I recently encountered my first truly dominant woman. She’s a cool lady and we met casually and hit it off but soon after she got on my fucking nerves. Everything was a fight, more than typical shit. I finally asked her what her problem was and after “what do you mean…?” Found out she considers herself a modern lady.
A modern lady evidently entails confidence, capability blah blah and to her, dominance. She calls the shots. No give and take and certainly no conceding to anything proposed by a man. Men were also to take on traditionally feminine roles in domestic situations.
I knew immediately I couldn’t be with this woman but before these gems of insight surfaced, sexual tension had been building.
I went back to her condo and learned that she calls the shots in bed too which I found irritating but not as irritating as blue balls so I went with it.
We didn’t do anything weird but she was definitely directing the action. The whole time I kept thinking about how weird it was that I fuck her but she’s the boss. Really stupid.
Anyways, I can nail her again if I want but it was such a weird experience I’m not sure.
Dominant women are usually compensating for something. Usually, not always.
But, without being disrespectful to her, you should find a way to ‘break’ her a bit, and assert your own dominance. There’s still value in asserting your own masculinity, and women are biologically hardwired to respond to that. The key is to do it respectfully.
Secondly, as you’ve already noticed, her attitude is a bit off-putting to you. Which means it’s probably the same to most guys. Which means you’re probably one of the few guys in her life that’s not a push-over. Which makes you important to her, in a weird way. Take advantage of that opportunity.
There were a lot of things ‘wrong’ with the old traditional gender roles, but even those are still fundamentally rooted in biology. One of the more amusing examples of what feminism accomplished was ‘empowering’ women to take pole-dancing classes… (In effect, women naturally want to be sexy, but they want you to respect them for it.)
Well,as long as she isn’t a total bitch about it. I knew a buddy who had his girlfriend tell him what to do, disrespect him in public and just made him feel like total dog shit. Couldn’t respect him because he always gave out excuses about it. I like tough girls but there’s a line between that and being a total cunt.
[quote]LoRez wrote:
Dominant women are usually compensating for something. Usually, not always.
But, without being disrespectful to her, you should find a way to ‘break’ her a bit, and assert your own dominance. There’s still value in asserting your own masculinity, and women are biologically hardwired to respond to that. The key is to do it respectfully.
Secondly, as you’ve already noticed, her attitude is a bit off-putting to you. Which means it’s probably the same to most guys. Which means you’re probably one of the few guys in her life that’s not a push-over. Which makes you important to her, in a weird way. Take advantage of that opportunity.
There were a lot of things ‘wrong’ with the old traditional gender roles, but even those are still fundamentally rooted in biology. One of the more amusing examples of what feminism accomplished was ‘empowering’ women to take pole-dancing classes… (In effect, women naturally want to be sexy, but they want you to respect them for it.)[/quote]
Well I had my dick in her.
[quote]LoRez wrote:
Dominant women are usually compensating for something. Usually, not always.
But, without being disrespectful to her, you should find a way to ‘break’ her a bit, and assert your own dominance. There’s still value in asserting your own masculinity, and women are biologically hardwired to respond to that. The key is to do it respectfully.
Secondly, as you’ve already noticed, her attitude is a bit off-putting to you. Which means it’s probably the same to most guys. Which means you’re probably one of the few guys in her life that’s not a push-over. Which makes you important to her, in a weird way. Take advantage of that opportunity.
There were a lot of things ‘wrong’ with the old traditional gender roles, but even those are still fundamentally rooted in biology. One of the more amusing examples of what feminism accomplished was ‘empowering’ women to take pole-dancing classes… (In effect, women naturally want to be sexy, but they want you to respect them for it.)[/quote]
Well I had my dick in her.[/quote]
There you go. You have a dick, she told you what to do with it.
[quote]CargoCapable wrote:
Well I had my dick in her.[/quote]
There you go. You have a dick, she told you what to do with it.[/quote]
That was my point. Don’t let nobody tell you what to do with it.[/quote]
Except when you are fucking her she just becomes that annoying bitch at the office who parrots everything people say as if it were her idea.
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
I’ve met a few. You just have to outsmart them and be the obstacle they can’t overcome. Be the brickwall they can’t run through.
Get her naked show her your hard cock…stroke it …let her touch it. Then just stroll out the door. Simple. She if she doesn’t call back.
Dom women are in my experience the most submissive once you crack the code.
The problem is they can say no. I know that sounds bad but this woman really likes saying no. It’s more than a tease and denial, prolong the pleasure kind of thing and all shitty, princess attitude. Very irritating. You can’t just make no mean yes without raping her.
[quote]CargoCapable wrote:
The problem is they can say no. I know that sounds bad but this woman really likes saying no. It’s more than a tease and denial, prolong the pleasure kind of thing and all shitty, princess attitude. Very irritating. You can’t just make no mean yes without raping her. [/quote]
Find a new woman. Her jealousy will turn her over.
