Epic Troll Potential

[quote]imhungry wrote:
Is this going to help your kids?

Can this make it worse for your kids?

The answers to these is what i’d base my decision on…[/quote]

There’s a pretty big grey area there. There are potential consequences ether way, and I like my odds of not being caught better than I like her odds of pulling a good man out of that shit hole. If the pool of men she were drawing from were of a higher quality, this would be an easy answer. But given the circumstances, encouraging her to aim a little higher might not be such a bad idea. Sadly, the direct approach is not an option.

[quote]cstratton2 wrote:
Why is it so neccessary to do this? In terms of pros and cons at least… I mean what do you gain from doing something like this?? Satisfaction to know your ex wife is suffering and to falsify things to her in terms of spite? Whatever you do regardless take note of the consequences of your actions… Morals and ethics aside there is a chance that this could lead you to be barred from ever seeing your kids again… Just make peace with it all and let it all go for your own sake of mind, or suffer the consequence [/quote]

Not really. The court doesn’t decide child custody disputes on how well or how poorly the parents get along. Until they outlaw internet trolling, there’s not really anything she can do in the long term. There’s basically no way she’ll ever know anyways. She’s not exactly Sherlock Holmes.

As for the why, it’s for the lulz.

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
I want to know the answer to everything.[/quote]

Yeah, if you have gotten enough of them, trust me, you dont.

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I’m not unaware that there are crimes involving children, if that’s what you’re suggesting. However, I’m not sure that’s what Bromcoandy was getting at. I read him to be saying that the kids are a draw for potential dates on Plenty of Fish. Whereas I am under the impression that children are a detriment when trying to attract potential romantic partners.

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Single moms are pretty easy. Making it know that youre raising kids on your own signals to men that you never have time to find a nice cock to sit on.

She is lonely and knows there are preying men out there who will at least keep up some bullshit private or text messages…and eventually offer a fake smile at a shitty chain resturant for an hour before heading to a rundown motel…where he bangs her and she goes to her happy place in the mind.

As far as fucking goes single moms are level 1. Lol[/quote]

Ct. Rock got it. Advertising yourself as a “single mom” (as in “I have 2 kids, and you have to want them too”) on a site like that (lets be honest here, this is the trailer park of dating sites, not the high king’s court full of white knights) simply invites skuzzy dudes into your life who prey on situations like that. As does informing them that you’ve had your tubes tied (might aswell put a neon sign in front of your house that says “wet your dick here---->”). Now… hey. She could die of aids, and I’d throw a party. But frankly, the kind of man this is going to attract is not the type of man I want spending time with my children.[/quote]

Dude that sounds freaking ridiculous. Besides if it is so full of scuzzy dudes who are bad for your children, why were you there? Because I am finding myself skeptical of this being your ‘friend’ who spotted her.

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]cstratton2 wrote:
Why is it so neccessary to do this? In terms of pros and cons at least… I mean what do you gain from doing something like this?? Satisfaction to know your ex wife is suffering and to falsify things to her in terms of spite? Whatever you do regardless take note of the consequences of your actions… Morals and ethics aside there is a chance that this could lead you to be barred from ever seeing your kids again… Just make peace with it all and let it all go for your own sake of mind, or suffer the consequence [/quote]

Not really. The court doesn’t decide child custody disputes on how well or how poorly the parents get along. Until they outlaw internet trolling, there’s not really anything she can do in the long term. There’s basically no way she’ll ever know anyways. She’s not exactly Sherlock Holmes.

As for the why, it’s for the lulz.[/quote]

Don’t be a fool. She could accuse you of harassment.

[quote]Typhoon wrote:
You can do no greater damage to an ex than by completely ignoring her. Revenge always seems like a great way to get back at someone but that rarely works out well. It can sometime but rarely.

If you go through with this no matter how you manage to get her hopes up on some date eventually she’ll probably find out it was you and feel like you still care about her and haven’t gotten over her. If, on the other hand, you leave her alone and get yourself in shape (I don’t know if you are or not) and move on with your life concentrate on building your life back up and doing well. Then she find out, from a friend/relative w/e, that you are doing well and she is on sites like plenty of fish THAT will do significantly greater damage than w/e you can cook up.

I am speaking from personal experience here. [/quote]

Brother, apart from the fact that my kids live in the ghetto, and my pocket book is constantly lightened by the court to fund their mother’s pudding habbit, life is great. And she knows. And she hits on me every time I drop the kids off. And it makes me throw up in my mouth a little.

[quote]debraD wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
I want to know the answer to everything.[/quote]

Yeah, if you have gotten enough of them, trust me, you dont.

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I’m not unaware that there are crimes involving children, if that’s what you’re suggesting. However, I’m not sure that’s what Bromcoandy was getting at. I read him to be saying that the kids are a draw for potential dates on Plenty of Fish. Whereas I am under the impression that children are a detriment when trying to attract potential romantic partners.

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Single moms are pretty easy. Making it know that youre raising kids on your own signals to men that you never have time to find a nice cock to sit on.

She is lonely and knows there are preying men out there who will at least keep up some bullshit private or text messages…and eventually offer a fake smile at a shitty chain resturant for an hour before heading to a rundown motel…where he bangs her and she goes to her happy place in the mind.

As far as fucking goes single moms are level 1. Lol[/quote]

Ct. Rock got it. Advertising yourself as a “single mom” (as in “I have 2 kids, and you have to want them too”) on a site like that (lets be honest here, this is the trailer park of dating sites, not the high king’s court full of white knights) simply invites skuzzy dudes into your life who prey on situations like that. As does informing them that you’ve had your tubes tied (might aswell put a neon sign in front of your house that says “wet your dick here---->”). Now… hey. She could die of aids, and I’d throw a party. But frankly, the kind of man this is going to attract is not the type of man I want spending time with my children.[/quote]

Dude that sounds freaking ridiculous. Besides if it is so full of scuzzy dudes who are bad for your children, why were you there? Because I am finding myself skeptical of this being your ‘friend’ who spotted her.
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Friends in low places Ms.D

[quote]debraD wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]cstratton2 wrote:
Why is it so neccessary to do this? In terms of pros and cons at least… I mean what do you gain from doing something like this?? Satisfaction to know your ex wife is suffering and to falsify things to her in terms of spite? Whatever you do regardless take note of the consequences of your actions… Morals and ethics aside there is a chance that this could lead you to be barred from ever seeing your kids again… Just make peace with it all and let it all go for your own sake of mind, or suffer the consequence [/quote]

Not really. The court doesn’t decide child custody disputes on how well or how poorly the parents get along. Until they outlaw internet trolling, there’s not really anything she can do in the long term. There’s basically no way she’ll ever know anyways. She’s not exactly Sherlock Holmes.

As for the why, it’s for the lulz.[/quote]

Don’t be a fool. She could accuse you of harassment.[/quote]

Which still has nothing to do with kids. She’s already accused me of much worse, and gotten nowhere. I’m really not concerned.

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]debraD wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]cstratton2 wrote:
Why is it so neccessary to do this? In terms of pros and cons at least… I mean what do you gain from doing something like this?? Satisfaction to know your ex wife is suffering and to falsify things to her in terms of spite? Whatever you do regardless take note of the consequences of your actions… Morals and ethics aside there is a chance that this could lead you to be barred from ever seeing your kids again… Just make peace with it all and let it all go for your own sake of mind, or suffer the consequence [/quote]

Not really. The court doesn’t decide child custody disputes on how well or how poorly the parents get along. Until they outlaw internet trolling, there’s not really anything she can do in the long term. There’s basically no way she’ll ever know anyways. She’s not exactly Sherlock Holmes.

As for the why, it’s for the lulz.[/quote]

Don’t be a fool. She could accuse you of harassment.[/quote]

Which still has nothing to do with kids. She’s already accused me of much worse, and gotten nowhere. I’m really not concerned.[/quote]

Regardless. It’s time for you to move on. Why are you letting you’re emotions drive you like this? You are choosing unhappiness.

(Sorry on edge–I can’t not say that :stuck_out_tongue: )

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
I want to know the answer to everything.[/quote]

Yeah, if you have gotten enough of them, trust me, you dont.

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I’m not unaware that there are crimes involving children, if that’s what you’re suggesting. However, I’m not sure that’s what Bromcoandy was getting at. I read him to be saying that the kids are a draw for potential dates on Plenty of Fish. Whereas I am under the impression that children are a detriment when trying to attract potential romantic partners.

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Single moms are pretty easy. Making it know that youre raising kids on your own signals to men that you never have time to find a nice cock to sit on.

She is lonely and knows there are preying men out there who will at least keep up some bullshit private or text messages…and eventually offer a fake smile at a shitty chain resturant for an hour before heading to a rundown motel…where he bangs her and she goes to her happy place in the mind.

As far as fucking goes single moms are level 1. Lol[/quote]

This makes me sad. I have a cousin who seems to be having essentially this experience. Every time I talk to her she’s talking to someone new and is in the process of falling in love, then the next time we chat he’s gone. But I think that’s more a function of her lousy boundaries and poor priorities in men.

I guess she needs to get better at the game, huh? How depressing.

Broncoandy, I am disappointed. You can and should be better than this. Be the kind of man your children can look up to! It sounds like their mom is pretty lacking. Shouldn’t they have one strong, honorable parent?

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

Broncoandy, I am disappointed. You can and should be better than this. Be the kind of man your children can look up to! It sounds like their mom is pretty lacking. Shouldn’t they have one strong, honorable parent?

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Amen. Easy litmus test for whether or not you should do something you are feeling a moral dilemma about. Would I do this in front of my kids or want them to engage in this sort of behavior?

But what do I know? I’m just a happily married man.

[quote]Cortes wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

Broncoandy, I am disappointed. You can and should be better than this. Be the kind of man your children can look up to! It sounds like their mom is pretty lacking. Shouldn’t they have one strong, honorable parent?

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Amen. Easy litmus test for whether or not you should do something you are feeling a moral dilemma about. Would I do this in front of my kids or want them to engage in this sort of behavior?

But what do I know? I’m just a happily married man. [/quote]

Then youre lying bc we cant be happily married. I read it in Tnation.

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
This makes me sad. I have a cousin who seems to be having essentially this experience. Every time I talk to her she’s talking to someone new and is in the process of falling in love, then the next time we chat he’s gone. But I think that’s more a function of her lousy boundaries and poor priorities in men.

I guess she needs to get better at the game, huh? How depressing.[/quote]

Well, I’m pretty sure it was established that good boundaries and the right priorities were kind of essential parts of ‘the game’.

But I’m kind of with you there, I don’t really like the way things work. If I meet a girl I’m really interested in, and I’m enthusiastic about it, I don’t like that if I actually show that enthusiasm, it means that things will probably go nowhere. Or that if I restrain myself and show some interest, but not too much, that things actually go somewhere. (I say that based on actual life experience, not something I read somewhere.)

I don’t like that there seems to be no correlation between the ‘quality’ of the girl, whether she’s looking for a serious relationship or not, and really almost anything she says she wants… and whether she’s turned on or turned off by changes in availability and perceived interest. But it’s kind of like being forced to learn office politics; you really don’t want to, you really don’t think it should be necessary, but if you don’t, you just keep getting screwed over.

But I’m glad you found someone you’re happy with, and I wish your cousin luck.

[quote]LoRez wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
This makes me sad. I have a cousin who seems to be having essentially this experience. Every time I talk to her she’s talking to someone new and is in the process of falling in love, then the next time we chat he’s gone. But I think that’s more a function of her lousy boundaries and poor priorities in men.

I guess she needs to get better at the game, huh? How depressing.[/quote]

Well, I’m pretty sure it was established that good boundaries and the right priorities were kind of essential parts of ‘the game’.

But I’m kind of with you there, I don’t really like the way things work. If I meet a girl I’m really interested in, and I’m enthusiastic about it, I don’t like that if I actually show that enthusiasm, it means that things will probably go nowhere. Or that if I restrain myself and show some interest, but not too much, that things actually go somewhere. (I say that based on actual life experience, not something I read somewhere.)

I don’t like that there seems to be no correlation between the ‘quality’ of the girl, whether she’s looking for a serious relationship or not, and really almost anything she says she wants… and whether she’s turned on or turned off by changes in availability and perceived interest. But it’s kind of like being forced to learn office politics; you really don’t want to, you really don’t think it should be necessary, but if you don’t, you just keep getting screwed over.
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If that feeling gets too much, you need to find a street corner and hit on every woman that passes by.

I think the reason why some of the best simply start with “hey, wanna fuck” is because they cannot hear one more line of bullshit and the reason why they are a rock is because they cannot be bothered to manouver even one inch.

What is that picture of?

[quote]LoRez wrote:
What is that picture of?[/quote]

That should be a gif of a stick figure banging his head against a wall.

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:
Man. I was totally gonna, but I don’t want any white knights ratting me out when this bout of conscience clears up, and I flood her in box with messages from men who are too good to be true at first, but run away when they find out that “customer service” is code for “Sandwhich artist”, “I love to cook” is code for “I love to eat”, and and “I’m an independent single mother” is code for “I’m a black hole of self pitty, and entitlement”. And by other men who take her statement of “I can’t have any more kids” to mean she’s down to fuck via unprotected sex, and solicitation for dick pics.[/quote]

Ever time you wrestle in shit, the stink gets a bit harder to wash off.

A lot of people develop a permanent stench that makes anybody worthwhile want to stay away.[/quote]

[quote]imhungry wrote:
Is this going to help your kids?

Can this make it worse for your kids?

The answers to these is what i’d base my decision on…[/quote]

[quote]Cortes wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

Broncoandy, I am disappointed. You can and should be better than this. Be the kind of man your children can look up to! It sounds like their mom is pretty lacking. Shouldn’t they have one strong, honorable parent?

[/quote]

Amen. Easy litmus test for whether or not you should do something you are feeling a moral dilemma about. Would I do this in front of my kids or want them to engage in this sort of behavior?

But what do I know? I’m just a happily married man. [/quote]

This, This, and This.

[quote]farmerson12 wrote:

[quote]Cortes wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

Broncoandy, I am disappointed. You can and should be better than this. Be the kind of man your children can look up to! It sounds like their mom is pretty lacking. Shouldn’t they have one strong, honorable parent?

[/quote]

Amen. Easy litmus test for whether or not you should do something you are feeling a moral dilemma about. Would I do this in front of my kids or want them to engage in this sort of behavior?

But what do I know? I’m just a happily married man. [/quote]

Then youre lying bc we cant be happily married. I read it in Tnation.[/quote]

lol

[quote]debraD wrote:

Dude that sounds freaking ridiculous. Besides if it is so full of scuzzy dudes who are bad for your children, why were you there? Because I am finding myself skeptical of this being your ‘friend’ who spotted her.
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Haha, well said Deb! Broc must be one of those scuzzy fucks he’s talking about. He was probably on Plenty searching for pussy and that’s how he ‘spotted’’ his ex.

What’s fucking pathetic is how he thinks he’s still got the right to decide who and what his ex- wife of 5 FUCKING YEARS chooses to fuck, under the false pretences that her sexual adventure might influence his kids. She must be a great mother otherwise, the children wouldn’t be with her, no? So what if she fancies some dick now and then? What’s the fucking issue with that? Had you had the full custody, Op, I bet you’d be on Plenty fish looking for whores to fuck, thinking about your cock and not your kids, and you wouldn’t give a fuck about what your ex had to say regarding your sexual escapades.

So, please spare us with ‘‘it’s for she sake of my kids’’ bullshit. It’s vengeance you want. You said it in your first couple of posts. You DON’T GIVE A SHIT about your children. You’re bitter fuck and you seek revenge, after 5 fucking years! LMFAO!! FUCKING HILARIOUS. LOLOLOLOL!!! They say women are bat shit crazy but this is something else! You’re a coward and a scum. Probably why she left your ass, and why after 5 FUCKING YEARS, you’re still not over her, you haven’t move on, with a new partner or girLfriend.

I guess some women can smell a rotten asshole from a distance. Hahaha!

LOL at people just going to town on the OP. Silly

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

[quote]debraD wrote:

Dude that sounds freaking ridiculous. Besides if it is so full of scuzzy dudes who are bad for your children, why were you there? Because I am finding myself skeptical of this being your ‘friend’ who spotted her.
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Haha, well said Deb! Broc must be one of those scuzzy fucks he’s talking about. He was probably on Plenty searching for pussy and that’s how he ‘spotted’’ his ex.

What’s fucking pathetic is how he thinks he’s still got the right to decide who and what his ex- wife of 5 FUCKING YEARS chooses to fuck, under the false pretences that her sexual adventure might influence his kids. She must be a great mother otherwise, the children wouldn’t be with her, no? So what if she fancies some dick now and then? What’s the fucking issue with that? Had you had the full custody, Op, I bet you’d be on Plenty fish looking for whores to fuck, thinking about your cock and not your kids, and you wouldn’t give a fuck about what your ex had to say regarding your sexual escapades.

So, please spare us with ‘‘it’s for she sake of my kids’’ bullshit. It’s vengeance you want. You said it in your first couple of posts. You DON’T GIVE A SHIT about your children. You’re bitter fuck and you seek revenge, after 5 fucking years! LMFAO!! FUCKING HILARIOUS. LOLOLOLOL!!! They say women are bat shit crazy but this is something else! You’re a coward and a scum. Probably why she left your ass, and why after 5 FUCKING YEARS, you’re still not over her, you haven’t move on, with a new partner or girLfriend.

I guess some women can smell a rotten asshole from a distance. Hahaha!

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I never said anger wasn’t a motivating factor. I simply said there’s more than one. When my money stops going in her pocket, and my kids are back with me, than it will be after. So long as that continues to happen, it’s during - so lets get into the present tense shall we. This is happening right now. Every day. All day. Not 5 years ago. And yes, I’m bitter, and angry. Which contrary to popular belief are legitimate emotional responses to injustice, and to being fucked around.
Custody doesn’t mean she’s a great mother at all. It is damb near impossible for a woman not to gain custody of the kids in a divorce if she wants it. All she’s gotta do is play the pussy card. And if you don’t think the people you bring into your life when your children are around affect them, you clearly haven’t given it a whole lot of thought.

And it’s not “cock now and than” she wants. It’s a new meal ticket.