And I have been
No, it wasn’t about you, sorry to kill your ego. I was talking about someone else.
Not everything is about you. Sorry if that surprises or shocks you, but there are others in this world that live and breathe.
Define Cognitive dissonance and give two examples you have experienced.
Onanism is based on Onan in the Christian bible, standard google search would have sufficed. He masturbated rather than banging.
I am pretty sure you did not mean to masturbate to your grandma, but that was kind of creepy.
See, you should not fuck with the old people.
Well, Semi takes on a new meaning - it is kind of small.
Summary - @Zecarlo was creepy, talking incel shit, I alerted the Mods, they agreed.
Everybody clear?
Here comes the tiny semi.
Guess he thought better of it.
Let’s look into this reply. Are you not capable of seeing that my use of “might” removes my comment from the psychic and mind reading realm? Yet from my singular comment you attached psychic and mind reader to my ability. Do you see the remotest foundation for such an accusation?
Please work me through the logic. It would be helpful if you left pathos out of the argument, considering I am a far left brain STEM. Emotions have no place in my mathematical centered world.
I alerted the Mods, they agreed.
Just to clear things up. What does “they agreed” precisely mean? Did the Mods send you a message?
Did I miss much while I was gone?
Nay. Pretty uneventful here.
Emotions have no place in my mathematical centered world.
If that were the case, you would not have used the word might. A STEM person, as you claim to be, would be certain, would not use the word might at all.
The fact that you used the word might indicates that you are a fraud. You identify as STEM, black and white, yet you are not. You recognize ambiguity, and the possibility of gray, so you are a fraud.
I realize that you are 76 years old, that realizing that you are a fraud can be chilling for you.
Rather than being chilled, you should feel free - free to embrace creativity, the divine feminine.
Cheers!
If that were the case, you would not have used the word might. A STEM person, as you claim to be, would be certain, would not use the word might at all.
Ever heard of inferential statistics?
Don’t let’s make this a two person dance. I’m out.
Please, continue.
Don’t let’s make this a two person dance.
You have been dancing most all of our conversation.
Many teachers suffer from PTSD.
Oh, the incel got the get out of jail free card.
I have a whole deck.
I am pretty sure you did not mean to masturbate to your grandma, but that was kind of creepy.
This is pure gold. I’m jealous.
Look, you Millenial, Gen Z, Y, X, whatever, don’t get it.
And then I realized that you and I are the same “generation.” Yet we seemed so very different, so I decided to look into this “generation” stuff. As it would be, I found that there are people who split the Baby Boomers into two “sub-groups”
- Boomers I: Those born 1946-1954
- Boomers II (aka Generation Jones): Those born 1955-1965
Seems they separated the two groups based on the Generation Jones being too young to have been subject to the military draft.
Yes, body count absolutely matters in both cases for the same reason.
I may get dismissed as a Ned Flanders here but when Ned’s right, he’s right.
Having a high body count, based on my own observations, is a really quick way to surmise how much of a risk that person is to you.
If you find a person with what you consider a high body count, that tells you a lot about how loyal they’ll be to you. Assuming loyalty is even a thing you care about.
Yes, people can change and I won’t discredit that but it’s my observation that they only change in this regard AFTER they’ve wrecked their life and the lives of others. I really cannot think of a quicker, more effective way to bring a shit load of unnecessary drama into your life than by “high body count” life.
Speaking candidly, hopefully this is not TMI, but I have a body count of 1, it’s my wife, and I haven’t regretted this in 23 years. Not that I don’t sometimes stare at the buffet with a hungry look when it walks by. But I do not regret being loyal and having a wife loyal to me. I’ll take that over what I see in my close friends and family who have as many sexual partners as they possibly can. I truly grieve for my brother. He’s 14 years older than me and is definitely a high body count sort of guy. As he’s aged, he’s now so very lonely, in very bad health, broke, and still trying to play the game. I have high school buddies, now nearing 50, doing this same thing and it’s painful to see how they are suffering because of it.
So, using this concept of body count. By keeping a body count of 1, I’ve managed to avoid:
Literally all stds
Having baby-mommas
Having multiple/any people demanding child support.
Drama from previous partners
Drama from my current partner over past trysts
Multiple divorces or breakups
Pissed off friends b/c I banged their girl
A reputation for being the town bicyclist
Life is hard, marriage is hard, monogamy is hard. I won’t lie. To be honest there are times in my life where I’m not sure I could have resisted failure here if the opportunity presented itself.
The temptation is real and very strong. However, across the board, I’m fortunate to be in a much better situation than my friends and family with “body counts”. Life is not supposed to be about sexual fulfillment. Sex should obviously be fun, and frequent, but I’ve only seen it result in lifelong happiness for people who are monogamous, or very damned close to it.
I’m sure someone will find this post offensive and I do not intend it to be such. I’m just being honest with my observations. I’m not here to throw judgment on anyone or be derogatory.
Hopefully someone will find this as an encouragement to keep themselves clean.