Bodybuilding = Vanity?

[quote]Professor X wrote:
From what I can tell, MOST people are insecure. They don’t let you know how much until they see you doing better than them by any significant amount…and trust me, this doesn’t just end at physical shape.[/quote]

Oh please don’t get me started - people begrudge you everything. More education, better job, a house, whatever…it happens all the time.

Weddings bring that shit out big time - for some reason, I’ve seen so many friendships end over a wedding. Including my own - it sucks when people you thought had your back were actually shooting you down behind your back because of jealousy. My best friend of 25 years basically told me I was a piece of shit and dropped out as my best man because my wife didn’t put his wife in our wedding party…didn’t even come and talk to me about it - just came at me out of nowhere and blasted the shit out of me like a total prick.

Haven’t spoken to him in 8 years - and you know what? We wouldn’t have stayed friends either way, because buying a house, getting my degrees - he would have had a problem with EVERYTHING.

It sucks.

I just thread the ‘‘Mrs’’ the thread, she said i spend enough time lookin in the mirror now ( i don’t) i just flex to check progress and see where i need to improve, she just happens to catch me doing it! She said if i ever ended up looking like a pro, she’d become redundant because i’d just look at myself all the time.

[quote]Marzouk wrote:
I just thread the ‘‘Mrs’’ the thread, she said i spend enough time lookin in the mirror now ( i don’t) i just flex to check progress and see where i need to improve, she just happens to catch me doing it! She said if i ever ended up looking like a pro, she’d become redundant because i’d just look at myself all the time.[/quote]

Remind her of that the next time she’s using the mirror to put on makeup or fix her hair.

[quote]Marzouk wrote:
I just thread the ‘‘Mrs’’ the thread, she said i spend enough time lookin in the mirror now ( i don’t) i just flex to check progress and see where i need to improve, she just happens to catch me doing it! She said if i ever ended up looking like a pro, she’d become redundant because i’d just look at myself all the time.[/quote]

yeahhhh your not going to win this. Stop showing her stuff and don’t worry about it until she makes it an issue. Because if you say white right now she will say black just for the hell of it.

/my contribution

[quote]debraD wrote:

I get what you’re [Vegita] saying but I think insecurity and lack of confidence in one’s appearance is the same vanity as the one what makes someone show it off because it is the awareness of your looks. I think a lot of insecure, not working out people are just as vain but are hiding under their clothes and not doing anything about it.

I don’t think vanity is such a big deal anyhow but I still don’t like it in myself. [/quote]

Words of Wisdom – especially the last sentence.

Not that I need one, fuck I go shirtless and shoeless literally anytime I can, backyard, park, beach, friends house, golf course (still wear the golf spikes there). I have never had anyone say, anything about my physique. But for you guys that do, you should get little wallet size pictures of any of the “haters gonna hate” memes and print a bunch of them to keep on your person. Then if someone happens to make a comment, just whip out the wallet, and hand them a copy of the picture. Smile broadly and walk away. Or punch them in the fucking face, whichever is more appropriate.

V

My beach experiences have been the opposite. The big, fat, cellulite ridden woman and moob-ed up men wear the least amount of clothing possible. Those of us who give a shit about ourselves worry more about taking off the shirt. This seems backwards. However, from what the guys are saying, our society is so ass backwards that fit, attractive people (not TV or models) feel ashamed to show off their hard work and the fat fucks are letting it all hang out.

Let’s face it, the unfit people tease the guys because they feel like losers when someone like Four60 takes off his shirt (hey hot stuff!). I am seriously obsessed with my body right now. Every inch. I’ve made drastic changes but I have plenty of work left to do. Am I vain? Fuck the person who says I am.

You should be vain…this thread is so stupid. If youre vain, that means you give a shit about yourself. If youre vain about your intelligence, that means you’ve put the time into studying etc that makes you a smart person. Its only wrong when you make fun of others for not being on your same level (physical, intellectual etc).

[quote]LankyMofo wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:
So…to quote Mr.X…ALL women in America are immature whores that spend 2 hours daily putting on make-up and all men want women with huge tits, and even if they say that they don’t care about the size of the tits, they’re lying in a conspiracy to convince their small tittied women of their happiness? Can someone remind me why people take you seriously?[/quote]

You’re an idiot. 'Nuff said. There seem to be about 3-5 of you running around the site leaping forward based on whatever I write that causes your panties to bunch up.

I personally think that’s pretty damn creepy since no one cares what you write and I sure as hell wouldn’t be following you around at all.

Carry on numb nuts.[/quote]

Why am I and idiot? I’m not denying it, I’d just like to hear you’re reasoning. In my opinion, an idiot is someone that makes sweeping statements that homogenize an entire group of people (i.e. You as the idiot generalizing women in America and men across the world in relation to titty preference). And Irondwarf, I get his point, but he could’ve made it without being a jerkoff about it which seems to be especially hard for him. I think whats truly odd is that you (X) can say some stupid shit like you just did then have otherwise sensible people defending you because you’re the big cynical tells it like it is diva that they want to be friends with, lest they encounter your diva-rage.[/quote]

For every douchebag sucking on the Professor’s nutsack there is another douchebag following him around to argue with him.
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Fair enough, but are you calling me a douchebag? if so, why?

Bodybuilding is dumb, and that is worst than vain.

Spending almost all your evening after work at the gym , preventing you to do stuff that is really interesting is quite dumb.

but I still can’t stop doing it

[quote]Mackk wrote:

[quote]LankyMofo wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:
So…to quote Mr.X…ALL women in America are immature whores that spend 2 hours daily putting on make-up and all men want women with huge tits, and even if they say that they don’t care about the size of the tits, they’re lying in a conspiracy to convince their small tittied women of their happiness? Can someone remind me why people take you seriously?[/quote]

You’re an idiot. 'Nuff said. There seem to be about 3-5 of you running around the site leaping forward based on whatever I write that causes your panties to bunch up.

I personally think that’s pretty damn creepy since no one cares what you write and I sure as hell wouldn’t be following you around at all.

Carry on numb nuts.[/quote]

Why am I and idiot? I’m not denying it, I’d just like to hear you’re reasoning. In my opinion, an idiot is someone that makes sweeping statements that homogenize an entire group of people (i.e. You as the idiot generalizing women in America and men across the world in relation to titty preference). And Irondwarf, I get his point, but he could’ve made it without being a jerkoff about it which seems to be especially hard for him. I think whats truly odd is that you (X) can say some stupid shit like you just did then have otherwise sensible people defending you because you’re the big cynical tells it like it is diva that they want to be friends with, lest they encounter your diva-rage.[/quote]

For every douchebag sucking on the Professor’s nutsack there is another douchebag following him around to argue with him.
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Fair enough, but are you calling me a douchebag? if so, why?[/quote]
Because you cant look past the tone of the message which makes you miss the jist of what he is trying to say. I don’t know what the fuck the schooling process is like in canada, but you either have terrible reading comprehension skills, or are mildly retarted. and before you get mad at me for assuming you may be retarted,just remember, i only said mildly, I don’t think you have gone full retard. not yet.

Vanity denotes an excessive amount of pride disproportionate to a given accomplishment. (I.E. I’M AWSOME CAUSE I TOOK A DUMP TODAY!!! YAY ME, I’M GONNA MOUNT THAT TURD OVER MY MANTLE. YA BABY!!! GO ME!!).

Ask her if powerlifting, or football, or soccer are vain. Explain that these are sports of function. Than ask her if figure skating is vain. Explain that this is a sport of form. Than connect the dots from figure skating to bodybuilding.

If you go to funerals with a speedo because of the pride you have in your body than you might have a vanity problem. When you check your reflection in every store window when you walk down the street that might be some vanity creeping in from the edges. A few photos, and a bit of mirror time here and there just falls under practice, progress tracking, and appropriate grooming.

[quote]dshroy wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:

[quote]LankyMofo wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:
So…to quote Mr.X…ALL women in America are immature whores that spend 2 hours daily putting on make-up and all men want women with huge tits, and even if they say that they don’t care about the size of the tits, they’re lying in a conspiracy to convince their small tittied women of their happiness? Can someone remind me why people take you seriously?[/quote]

You’re an idiot. 'Nuff said. There seem to be about 3-5 of you running around the site leaping forward based on whatever I write that causes your panties to bunch up.

I personally think that’s pretty damn creepy since no one cares what you write and I sure as hell wouldn’t be following you around at all.

Carry on numb nuts.[/quote]

Why am I and idiot? I’m not denying it, I’d just like to hear you’re reasoning. In my opinion, an idiot is someone that makes sweeping statements that homogenize an entire group of people (i.e. You as the idiot generalizing women in America and men across the world in relation to titty preference). And Irondwarf, I get his point, but he could’ve made it without being a jerkoff about it which seems to be especially hard for him. I think whats truly odd is that you (X) can say some stupid shit like you just did then have otherwise sensible people defending you because you’re the big cynical tells it like it is diva that they want to be friends with, lest they encounter your diva-rage.[/quote]

For every douchebag sucking on the Professor’s nutsack there is another douchebag following him around to argue with him.
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Fair enough, but are you calling me a douchebag? if so, why?[/quote]
Because you cant look past the tone of the message which makes you miss the jist of what he is trying to say. I don’t know what the fuck the schooling process is like in canada, but you either have terrible reading comprehension skills, or are mildly retarted. and before you get mad at me for assuming you may be retarted,just remember, i only said mildly, I don’t think you have gone full retard. not yet.[/quote]

Again…I understand the very clear and simple point made. I assure you, the schooling system in Canada is not at fault. What YOU missed was my point, that he could’ve made the point without being a jerkoff. So once again, I understand the point, and I won’t hold it against you for dreaming of suckling X’s teet in hopes of getting on his friends list. Now employ the far superior reading comp. skills taught to you by the Minnesotan public education system and take a stab at understanding my clear and simple point.

[quote]Mackk wrote:
dreaming of suckling X’s teet…[/quote]

Whoa, let’s talk about this for a while.

[quote]Mackk wrote:

[quote]dshroy wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:

[quote]LankyMofo wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:
So…to quote Mr.X…ALL women in America are immature whores that spend 2 hours daily putting on make-up and all men want women with huge tits, and even if they say that they don’t care about the size of the tits, they’re lying in a conspiracy to convince their small tittied women of their happiness? Can someone remind me why people take you seriously?[/quote]

You’re an idiot. 'Nuff said. There seem to be about 3-5 of you running around the site leaping forward based on whatever I write that causes your panties to bunch up.

I personally think that’s pretty damn creepy since no one cares what you write and I sure as hell wouldn’t be following you around at all.

Carry on numb nuts.[/quote]

Why am I and idiot? I’m not denying it, I’d just like to hear you’re reasoning. In my opinion, an idiot is someone that makes sweeping statements that homogenize an entire group of people (i.e. You as the idiot generalizing women in America and men across the world in relation to titty preference). And Irondwarf, I get his point, but he could’ve made it without being a jerkoff about it which seems to be especially hard for him. I think whats truly odd is that you (X) can say some stupid shit like you just did then have otherwise sensible people defending you because you’re the big cynical tells it like it is diva that they want to be friends with, lest they encounter your diva-rage.[/quote]

For every douchebag sucking on the Professor’s nutsack there is another douchebag following him around to argue with him.
[/quote]

Fair enough, but are you calling me a douchebag? if so, why?[/quote]
Because you cant look past the tone of the message which makes you miss the jist of what he is trying to say. I don’t know what the fuck the schooling process is like in canada, but you either have terrible reading comprehension skills, or are mildly retarted. and before you get mad at me for assuming you may be retarted,just remember, i only said mildly, I don’t think you have gone full retard. not yet.[/quote]

Again…I understand the very clear and simple point made. I assure you, the schooling system in Canada is not at fault. What YOU missed was my point, that he could’ve made the point without being a jerkoff. So once again, I understand the point, and I won’t hold it against you for dreaming of suckling X’s teet in hopes of getting on his friends list. Now employ the far superior reading comp. skills taught to you by the Minnesotan public education system and take a stab at understanding my clear and simple point.[/quote]

I have no idea what the schooling system is like in Canada. Apparently you must be sensitive if you really feel the need to defend it in an online forum to a total stranger. I do apologize if it made you cry a little onto your keyboard. Yes he could have made his point without beiing a jerkoff, but whats the fun in that? Besides you took something he said and generalized it, turning into an absolute statement. Oh and I groomed my reading comp skills in Philly(born and raised) so I do agree with your not so subtle sarcasm in reference to the Minnesota Public ed. system. They fucking suck. and so do you.

Prof can we be friends now??

[quote]Mettahl wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:
dreaming of suckling X’s teet…[/quote]

Whoa, let’s talk about this for a while.[/quote]

Lets. Prof’s teets or GTFO.

[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
http://articles.elitefts.com/articles/nutrition/efs-classic-27-reasons-to-be-big/

This seemed appropriate.[/quote]

Dammit DD, I finally get to get online after working and I make a post about this. Then I see you posted it earlier. Fuck. Now I look like an idiot. Still cracks me up. I want to work out with these guys, carry on.

retart.

[quote]Im_New_Feed_Me wrote:
retart.[/quote]