[quote]Jerome wrote:
I’ve been in 5 different gyms in the past couple of years, 3 of them university gyms, which the athletes used. I can think of only a handfull of people to do ANY lift with 3 plates or more, and I rarley see anyone squat.
A lot of the guys who think they’re strong do 2 inch squats and bench-row combos too. I even saw 1 football player load the squat bar to 500 step under step out and get CRUSHED, the pins saved him and he tried it 2 mins later, same thing, so alot of these losers claim lifts they can’t even do. Another example of a football player, about 250, puts 365 on bench, gets a spot and the spotter and he had a HARD time getting it back up, guy said he was feeling weak that day…surrrreee.
I’ve NEVER seen someone who looked like they didn’t lift weights move any big weights either. The really strong guys are usually modest and don’t showbout around boasting about they’re lifts or acting like big shots.
If you put 3 plates on bench everyone is going to watch, that shoudl tell you how common it is. [/quote]
Time to put up I guess 
I just arrived on this site but from what I can tell you have two categories here, people who lift and people who email about lifting (I’m in the middle)
Ok here is what 5’9 189 looks like (no roids - ever). I consider myself strong but not very big (at least compared to the Sasquatches at my gym). I’ve been gaining most steadily in the past 5 years (165->189) when I finally realized I only had to work out a bodypart hard 1 once a week (three workouts total per week).
And here are some lift totals (a few weights on some to show my current power band as I don’t max on some lifts). These numbers are not exaggerated they are from this week.
Without people posting complete info it is hard to get a feel for how you rate so I’ll go first.
Bench 270X8 315X2 (slow, no bouncing)
Overhead press (front) : 225X8 235X6
Pullups : Bodyweight + 50 for 8 slow reps (to front) (once maxed with body + 95 at 180 pounds) NO STRAPS
Straight bar curls : 115X8 (done after pullups)
Squats : 250X10, (6 plates + 50 on tru squat machine) (used to be my best lift before hamstring tear years ago so now I pre-tire with real squats and do the rest with tru-squat)
I’m not posting numbers because I think they are all that good (though I know they aren’t bad - even compared to some of those “big guys” who are just covered in fat). I came to this site looking for help on gaining size not strength. I’m proof that the two don’t neccessarily go together.
Anyhow the numbers are real though so if some don’t believe I will lose little sleep over it. Take them for what they are worth.
-M