[quote]bushidobadboy wrote:
Professor X wrote:
bushidobadboy wrote:
To me, couloured contacts spell ‘uber vain’.
Actually, if I meet a girl with coloured contacts, I won’t flirt with/screw her because I consider her her to extrememly insecure/shallow.
If I want to do a business deal with a guy and percieve him to have coloured contacts, I will back off from the deal becasue I percieve him to be shallow and untrustworthy.
But that’s just me. Whilst I appreciate that it’s nice to take pride in ones appearance, certain things just send out warning signals to me.
BBB
LOL.
There’s a difference between “high maintenance” and “let me try some colored contact lenses”.
Hopefully your judgments of others goes a tad deeper than what you just wrote because that’s worse than girls judging how much money a guy has by what shoes he’s wearing.
Perhaps I should mention that so far, all the girls I havwe ever met with coloured contacts, have been shallow, vain and incapable of holding a meaningful conversation.
So I do base this on experience. Of course, I have only met about 15-20 contact girls, but eveery single opne of them has has a personality that has turned me off.
Regarding men with coloured contacts, I stand by what I say. I would not trust a man who is that vain. I would not consider them to be dependable.
Fair enough if one eye was naturally ‘deformed’ or whatever, that’s a totally different story, more like a ‘prosthesis’.
I have met 3 men with coloured contacts and each time I thought “you vain prick” after talking to them for a while. The initial contact, when I noticed the cotnacts (i.e. about 5 milliseconda after looking into their eyes), was ‘whoa’, WTF. They just look wierd and since the eyes are the window to the soul, I kind of wonder what is wrong with their soul that they need to mask it, lol.
BBB
EDIT: Having said all that, I AM a bugger for making quick judgments on folks, but I ALWAYS try to keep an open mind and will happily change my judgment/assessment of a person on deeper interaction with them.[/quote]
That makes you no different than every jackass turning their nose up once they see how much muscle I’m carrying.
The same people who judge bodybuilders, regardless of their true profession, as being unintelligent and “meatheads” match you in thinking “vanity” denotes the level of depth to one’s character.
People who think like that…like you…are why people see a big guy and assume he couldn’t possibly be a doctor or hold any other well skilled position.