matter what else may happen, children are equipped for life by watching their fathers love their mothers. Of course, we won’t do that on our own. How well I know, having learned this lesson the very hard way by almost destroying the wife of my youth with my own self serving childishness. Even after I should have known better.

Nevermind. Whatever on earth could I have been thinking? This guy needs to get laid and save money. Carry on.[/quote]

I’ve been reading a lot of your posts, and as a Christian brother I gotta say… what you write sounds WAY too preachy for my tastes…

anyways OP, for your wife…

2iu Keifei somatropin AM (before 30 minutes fasted walk) and 2iu PM (on empty stomach)
50-75mcg t3 ED
12mg test E Monday/Thursday
low dose DNP for 6 weeks

if that doesn’t work, time for a divorce
[/quote]

Get the fuck out of here with your idiotic, ill informed, potentially dangerous advice.

Seriously.

Get. The fuck. Out.

Because this is not the steroid forum does not mean that you can safely peddle imbecilic bro-knowledge with impunity.

There’s so much wrong with this post I would think you were a troll if this was the steroid forum.

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[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
how long have you been married? How long have you had a full time job? How long have you lived under your own roof? How many bills do you pay a month?[/quote]

how does any of this make someone consume tens of times more calories than they are using on a daily basis?

you have the mentality of a fat person too… “it’s all these other things that made me fat… not the fact that I shovel chocolate covered churros down my hatch 12x a day”

“it’s muh genetics”[/quote]
Dude did some fat kid kick your ass when you were young or what? [/quote]

nope… I WAS the fat kid.

13 weeks, about 4 weeks of 2 hours of cardio every day, nothing but chicken and egg whites, full time accounting student (living on my own for whatever that is worth).

guess how many excuses I made?

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[quote]Cortes wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Tiribulus wrote:
ME ME ME ME ME ME ME.

There’s a desperate hurting women over there who probably hates to open her eyes in the morning and all anybody (just about) cares about is whether this guy is happy. Yeah, she’s probably angry and nasty and impossible to get along with on top of being obese too. That’s how hurting people are. None of that is the point. Marriage (on the human level), including sex, is ALL about GIVING every bit of yourself on every level and in every way to another and ESPECIALLY when they least deserve it and are most difficult to live with. That’s when they need you most.

Marriage was designed by God, one man and one woman, for life, as an earthly illustration of the covenant relationship of Christ with His church bride. He GAVE Himself in a gruesome bloody death to redeem His people, his bride, from death themselves. He commands husbands to love their wives this way. (see the 5th chapter of the apostle Paul’s letter to the church at Ephesus) No matter what else may happen, children are equipped for life by watching their fathers love their mothers. Of course, we won’t do that on our own. How well I know, having learned this lesson the very hard way by almost destroying the wife of my youth with my own self serving childishness. Even after I should have known better.

Nevermind. Whatever on earth could I have been thinking? This guy needs to get laid and save money. Carry on.[/quote]

I’ve been reading a lot of your posts, and as a Christian brother I gotta say… what you write sounds WAY too preachy for my tastes…

anyways OP, for your wife…

2iu Keifei somatropin AM (before 30 minutes fasted walk) and 2iu PM (on empty stomach)
50-75mcg t3 ED
12mg test E Monday/Thursday
low dose DNP for 6 weeks

if that doesn’t work, time for a divorce
[/quote]

Get the fuck out of here with your idiotic, ill informed, potentially dangerous advice.

Seriously.

Get. The fuck. Out.

Because this is not the steroid forum does not mean that you can safely peddle imbecilic bro-knowledge with impunity.

There’s so much wrong with this post I would think you were a troll if this was the steroid forum.

[/quote]

with all those mean words, you have to elaborate.

what’s wrong with my protocol?

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
how long have you been married? How long have you had a full time job? How long have you lived under your own roof? How many bills do you pay a month?[/quote]

how does any of this make someone consume tens of times more calories than they are using on a daily basis?

you have the mentality of a fat person too… “it’s all these other things that made me fat… not the fact that I shovel chocolate covered churros down my hatch 12x a day”

“it’s muh genetics”[/quote]
Dude did some fat kid kick your ass when you were young or what? [/quote]

nope… I WAS the fat kid.

13 weeks, about 4 weeks of 2 hours of cardio every day, nothing but chicken and egg whites, full time accounting student (living on my own for whatever that is worth).

guess how many excuses I made?[/quote]
Congrats.

Now you need to learn to be humble and you may make a decent human being.

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I read a guy’s story where he through out all the shit food in the house, and she started going to down on doughnut stores. [/quote]

Do you have any personal experiences with this. Please don’t freak out like Yolo. I ask because perspective matters. [/quote]

ill let you be the judge:

-my ex girlfriend

when we started dating, she was 5’3 140lbs (almost triple D’s contributed a lot to her weight). We broke up 2 years later, but stayed friends. 2 years later she started ballooning up (155lbs at 5’3) and came to me for advice. I told her to clean up her diet and start walking on her treadmill.

Her response? “Im just going to eat whatever I want and work out more to compensate.” No matter how many times I told her it would fail… she didn’t believe me (lol). She’s about 180lbs at the moment (still 5’3)

-my mom

after she quit her full time job, she started putting on weight (I guess there goes the argument of working more makes u fat). she was about 5’1 170.

I started throwing away food in our refrigerator because im the man in my house (jk but serious).

She and my dad regularly have “get-togethers” with members of their church to eat and socialize. Of course, all the men were in decent shape, and their wive’s were ham planets (disturbing).

the fat wives brought all kinds of treats which my mom FUCKING DOVE ON. She would eat it and smile at me… as if she was “sticking it to me”.

as time went by, her mood REALLY began to tank. my brother and I convinced her that her fat-fuckness was what was causing it… and my brother and I both saw a look in her eyes that we had never seen before… it was like she was “waking up”. Now she has been eating right, working out, lost a shit ton of weight… and is really happy with herself and with life

and my parents marriage is as strong as ever 28 years and counting[/quote]

I’m 100% serious. Good for your mom. I’m glad you and your family helped each other out and she is doign well.

Now that being said, you have 2 examples and based off these 2 examples you’ve shaped your perspective to fit EVERYONE else. Not everyone fits though.

The OP clearly doesn’t support his wife. She, it seems, is basically alone. You mom had you, your brother, and Dad to support her. That makes a HUGE differnce. Your mon wasn’t working (OPs wife must be for insurance) and your mom had grown children (OP’s wife I don’t beleive does although I’m not sure). Do you think your mom would do as well if she had you and your brother running around under age 8 or 10? Do you think she would do as well if she was working all the time?

Also maybe work did keep your mom slim, it does the opposite for many. I’ve worked aroudn A LOT of very fat women in an office setting.

Your GF didn’t listen. Well that’s on her, she’s an idiot, but that doesn’t mean the next gf won’t listen. Plenty of women listen to advice on weight loss.

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[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
how long have you been married? How long have you had a full time job? How long have you lived under your own roof? How many bills do you pay a month?[/quote]

how does any of this make someone consume tens of times more calories than they are using on a daily basis?

you have the mentality of a fat person too… “it’s all these other things that made me fat… not the fact that I shovel chocolate covered churros down my hatch 12x a day”

“it’s muh genetics”[/quote]
Dude did some fat kid kick your ass when you were young or what? [/quote]

nope… I WAS the fat kid.

13 weeks, about 4 weeks of 2 hours of cardio every day, nothing but chicken and egg whites, full time accounting student (living on my own for whatever that is worth).

guess how many excuses I made?[/quote]
Congrats.

Now you need to learn to be humble and you may make a decent human being. [/quote]

lol I don’t have pride issues, I just don’t sugar coat shit for the fat fucks

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[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
how long have you been married? How long have you had a full time job? How long have you lived under your own roof? How many bills do you pay a month?[/quote]

how does any of this make someone consume tens of times more calories than they are using on a daily basis?

you have the mentality of a fat person too… “it’s all these other things that made me fat… not the fact that I shovel chocolate covered churros down my hatch 12x a day”

“it’s muh genetics”[/quote]
Dude did some fat kid kick your ass when you were young or what? [/quote]

or this?

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[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]yolo84 wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]yolo84 wrote:

So she would lose the wight after the divorce - to spite me?

fuck her then!

just proves she could have lost it when we were together and could not be bothered.

good riddance. [/quote]

Huh.

I thought we were talking about the OP.
[/quote]

lol was replying as you were saying she will leave “you” etc

nevermind[/quote]

Meant it in a general sense. More of a “y’all”.

Ultimately, I don’t think you and I disagree. I just don’t see how being loving and compassionate somehow absolves them of responsibility. No one is denying the 300lb elephant in the room.[/quote]

i think the OP is trolling anyway - he’s never responding.

with topics like this i just find it bizarre that some people just accept others can have a total lack of responsibilty or buy into this notion that day to day life is so tough they need to eat 50 doughnuts or drink 3 bottles of whiskey or whatever.

a 300lb woman could lose 50lbs extremely quickly and easily without even doing much.

just to maintain that 300 and not be losing weight they are relentlessly stuffing their gobs its not like whoops i had a naughty weekens of too much cake it is terminator level attacking all food in sight 24/7.

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[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I read a guy’s story where he through out all the shit food in the house, and she started going to down on doughnut stores. [/quote]

Do you have any personal experiences with this. Please don’t freak out like Yolo. I ask because perspective matters. [/quote]

ill let you be the judge:

-my ex girlfriend

when we started dating, she was 5’3 140lbs (almost triple D’s contributed a lot to her weight). We broke up 2 years later, but stayed friends. 2 years later she started ballooning up (155lbs at 5’3) and came to me for advice. I told her to clean up her diet and start walking on her treadmill.

Her response? “Im just going to eat whatever I want and work out more to compensate.” No matter how many times I told her it would fail… she didn’t believe me (lol). She’s about 180lbs at the moment (still 5’3)

-my mom

after she quit her full time job, she started putting on weight (I guess there goes the argument of working more makes u fat). she was about 5’1 170.

I started throwing away food in our refrigerator because im the man in my house (jk but serious).

She and my dad regularly have “get-togethers” with members of their church to eat and socialize. Of course, all the men were in decent shape, and their wive’s were ham planets (disturbing).

the fat wives brought all kinds of treats which my mom FUCKING DOVE ON. She would eat it and smile at me… as if she was “sticking it to me”.

as time went by, her mood REALLY began to tank. my brother and I convinced her that her fat-fuckness was what was causing it… and my brother and I both saw a look in her eyes that we had never seen before… it was like she was “waking up”. Now she has been eating right, working out, lost a shit ton of weight… and is really happy with herself and with life

and my parents marriage is as strong as ever 28 years and counting[/quote]

Also maybe work did keep your mom slim, it does the opposite for many. I’ve worked aroudn A LOT of very fat women in an office setting.

[/quote]

look in the drawers of their desks… post back with your sugary findings

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
how long have you been married? How long have you had a full time job? How long have you lived under your own roof? How many bills do you pay a month?[/quote]

how does any of this make someone consume tens of times more calories than they are using on a daily basis?

you have the mentality of a fat person too… “it’s all these other things that made me fat… not the fact that I shovel chocolate covered churros down my hatch 12x a day”

“it’s muh genetics”[/quote]
Dude did some fat kid kick your ass when you were young or what? [/quote]

nope… I WAS the fat kid.

13 weeks, about 4 weeks of 2 hours of cardio every day, nothing but chicken and egg whites, full time accounting student (living on my own for whatever that is worth).

guess how many excuses I made?[/quote]
Congrats.

Now you need to learn to be humble and you may make a decent human being. [/quote]

lol I don’t have pride issues, I don’t don’t sugar coat shit for the fat fucks[/quote]
Well just because you used a hammer to fix a door doesnt mean you use the hammer to fix the car.

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[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
What does that say about you? Maybe she got fat because she has to work 40+ hours a week to support YOU and your kids, did you think of that?
[/quote]

how does working 40+ hours a week make someone fat? logic says it would do the opposite…

any defense of fat people is laughable… they aren’t fat because they are stressed… they aren’t fat because they feel bad about themselves…

they are fat because they shovel loads of shit down their gullets every meal of every day and don’t exercise… this is science people… calories in > calories out = weight gain.[/quote]

As a former Fat guy and friends with depression. Yes its calories in and calories out, however

its never an easy fix. [/quote]

what’s so hard about eating right and exercising? this is what is wrong with you fat people lol… you are shoulder-deep in denial.

you overcomplicate the issue so much that it seems like it’s impossible to overcome… so you give up, but pat yourself on the back for trying and treat yourself to some cinnabuns [/quote]

I have to agree with this.

The hardest part is the first few weeks. You have to figure out what to buy, how to prepare it, how to time it, your body takes time to adjust to the changes and then…its completely routine. It becomes mechanical. Its just another part of your life, like going to work or school everyday. Its ridiculously simple.

You make time to eat every day right? Well now you’re just eating different things. If you are too picky of an eater to stomach healthy food, grow up.

Outside of medical issues, theres really no excuse for not being able to shed some lbs, especially a chick at 300, she could melt back down to 210 in (relatively) no time with proper diet. [/quote]

For most people, changing ingrained habits, particularly ones that mimic addictive behavior, is one of the hardest things on earth to achieve. It is that much harder for those not equipped with the knowledge of how to correctly approach the situation. To act as if it’s just as simple as “sticking with it” for a long enough time is evidence you are one of those lucky enough not to have had to deal with repeated failures and the feeling of despair and self-hatred that accompanies it. Good for you, but for people who have had to overcome addictions and deeply ingrained destructive habits, your advice is unhelpful at best, and at worst, just makes things worse.

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walkway the green thong is so gross

OP show this photo of walkways green thong and you’ll put her off dinner

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[quote]yolo84 wrote:
walkway the green thong is so gross

OP show this photo of walkways green thong and you’ll put her off dinner[/quote]

it’s actually not a thong it’s basically the same type of under garment as in the before pic, I just pulled it up my ass

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The trolling is strong in this thread.

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Until you have walked in someone elses shoes you have no idea why they make the decisions they make. Alot of assumptions are being made here by all.

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still waiting oortes