Domestic Violence Against Men

COMPLETELY WRONG

How do you even come at someone like that?

Disrespectful motherfucker

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
COMPLETELY WRONG

How do you even come at someone like that?

Disrespectful motherfucker[/quote]

Wasn’t meant that way. Sorry I got your panties in a twist. You were though.

[quote]Waylander wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:
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Classic! This guy obviously doesn’t have any qualms about hitting women.[/quote]

I dont know what it is but this picture just cracks me up for some reason. Maybe cause I have 5 teenage kids.

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
I swear some of you are just horny to prove people wrong rather than opening a conversation to really consider topics.

If I was “completely wrong” nature vs nurture would not be a longstanding debate. You say I’m wrong as if I just made this shit up while pissing this morning.

Oh well. I should’ve known to not even try on here with anything.

Anyway…I don’t care anymore

Off to make lulz elsewhere[/quote]

Rock as a father of 3 boys and 2 girls I will say that kids will gravitate to what they like. IF you “make” a kid fit into liking something in the effort of equality is that worse than letting nature take its course?

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Waylander wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:
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Classic! This guy obviously doesn’t have any qualms about hitting women.[/quote]

I dont know what it is but this picture just cracks me up for some reason. Maybe cause I have 5 teenage kids.[/quote]

Everything about it is funny. His stupid grin, uncaring that he’s just kicked his sister in the face. She is crying and bleeding everywhere. And (probably) the parent taking the photo and obviously cracking up, not bothering to help the girl.

[quote]Waylander wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Waylander wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:
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Classic! This guy obviously doesn’t have any qualms about hitting women.[/quote]

I dont know what it is but this picture just cracks me up for some reason. Maybe cause I have 5 teenage kids.[/quote]

Everything about it is funny. His stupid grin, uncaring that he’s just kicked his sister in the face. She is crying and bleeding everywhere. And (probably) the parent taking the photo and obviously cracking up, not bothering to help the girl.[/quote]

More than likely its his friends taking the picture but either way it is funny.

[quote]Grimlorn wrote:

I’m not saying I would hit a woman as hard as I could or anything. I’m more or less saying I would meet it with equal force or very similar. Sure I know how to throw a punch and could cave in most women’s faces if I hit them as hard as I could. I’m not saying I’d do that if I were defending myself against a woman. I also don’t see that as bullying. Yeah if I was threatening the woman and trying to hit her as hard as I could, I would agree it’s bullying, but I wouldn’t do that. I’d be in control. She came at me with a knife or something that could kill me, all bets are off after that, as adrenaline and the will to live would take over. [/quote]

A man will always hit back harder. I don’t even think there can be any control when hitting a woman back. And I’m speaking particularly about men with your train of thought. ‘‘I’m not going to let that bitch slapping me around. I’m going to punish her.’’ And Bam! That blow going to shut her down. You said yourself, you’d hit back, even if it didn’t hurt. And, I bet, you’ll make sure when you reciprocate, that it hurts her. You may think you can control the power in that blow but, hey, you’re a man after all.

The only control, me think, that a man should have is of his hand(lol) and his temper. Get the fuck out of here and leave the crazy bitch breaks stuff around. Even Michael Jordan knew what to do when he wanted to kick his ex-fiancee out of his home. He left his the house and called the cops when she began to lose it.

And by the way, all this time, I haven’t been talking about women attacking men with weapons etc. That’s a totally different scenario.

[quote]Grimlorn wrote:
Since we’re mostly talking about relationships and physical abuse inside them, I wouldn’t date a woman that was like that. She’d be gone real quick.[/quote]

And here is the answer. Why get involved with someone who hits you in the first place?

^ Because DN most people are fucking retarded

[quote]Edevus wrote:
In bold : Total fallacy.

You are implying that women never start any discussions or aggressions. Many studies, including the ones that the founder of the first women’s shelter in UK, A WOMAN, prove this fact : Women are at least as aggressive as men.

What are your sources?

I’ll turn around your other argument. How many men suffered from psychological abuse until they snapped and beat their wives? A very important amount. Again, it’s all in these studies. I put the link to the woman’s name in my first post. You can do your own research from there.

If not, I have a free handbook at home with more data on all this.

EDIT : Like I said in my first post, it all comes down to strength differences. The same action by a man is going to hurt a lot more a woman than if the opposite happens. But besides that, both initate discussions and aggressions at similar levels.
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So what if women start an aggressive row or a fight? Why are you in a relationship with that type of woman?

A man or a woman who chose to stay in a abusive relationship, be it emotional and physical, has only him or herself to blame. Yeap, I’ve said it and I don’t give a shit. Don’t come crying on my shoulder 'cos your wife gave you a fucking black eye, motherfucker.

I swear, so many times I’ve seen girls staying with men who constantly beat the shit out of them and they’ve always had excuses not to leave the fuckers: ‘‘I love him; he’s still a good man; a good father; a good provider; he loves me; he’ll never hurt me; it was my fault, he was right to hit me, he’ll change… blah blah…’’ FUCK YOU AND GET THE FUCK OUT OF THE FUCKING RELATIONSHIP! And the same applies to those men who can’t find the balls to escape their crazy bitches bullies of wives.

The first time your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband hits you, LEAVE. Don’t fucking look back. There WILL ALWAYS be a next time. The circle is vicious and once you decide to stand inside it, it’d be fucking hard to break free. And probably too late. Someone will snap. Someone will probably kill.

See the red flags, flee. Full stop.

[quote]ranengin wrote:

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
I have more respect for men who have more restrain and who walk away from fiery situations
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Here’s a piece of advise my mom gave me when I was a little kid…

Don’t start fights, but if someone hits you, hit them back even harder. If you don’t, odds are good you’re going to wind up as that persons personal punching bag.

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Good to know that at a very young age, your mum taught you to hit women back.

On a serious note, don’t want to be someone’s punching bag? Then, don’t get involved with them.

I know the pussy can be tight and good but some men gotta start overlooking that.

[quote]Derek542 wrote:
^ Because DN most people are fucking retarded[/quote]

Sad reality indeed.

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:
^ Because DN most people are fucking retarded[/quote]

Sad reality indeed.
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Yes it is.

But you stay awesome and its all good.

[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Because DN most people are fucking tards[/quote]
groce

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
Definitely not turning my back to walk away from someone with a purse which could have a potential stun gun real gun or mini crossbow in it. And if she doesn’t have any of those things a brick to the dome would be just as effective.

I don’t start fights with anyone ever but like you if it comes to that point I have to defend myself.

A knife in the stomach is a knife in the stomach no matter what gender the person is that puts it there.

Will. I beat a woman to death? No.

Will I do what I need to do to disable and possibly disarm one? Yes

For me its all about protecting my life. I don’t care for the “don’t be a pussy hit the ho” shit. Lots of people have weapons these day that are concealed. From that I assume any non permitted aggression could escolate to the aggressor putting a bullet in my chest.
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Once again, I don’t know where the weapons attacks argument is coming from. Are we still talking about violence within relationships? Or are we on about a random drunk woman chasing a fake superhero down the streets with her shoe heel? Or are the men suffering from domestic violence are being beaten with knives, machetes and desert eagle pistols too?

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:
^ Because DN most people are fucking retarded[/quote]

Sad reality indeed.
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Yes it is.

But you stay awesome and its all good. [/quote]

Roger that :slight_smile:

People also change.

It’s shortsighted to say all people who enter into an abusive relationships are retarded for doing so.

[quote]therajraj wrote:
People also change.

It’s shortsighted to say all people who enter into an abusive relationships are retarded for doing so.

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People who stay in an abusive relationship in the hope their partner will eventually change (OH, THE EVER SO DELUSIONAL, WONDERFUL POWER OF LOOOOOOVE <3 <3 <3 !!!) need to be lobotomised.

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

On a serious note, don’t want to be someone’s punching bag? Then, don’t get involved with them.

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It’s not easy to avoid bullies in a public school setting. Kids need to learn to stick up for themselves or, odds are, they will become someones punching bag.

“Turning the other cheek” is not always the best policy.

[quote]ranengin wrote:

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

On a serious note, don’t want to be someone’s punching bag? Then, don’t get involved with them.

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It’s not easy to avoid bullies in a public school setting. Kids need to learn to stick up for themselves or, odds are, they will become someones punching bag.

“Turning the other cheek” is not always the best policy.[/quote]

Okay. I hear ya. But I was basing my argument more on romantic/sexual relationships.

[quote]ranengin wrote:

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

On a serious note, don’t want to be someone’s punching bag? Then, don’t get involved with them.

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It’s not easy to avoid bullies in a public school setting. Kids need to learn to stick up for themselves or, odds are, they will become someones punching bag.

“Turning the other cheek” is not always the best policy.[/quote]
Bullying is probably best left for a different thread, but it’s pretty hard for some kids to “stick up” for themselves. It doesn’t mean they’ll end up someone else’s punching bag later in life. Certain kids just can’t respond against bullying, and really should’t have to. Those asshole parents of the asshole bullies need to be straightened out. I’m not against the normal shit in childhood, in fact I think a lot of it is good, but kids who are hassled, beaten, and shit on everyday… it’s not cool.