This is tangential ranting, but one of my biggest pet peeves is having to have conversations about lifting (or really any fitness modality) with people who aren’t really into training themselves, or otherwise just don’t get it.
I get asked for advice and stuff fairly often (which I always find odd, since in my mind I’m still very much a beginner here,) and 90% of the time just point people in the direction of 5/3/1 / conditioning / eating more. That’s not what I’m complaining about - I enjoy lending that advice. The few people who have actually taken it are doing well for themselves. What I’m complaining about having to listen to someone who squats half of my press say that I shouldn’t lock my elbows during it, on the basis of some TicTok he had seen thirty minutes ago, or gawking at the amount of food I go through in a meal and wondering out loud how I’m not fatter. Or claiming that insert non-couch-sitting activity is going to destroy my/their/all of humanity’s collective insert body part. Bonus points if it’s my spine. Or telling me - as I wipe my own fucking shin blood off of the bar - that they don’t deadlift because big traps would ruin their aesthetics. While standing at a whopping 125 Lbs.
I’ve never seen anyone actually change their views on this stuff by having it explained to them, so I pretty much just smile and laugh through the conversations, but holy fuck it gets grating.
HUGE EDIT: Some actually productive stuff - rewatching the push press, it looks like the reason I lost my footing was that I let the bar get way too far in front of me. It’s definitely a lift where I’d benefit quite a bit from outright practice, since I’m extremely inconsistent with it as-is. One idea I had (which I’m 90% sure is just something from @T3hPwnisher which I just read a while ago and internalized) was to have a press day with press supplemental and a push press day with bench supplemental (and maybe dips). Maybe it’s falling into the trap of focusing too much on what I’m good at, but that sounds much more appealing than what I have now. And conveniently enough, now I have a max for it to run percentages with.
BJJ starts the 21st, and is going to be Tuesday/Friday/Sunday nights for about an hour (which is short enough that I’ll probably throw on a pretty generous amount of conditioning on top afterwards). This leaves me with a few options:
- Wrestle M/W, BJJ T/F/Su, Lift Th/Sa
- BJJ T/F/Su, Lift M/W/Th/Sa
- Keep doing what I’m doing now
The one thing I really don’t want to do is go to only some wrestling practices and only some BJJ practices, since I’ll still end up paying full dues and do worse at both. One of the biggest factors that’ll probably end up affecting the way I go here is how competitively-oriented the BJJ club is. If we’re not going to be rolling hard, fielding a lineup at local tournaments, and doing at least some stand-up work, I doubt I’ll be very interested. But if it is competitively oriented, I honestly do like the idea of branching out from wrestling. Getting to be a complete neophyte again sounds really fun.
So here’s an actionable plan:
- For my next cycle of 5/3/1, have a press/SSL clean & press and a push press/volume bench day
- Take a week off wrestling as BJJ starts, go to practices and scope out/ask if the club has what I’m looking for
- Choose which sport I’m going to be completely obnoxious about making my entire personality center around for the next four to five years
I’m hoping to get some advice from you all about all of this stuff, so fire away if you have anything.