Broke Up With Girlfriend...

[quote]Hannibal King wrote:
I bet you cry yourself to sleep on a daily basis. Man was put here to procreate, to reproduce, to FUCK. So do it. Stop following the mainstream bullshit “American dream” that the media tells you to. Be origional, do something unique.

I’d seriously like to hear what “back onto the market” means. Same with all that other white-collar nonsense you just spewed.[/quote]

I’m having trouble taking you seriously. The freedom to live how you want, and do the things that you want is now bullshit american dream and a product of the media? Telling this man that he is free to do what he pleases, move anywhere, do whatever, and enjoy his life is now white collar nonsense? Perhaps if your thought made sense then it would be easier to respond.

Back on the market means I’m calling my own shots, seeing who I want, doing what I want, scheduling myself how I wish to be scheduled and not having to worry about whether the gf will like my shirt, or if I’m forgetting some plans that we had, or her whining when I get out of work late.

I hate to be the bearer of bad news here, and I don’t want to upset your pathetic little world, but I am good for a lot more than procreation. And I have never cried myself to sleep, I sleep just fine without tears. However I do sincerely appreciate your concern.

Sorry to hear about your girlfriend, that sucks…but guess what, it was only 10 months, so get over it. Some guy said 3 years, thats alot more of an investment.

As for being out of school a year and being unemployed, that is no ones fault but your own, so man up. You can get a job doing anything in the mean time to pay the bills. The BA in psyc is usually just a gateway to other degrees and programs, it wont open many opportunites for you alone. My girlfriend has one, she is a HR assistant right now. not to glamourous.

BTW, i just moved halfway across the country to be with my gf. And i am working a shitty job i dont want so i can be with her. the difference is, she said she would move anywhere to be with me, so its usually not the job that kills a relationship. You obviously felt more about her than she did you.

Good luck on the job search, i know it sucks.

[quote]TrainerinDC wrote:
Back on the market means I’m calling my own shots, seeing who I want, doing what I want, scheduling myself how I wish to be scheduled and not having to worry about whether the gf will like my shirt, or if I’m forgetting some plans that we had, or her whining when I get out of work late.
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When couldn’t you do this? I’m seriously questioning who wore the pants(or straps on) in your previous relationships.

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I hate to be the bearer of bad news here, and I don’t want to upset your pathetic little world, but I am good for a lot more than procreation. [/quote]

So you can hit AND catch? Wow.

Doesn’t sound like you love her if you broke up with her for this lame reason.

Girls come and go bro…family is forever. Ask them what they think would be good for you and you will get a honest answer.

I never told her I love her…

[quote]Bigbigsize wrote:
I never told her I love her…[/quote]

So there are no worries then.

If you didn’t love her then breaking up for a career opportunity is a perfectly valid reason.