Ever Had an Affair Outside Marriage?

Mr_Walkway · April 17, 2013, 5:17pm

[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
What does that say about you? Maybe she got fat because she has to work 40+ hours a week to support YOU and your kids, did you think of that?
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how does working 40+ hours a week make someone fat? logic says it would do the opposite…

any defense of fat people is laughable… they aren’t fat because they are stressed… they aren’t fat because they feel bad about themselves…

they are fat because they shovel loads of shit down their gullets every meal of every day and don’t exercise… this is science people… calories in > calories out = weight gain.[/quote]

As a former Fat guy and friends with depression. Yes its calories in and calories out, however

its never an easy fix. [/quote]

what’s so hard about eating right and exercising? this is what is wrong with you fat people lol… you are shoulder-deep in denial.

you overcomplicate the issue so much that it seems like it’s impossible to overcome… so you give up, but pat yourself on the back for trying and treat yourself to some cinnabuns [/quote]

When you are depressed/stressed the last thing on your mind is, “should I eat veggies or this ice cream.”

It’s also hard when Dr. Phil, Dr. Oz, or the U.S. gov say eat 300g of carbs a day, avoid fats, protein will give you kidney failure. The OPs wife probably has no clue what is ideal to eat. [/quote]

People dont get to 300 lbs because they were being conscious of what they were eating. You really think this woman kept Dr. Oz and the U.S. government in mind when ordering her triple stacker with bacon from wendys?

And ill never understand the “im depressed, im gonna stuff my face with candy and cake, that’ll show me” attitude. How is depression a valid excuse for eating like shit? when im upset, the last thing i think is “i bet a fuckin bag of fun size snickers is what i need right now.”
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this is real talk… whenever I get depressed (very rare), I train harder, or go work on my tan… or up my dose of aas… something/anything to improve my physical appearance

it may sound shallow, but the truth is, someone’s mood is VERY closely tied to how attractive they feel they are…

anon50325502 · April 17, 2013, 5:18pm

[quote]yolo84 wrote:
i am not 22 year old you prick.
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Wow strong rebuttal. That’s what your hub says.

I never said anything of the sort. You’re aweful defensive though. Why’s that champ?

Oh I’m sorry I didn’t know this was the high five the OP and bash his wife thread. Sorry my comments don’t meet your expectations.

Sure. When mommmy and daddy pay for everything, you have all the time in the world to exercise and concentrate on eating right. When you have these things called responsibilites, things can often get in the way of the above.

You could have shut me up by answering them. Why didn’t you?

Says some random guy on the interent. I’ll cry myself to sleep tonight for sure.

Mr_Walkway · April 17, 2013, 5:26pm

[quote]yolo84 wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
The OP can not control his wife’s behavior. He can’t make her diet, can’t make her make better food choices, and can’t make her more physically active. In fact, she may very well resent any attempts to do so as controlling. Which they are.

“Honey, I love you very much but because of the weight you’ve put on since we first met, I’m not as sexually attracted to you as I was at first. I’d really love for us to get back to that point, and if you feel the same way, what can I do to support you?”
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oh fuck off with this shit

she is 300 fucking pounds! at 5’11!

it isn’t controlling to say “hey fatso how about you eat 15 doughnuts rather than 30 today?”

the western world is just a joke people are so pathetic

he should grow some balls and tell her to get a fucking grip

if she bursts into tears and then wakes up in the night fills the bath tub up with chocolate sauce and drowns herself then fuck her hire a crane to get the bath out and move on. [/quote]

Dr. P is right, this is how this shit ALWAYS GOES

the man tries to help his wife… she resents him and gets even fatter. I read a guy’s story where he through out all the shit food in the house, and she started going to town on doughnut stores.

anon50325502 · April 17, 2013, 5:19pm

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
What does that say about you? Maybe she got fat because she has to work 40+ hours a week to support YOU and your kids, did you think of that?
[/quote]

how does working 40+ hours a week make someone fat? logic says it would do the opposite…

any defense of fat people is laughable… they aren’t fat because they are stressed… they aren’t fat because they feel bad about themselves…

they are fat because they shovel loads of shit down their gullets every meal of every day and don’t exercise… this is science people… calories in > calories out = weight gain.[/quote]

As a former Fat guy and friends with depression. Yes its calories in and calories out, however

its never an easy fix. [/quote]

what’s so hard about eating right and exercising? this is what is wrong with you fat people lol… you are shoulder-deep in denial.

you overcomplicate the issue so much that it seems like it’s impossible to overcome… so you give up, but pat yourself on the back for trying and treat yourself to some cinnabuns [/quote]

When you are depressed/stressed the last thing on your mind is, “should I eat veggies or this ice cream.”

It’s also hard when Dr. Phil, Dr. Oz, or the U.S. gov say eat 300g of carbs a day, avoid fats, protein will give you kidney failure. The OPs wife probably has no clue what is ideal to eat. [/quote]

People dont get to 300 lbs because they were being conscious of what they were eating. You really think this woman kept Dr. Oz and the U.S. government in mind when ordering her triple stacker with bacon from wendys?

And ill never understand the “im depressed, im gonna stuff my face with candy and cake, that’ll show me” attitude. How is depression a valid excuse for eating like shit? when im upset, the last thing i think is “i bet a fuckin bag of fun size snickers is what i need right now.”
[/quote]

this is real talk… whenever I get depressed (very rare), I train harder, or go work on my tan… or up my dose of aas… something/anything to improve my physical appearance

it may sound shallow, but the truth is, someone’s mood is VERY closely tied to how attractive they feel they are…
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Isn’t it possible for someone to be the exact opposite?

Dr_Pangloss · April 17, 2013, 5:20pm

[quote]yolo84 wrote:

So she would lose the wight after the divorce - to spite me?

fuck her then!

just proves she could have lost it when we were together and could not be bothered.

good riddance. [/quote]

Huh.

I thought we were talking about the OP.

Edgy · April 17, 2013, 5:20pm

I’d divorce my wife of 22 years if she was 300 lbs.

yep.

and I think most of you would also. Would I have an affair or a girl on the side for sexy time? nah - I aint smart enough to keep two wimmenz strung along.

I spend too much time out of my life devoting it to fitness and an ideal body to put up with it.

but life is toooooooo fucking short to have a lump of a lardass lazy ass wife. I’d take the kids too.

(awaits e-thrashing)

Mr_Walkway · April 17, 2013, 5:20pm

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
What does that say about you? Maybe she got fat because she has to work 40+ hours a week to support YOU and your kids, did you think of that?
[/quote]

how does working 40+ hours a week make someone fat? logic says it would do the opposite…

any defense of fat people is laughable… they aren’t fat because they are stressed… they aren’t fat because they feel bad about themselves…

they are fat because they shovel loads of shit down their gullets every meal of every day and don’t exercise… this is science people… calories in > calories out = weight gain.[/quote]

As a former Fat guy and friends with depression. Yes its calories in and calories out, however

its never an easy fix. [/quote]

what’s so hard about eating right and exercising? this is what is wrong with you fat people lol… you are shoulder-deep in denial.

you overcomplicate the issue so much that it seems like it’s impossible to overcome… so you give up, but pat yourself on the back for trying and treat yourself to some cinnabuns [/quote]
lol, are you calling me a fat person?

To answer your question yes it can be hard cause its called life. Your post reeks of youth[/quote]

you may not be fat anymore but you still have the weak, excuse-making mentality of a fat person… “it’s too hard” “I don’t know how to start” “IT’S NOT TASTY!!!”

your post reeks of fat

anon50325502 · April 17, 2013, 5:20pm

[quote]yolo84 wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]yolo84 wrote:

oh fuck off with this shit

she is 300 fucking pounds! at 5’11!

it isn’t controlling to say “hey fatso how about you eat 15 doughnuts rather than 30 today?”

the western world is just a joke people are so pathetic

he should grow some balls and tell her to get a fucking grip

if she bursts into tears and then wakes up in the night fills the bath tub up with chocolate sauce and drowns herself then fuck her hire a crane to get the bath out and move on.

Another gem of relationship advice right here…

Another bleeding heart.

She is “depressed” she “works 40 hours” she has “kids”

Literally hundreds of millions of people do this stuff and are fine.

A 300lb woman is morbidly obese.

To get to that stage she has been stuffing about 10 thousand calories down her cake hole per day for years.

How can you sympathise with that? It is pathetic.

She has kids and a husband and should take some responsibilty.

She is an adult.

This is the same shit as she is “addicted” to food and “addiction is a disease.”

It is this sort of thing that has made America the land of the lard.

No one needs to take responsibilty cos they are depressed or addicted.

All she needs to do is walk on a treadmill a mile AM and a mile PM and cut down a TINY bit on the food and ahe would lose fuckloads of weight.

That is not difficult.

She is not in bed with terminal cancer she is just a lazy pig.
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Your way will work very well if the OP wants to burn his relationship to the ground. And I guarantee she will lose the weight, most likely right after the divorce is finalized.

Reading back over what you wrote, why would you speak to someone you love that way? Would you speak to your child like that and expect that it wouldn’t be somehow damaging?
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She is not a child she is an adult.

She is not mentally ill or suffering from a disease.

She is weak.

She has eaten cakes until she is about to burst i have no sympathy for her.

So she would lose the wight after the divorce - to spite me?

fuck her then!

just proves she could have lost it when we were together and could not be bothered.

good riddance. [/quote]

How do you know the above?

anon50325502 · April 17, 2013, 5:22pm

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I read a guy’s story where he through out all the shit food in the house, and she started going to down on doughnut stores. [/quote]

Do you have any personal experiences with this. Please don’t freak out like Yolo. I ask because perspective matters.

Derek542 · April 17, 2013, 5:22pm