[quote]63Galaxie wrote:
I dont think it runs in the family, although, Dyslexia (or some form of it) does. Thats why I dont type long replies. Shoot, I was over 30 before I could read past say 6 grade. Thats why I say you dont know what YOU are capable of. Man if I can overcome, you certainly can, anything. That includes self perception.
My son is 25. He still has some trouble with others, but has managed to establish his own social group. Albeit its made up of people with similar problems.
Heck yeah I would make the 10# jump. That why I like the 5x5. If you dont get all 5 you still made gains. [/quote]
Christopher (my son) isn’t really old enough to form social groups yet. If he interacts, it is just with whatever people happen to be around. I can definitely empathize your son, however. I am much the same way. I do not like settings where I don’t know folks. And, I tend to gravitate towards people with similar personalities and interests. I have never been one to socialize for the sake of it. I do, very much, value interaction, but there has to be a reason besides “hanging out.” That is one of the many reasons that I love this forum…mutual interests…and with great people. Otherwise, I prefer to be alone (family being the exception).
I have to say, being a cop was very difficult for me, being as people averse as I can/could be. It went a long way to forcing and teaching me to deal with others.
For instance, when I was around 20, I used to prefer shopping at night, because there were fewer people in the stores. I can remember being in the grocery store one night, turning down an empty aisle and actually getting pissed when someone entered the aisle on the far end. They were 100’ away, but I was still having to “interact” with them, by virtue of the fact that we could see each other. It makes for an interesting life. But, as seems to be the case with your son, we can adapt and overcome. The good news is Aspies can do great things, if their focus channels in the right direction. It is believed that Einstein and Sir Isaac Newton were Aspies. Not bad company to keep.
Your personal story is very interesting, and inspiring. It is also a testament to what can be achieved with faith and perseverance! Thanks for sharing it…