Best Martial Art to Enroll Daughters In?

[quote]Miss Parker wrote:
Zecarlo, you’ve mentioned several times that most rapes are aquaintance-type situations. But I wonder if its correct to think that such a victim is just pounced on, taken by surprise & taken to the ground, where she must then defend herself. Maybe, but I’m thinking that there will be warnings in such a situation that something very bad is about to go down. We never really talk about these ‘known attacker’ scenarios in class, because its all just combatives, but I think its a good idea to talk about de-escalation & just recognizing the clues that predators give out. A date rape or aquaintance rape/attack is something that should be prevented long before it gets to the crisis point. I think we’ll talk about that in class tomorrow.[/quote]

If you take out the alcohol and drug factor, be it drugs by choice or being slipped in a drink, then de-escalation is the best bet. The victim is not taken by surprise but it is an escalating aggression. Things start moving in a direction that the woman doesn’t want but the guy doesn’t take no for an answer. The problem is that the woman has a guy who is getting aggressive right on top of her. There is a feeling of helplessness in that she knows she can’t stop him physically and feels trapped and at his mercy. This is why a woman may give in. Now, you can ask why she doesn’t fight anyway she can but what options does she have? Biting? Of course but women are conditioned to be nice and this is someone she knows so there is that barrier there that won’t let her hurt him. Also, because of how close they are, how she can feel his weight on her, she may feel too scared to do something. It’s not like an attack on the street where panic and fear might actually help you to fight like an animal. This is someone you know so there is also a sense of disbelief in the mix. A woman might believe that he will stop at some point so doesn’t act.

A woman can talk herself out of it but she needs to say the right things. Being comfortable in that position helps. Knowing you can defend yourself with someone on top helps.

Ms. Parker, how would you react if an assailant was on top of you and you were facing down?
How about if he was facing you while on top of you?
You can also give us more scenarios.
I am curious.

[quote]legendaryblaze wrote:
Ms. Parker, how would you react if an assailant was on top of you and you were facing down?
How about if he was facing you while on top of you?
You can also give us more scenarios.
I am curious.
[/quote]

Well, if my attacker was on top of me & I was facing down I’d probably react by getting killed. Seriously. We have a technique where we shoot our knees in & our back, um, back, ending in a sort of face down curled up position which causes the attacker to pitch forward & us to escape. I have never been even remotely close to being able to do this.

If he were sort of behind & on top of me, maybe trying to get at me doggie style I’d probably kick & thrash & send backward elbows & hammerfists until I could get turned around. Having someone behind you on the ground is not good for your survival chances, so I would fight extremely hard to avoid it, even in class.

On top & facing me, well if he’s in my guard I like to do an arm drag & pin him down with one of my calves while sending a hard elbow to his face. If he’s in mount, ugh, buck trap & roll, I guess, though I’m not great at this. A lot of times I grab the shirt collar or ear or hair of someone who has me mounted to jerk them down closer to me so I can reverse him - I have to be fast & aggressive, though, or I’ll get arm barred. As I reverse him I like to come down with an elbow or forearm strike to the throat, that’s quite easy to do and very helpful.

I don’t know what other scenarios you’re curious about, and I’m not very good on the ground, though I am very aggressive, much more so than when standing. I accidentally bit someone very hard tonight. They say you’ll do under pressure what your body has trained to do, and I always practice throat strikes, eye gouges & groin strikes on the ground, by basically just touching or lightly digging with my fingers or elbow where I’d like to strike.

I don’t do it hard because I don’t want to injure my partners. But I tend to bite extremely hard because I have a mouthpiece in & its very difficult to bite, so it doesn’t hurt them at all. But tonight I wasn’t wearing my mouthpiece & we were going really hard & I just automatically bit the shit out of this poor guy’s chest.

I fight dirty (though not hard with those techniques) and they are allowed to do the same with me - fair is fair.

Legendaryblaze do any women train where you do?

[quote]zecarlo wrote:

If you take out the alcohol and drug factor, be it drugs by choice or being slipped in a drink, then de-escalation is the best bet. The victim is not taken by surprise but it is an escalating aggression. Things start moving in a direction that the woman doesn’t want but the guy doesn’t take no for an answer. The problem is that the woman has a guy who is getting aggressive right on top of her. There is a feeling of helplessness in that she knows she can’t stop him physically and feels trapped and at his mercy. This is why a woman may give in. Now, you can ask why she doesn’t fight anyway she can but what options does she have? Biting? Of course but women are conditioned to be nice and this is someone she knows so there is that barrier there that won’t let her hurt him. Also, because of how close they are, how she can feel his weight on her, she may feel too scared to do something. It’s not like an attack on the street where panic and fear might actually help you to fight like an animal. This is someone you know so there is also a sense of disbelief in the mix. A woman might believe that he will stop at some point so doesn’t act.

A woman can talk herself out of it but she needs to say the right things. Being comfortable in that position helps. Knowing you can defend yourself with someone on top helps. [/quote]

I think you are quite correct about the psychology of what a woman is going through in that situation. She is conditioned to be nice & she doesn’t want to hurt someone she knows. This drives me insane. I even struggle with it myself in sparring. I look meek on video because I don’t want to hit my friends (& my original karate school taught us to pull our punches, a habit I’m still trying to break). I send my fist out hard & fast, but I can actually feel - and see on the video - my body pull back to kill the power of the punch. I don’t have this problem when sparring people I’m not close to. Or in groundfighting, though most girls I know do.

Also the part about her hoping maybe he’ll stop, that he doesn’t really want to hurt her either, is true. People don’t want to face what terrifies them.

Ha ha, I’ll still stick with my standup striking system as my primary self defense tool, and practice groundwork just a couple of times a week, but you certainly nailed it on date/aquaintance rape psychology. I’m actually going to print out what you wrote & use it to open the lesson tomorrow in my ladies class, as my copy of Gift of Fear is loaned out & I can’t use that.

[quote]Miss Parker wrote:
legendaryblaze wrote:
Ms. Parker, how would you react if an assailant was on top of you and you were facing down?
How about if he was facing you while on top of you?
You can also give us more scenarios.
I am curious.

Well, if my attacker was on top of me & I was facing down I’d probably react by getting killed. Seriously. We have a technique where we shoot our knees in & our back, um, back, ending in a sort of face down curled up position which causes the attacker to pitch forward & us to escape. I have never been even remotely close to being able to do this.

If he were sort of behind & on top of me, maybe trying to get at me doggie style I’d probably kick & thrash & send backward elbows & hammerfists until I could get turned around. Having someone behind you on the ground is not good for your survival chances, so I would fight extremely hard to avoid it, even in class.

On top & facing me, well if he’s in my guard I like to do an arm drag & pin him down with one of my calves while sending a hard elbow to his face. If he’s in mount, ugh, buck trap & roll, I guess, though I’m not great at this. A lot of times I grab the shirt collar or ear or hair of someone who has me mounted to jerk them down closer to me so I can reverse him - I have to be fast & aggressive, though, or I’ll get arm barred. As I reverse him I like to come down with an elbow or forearm strike to the throat, that’s quite easy to do and very helpful.

I don’t know what other scenarios you’re curious about, and I’m not very good on the ground, though I am very aggressive, much more so than when standing. I accidentally bit someone very hard tonight. They say you’ll do under pressure what your body has trained to do, and I always practice throat strikes, eye gouges & groin strikes on the ground, by basically just touching or lightly digging with my fingers or elbow where I’d like to strike.
[/quote]

On the topic of eye “gouges”, are you placing your thumb/finger(s) on the actual eyeball itself and pressing? If so, stop. It’s a much, much less effective method of eye attack. The eyeball itself is actually a fairly resilient structure in terms of compression forces.

Where the eye is vulnerable is:

  1. on it’s surface- the lense is extremely delicate and can be scratched easily, which is extremely painful. Great for real life, but not great for training purposes as you do not want to accidentally scratch your training partner’s lense/cornia.

  2. the trigeminal nerve- this nerve runs behind the eye and up under the supra-orbital ridge. Find the notch in the ridge above the eye with your finger, then insert your finger/thumb up and in at that point. Keep pressing up and in until you get a flinch reaction from your partner (the flinch will be that their head will go back violently). This takes very, very little strength to make work, and even the biggest, strongest opponents will be unable to resist you pushing his head back (also great for breaking grips, making space, and in the event of a real combative situation you can so some serious damage if you brace the back of the head with the other hand).

Honestly though, I haven’t seen many (really only 2 that I can think of) people teach eye attacks right though. Just like very few teach fish hooking right, or truly understand how to use biting.

If you eye attack correctly it only takes very little pressure to get a reaction (I’ve seen little kids make it work on grown men), but you can safely do it fairly hard (unless you brace the back of the head, which I wouldn’t suggest doing) in practice because the opponent will naturally move away from the pain. Of course you need to play around with it to see how hard you can safely go. Start light, then gradually increase intensity.

[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:
WHICH IS WHY YOU WANT TO WORK ON BREAKING THAT MENTAL THOUGHT CYCLE! Fuck the armbars and the omnplatos and trigliceride oxygons- working on avoidance, awareness, and breaking the mental loop that will lead to freezing and inaction. Teach the brutal tactics that will work.

NONE OF THIS will be addressed in your run of the mill BJJ class. It is a waste of time until a woman is much further along- and advising a woman to start off with BJJ as a form of self defense is recklessly irresponsible.

Christ. I’m glad some folks have seen some worth in your posts- maybe they’ve found something they can use. I still think you’re full of shit, and I refuse to take advice on anything having to do with successfully defending themselves from someone who’s never been punched in the goddamn face yet says you can grapple your way out of things.

You’re talking fantasy and theory, and I truly, truly hope that no one woman is reading your posts and thinking what you advise is a good idea. [/quote]

It’s OK because I know you are full of shit as well. You don’t know BJJ and just make assumptions about it. Like I asked before: does Renzo Gracie, a BJJ instructor who has wrked with the military and law enforcement, is an mma fighter and fought in Brazilian vale tudo (far fewer rules), and also had his fair share of fights on the street, in a third world nation, more qualified than you on the subject? Oh yeah, he has been punched in the face (and stabbed) and he could kick your ass. Again, does he know more than you?

You mention combat. Japanese use Judo, Russians Sambo and the US now uses BJJ as its base for combatives. Having trained and trained with cops, including SWAT, they all say that BJJ is a big plus. One cop used it to save himself in a knife attack. A guy came out from Cali one time and he was telling me how some SEALs trained at his school there, Fabio Santos’s. Of course, none of them-military or law enforcement-know anything about reality either. We should all recognize that reality only happens in a bar in NJ.

[quote]Sentoguy wrote:

On the topic of eye “gouges”, are you placing your thumb/finger(s) on the actual eyeball itself and pressing? If so, stop. It’s a much, much less effective method of eye attack. The eyeball itself is actually a fairly resilient structure in terms of compression forces.

Where the eye is vulnerable is:

  1. on it’s surface- the lense is extremely delicate and can be scratched easily, which is extremely painful. Great for real life, but not great for training purposes as you do not want to accidentally scratch your training partner’s lense/cornia.

  2. the trigeminal nerve- this nerve runs behind the eye and up under the supra-orbital ridge. Find the notch in the ridge above the eye with your finger, then insert your finger/thumb up and in at that point. Keep pressing up and in until you get a flinch reaction from your partner (the flinch will be that their head will go back violently). This takes very, very little strength to make work, and even the biggest, strongest opponents will be unable to resist you pushing his head back (also great for breaking grips, making space, and in the event of a real combative situation you can so some serious damage if you brace the back of the head with the other hand).

Honestly though, I haven’t seen many (really only 2 that I can think of) people teach eye attacks right though. Just like very few teach fish hooking right, or truly understand how to use biting.

If you eye attack correctly it only takes very little pressure to get a reaction (I’ve seen little kids make it work on grown men), but you can safely do it fairly hard (unless you brace the back of the head, which I wouldn’t suggest doing) in practice because the opponent will naturally move away from the pain. Of course you need to play around with it to see how hard you can safely go. Start light, then gradually increase intensity.[/quote]

Yes, it looks like I’ve been doing it wrong. I’ve been trying to “dig” (press extremely lightly) in around the tearduct intending to shoot my finger or thumb in with a scooping motion. Reading your post, I pressed on my own eyes & they were much more sensitive right where you said they’d be. Thanks, Sentoguy!

At my level in krav we don’t teach removing the eye from the head, just a sort of aggressive poke, coming in with all fingers to have a better chance of having one strike the eye. The hand is at a 45 degree angle & the idea is to quickly strike the eye & recoil, blinding the opponent at least for a few seconds, hopefully more, so you can buy yourself some time to make your attack or run away. I never practice this in rolling or sparring, way too dangerous.

The whole “gouging” thing for me is based on a lesson I had years ago with a karate instructor who just told me do dig in aggressively & deep & pop that little sucker out. He said you have to go a lot deeper than you’d think & that its very squishy in there.

[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:
I have addressed each and every one of these points individually. You refuse to respond besides saying the same thing. You’re wrong.[/quote]

Really? So who is the better expert, you or Renzo?

Best martial art? Glock-Jitsu. Duh. I am a practicioner of Sig-Jitsu personally, a close relative of the aforementioned Glock-Jitsu.

[quote]Sentoguy wrote:
Miss Parker wrote:
legendaryblaze wrote:
Ms. Parker, how would you react if an assailant was on top of you and you were facing down?
How about if he was facing you while on top of you?
You can also give us more scenarios.
I am curious.

Well, if my attacker was on top of me & I was facing down I’d probably react by getting killed. Seriously. We have a technique where we shoot our knees in & our back, um, back, ending in a sort of face down curled up position which causes the attacker to pitch forward & us to escape. I have never been even remotely close to being able to do this.

If he were sort of behind & on top of me, maybe trying to get at me doggie style I’d probably kick & thrash & send backward elbows & hammerfists until I could get turned around. Having someone behind you on the ground is not good for your survival chances, so I would fight extremely hard to avoid it, even in class.

On top & facing me, well if he’s in my guard I like to do an arm drag & pin him down with one of my calves while sending a hard elbow to his face. If he’s in mount, ugh, buck trap & roll, I guess, though I’m not great at this. A lot of times I grab the shirt collar or ear or hair of someone who has me mounted to jerk them down closer to me so I can reverse him - I have to be fast & aggressive, though, or I’ll get arm barred. As I reverse him I like to come down with an elbow or forearm strike to the throat, that’s quite easy to do and very helpful.

I don’t know what other scenarios you’re curious about, and I’m not very good on the ground, though I am very aggressive, much more so than when standing. I accidentally bit someone very hard tonight. They say you’ll do under pressure what your body has trained to do, and I always practice throat strikes, eye gouges & groin strikes on the ground, by basically just touching or lightly digging with my fingers or elbow where I’d like to strike.

On the topic of eye “gouges”, are you placing your thumb/finger(s) on the actual eyeball itself and pressing? If so, stop. It’s a much, much less effective method of eye attack. The eyeball itself is actually a fairly resilient structure in terms of compression forces.

Where the eye is vulnerable is:

  1. on it’s surface- the lense is extremely delicate and can be scratched easily, which is extremely painful. Great for real life, but not great for training purposes as you do not want to accidentally scratch your training partner’s lense/cornia.

  2. the trigeminal nerve- this nerve runs behind the eye and up under the supra-orbital ridge. Find the notch in the ridge above the eye with your finger, then insert your finger/thumb up and in at that point. Keep pressing up and in until you get a flinch reaction from your partner (the flinch will be that their head will go back violently). This takes very, very little strength to make work, and even the biggest, strongest opponents will be unable to resist you pushing his head back (also great for breaking grips, making space, and in the event of a real combative situation you can so some serious damage if you brace the back of the head with the other hand).

Honestly though, I haven’t seen many (really only 2 that I can think of) people teach eye attacks right though. Just like very few teach fish hooking right, or truly understand how to use biting.

I don’t do it hard because I don’t want to injure my partners. But I tend to bite extremely hard because I have a mouthpiece in & its very difficult to bite, so it doesn’t hurt them at all. But tonight I wasn’t wearing my mouthpiece & we were going really hard & I just automatically bit the shit out of this poor guy’s chest.

If you eye attack correctly it only takes very little pressure to get a reaction (I’ve seen little kids make it work on grown men), but you can safely do it fairly hard (unless you brace the back of the head, which I wouldn’t suggest doing) in practice because the opponent will naturally move away from the pain. Of course you need to play around with it to see how hard you can safely go. Start light, then gradually increase intensity.[/quote]

Damnit man. So much information! Share!
Can you school us a bit on biting. I would have thought the best places to bite: neck, nose, cheek, breast and inside of arm.

[quote]zecarlo wrote:
FightinIrish26 wrote:
WHICH IS WHY YOU WANT TO WORK ON BREAKING THAT MENTAL THOUGHT CYCLE! Fuck the armbars and the omnplatos and trigliceride oxygons- working on avoidance, awareness, and breaking the mental loop that will lead to freezing and inaction. Teach the brutal tactics that will work.

NONE OF THIS will be addressed in your run of the mill BJJ class. It is a waste of time until a woman is much further along- and advising a woman to start off with BJJ as a form of self defense is recklessly irresponsible.

Christ. I’m glad some folks have seen some worth in your posts- maybe they’ve found something they can use. I still think you’re full of shit, and I refuse to take advice on anything having to do with successfully defending themselves from someone who’s never been punched in the goddamn face yet says you can grapple your way out of things.

You’re talking fantasy and theory, and I truly, truly hope that no one woman is reading your posts and thinking what you advise is a good idea.

It’s OK because I know you are full of shit as well. You don’t know BJJ and just make assumptions about it. Like I asked before: does Renzo Gracie, a BJJ instructor who has wrked with the military and law enforcement, is an mma fighter and fought in Brazilian vale tudo (far fewer rules), and also had his fair share of fights on the street, in a third world nation, more qualified than you on the subject? Oh yeah, he has been punched in the face (and stabbed) and he could kick your ass. Again, does he know more than you?

You mention combat. Japanese use Judo, Russians Sambo and the US now uses BJJ as its base for combatives. Having trained and trained with cops, including SWAT, they all say that BJJ is a big plus. One cop used it to save himself in a knife attack. A guy came out from Cali one time and he was telling me how some SEALs trained at his school there, Fabio Santos’s. Of course, none of them-military or law enforcement-know anything about reality either. We should all recognize that reality only happens in a bar in NJ. [/quote]

Uh, last i checked, everyday reality is not going to war or confronting armed men with your team of armed men. Same goes for cops.

Here we are talking about a lone person against a stronger, larger and quicker opponent. That is reality.
Ms. Parker wrote and said what she would do. She seems as though she relies heavily on strikes and in a situation where her fight or flight reaction kicked in, she bit some guy.

I think her opinion is much more important than some navy SEAL who is outfitted with the most high-tech equipment on earth and having other highly trained members with him.
This is the point you are missing.
You tell us we should view it from a WOMAN’s PERSPECTIVE and then you talk about the fucking navy SEALS.

[quote]legendaryblaze wrote:
zecarlo wrote:
FightinIrish26 wrote:
WHICH IS WHY YOU WANT TO WORK ON BREAKING THAT MENTAL THOUGHT CYCLE! Fuck the armbars and the omnplatos and trigliceride oxygons- working on avoidance, awareness, and breaking the mental loop that will lead to freezing and inaction. Teach the brutal tactics that will work.

NONE OF THIS will be addressed in your run of the mill BJJ class. It is a waste of time until a woman is much further along- and advising a woman to start off with BJJ as a form of self defense is recklessly irresponsible.

Christ. I’m glad some folks have seen some worth in your posts- maybe they’ve found something they can use. I still think you’re full of shit, and I refuse to take advice on anything having to do with successfully defending themselves from someone who’s never been punched in the goddamn face yet says you can grapple your way out of things.

You’re talking fantasy and theory, and I truly, truly hope that no one woman is reading your posts and thinking what you advise is a good idea.

It’s OK because I know you are full of shit as well. You don’t know BJJ and just make assumptions about it. Like I asked before: does Renzo Gracie, a BJJ instructor who has wrked with the military and law enforcement, is an mma fighter and fought in Brazilian vale tudo (far fewer rules), and also had his fair share of fights on the street, in a third world nation, more qualified than you on the subject? Oh yeah, he has been punched in the face (and stabbed) and he could kick your ass. Again, does he know more than you?

You mention combat. Japanese use Judo, Russians Sambo and the US now uses BJJ as its base for combatives. Having trained and trained with cops, including SWAT, they all say that BJJ is a big plus. One cop used it to save himself in a knife attack. A guy came out from Cali one time and he was telling me how some SEALs trained at his school there, Fabio Santos’s. Of course, none of them-military or law enforcement-know anything about reality either. We should all recognize that reality only happens in a bar in NJ.

Uh, last i checked, everyday reality is not going to war or confronting armed men with your team of armed men. Same goes for cops.

Here we are talking about a lone person against a stronger, larger and quicker opponent. That is reality.
Ms. Parker wrote and said what she would do. She seems as though she relies heavily on strikes and in a situation where her fight or flight reaction kicked in, she bit some guy.

I think her opinion is much more important than some navy SEAL who is outfitted with the most high-tech equipment on earth and having other highly trained members with him.
This is the point you are missing.
You tell us we should view it from a WOMAN’s PERSPECTIVE and then you talk about the fucking navy SEALS.

[/quote]

And how is fightinloudmouthfromjersey’s opinion, based on barfights in scary NJ, any more relevant?

[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:
zecarlo wrote:
FightinIrish26 wrote:
I have addressed each and every one of these points individually. You refuse to respond besides saying the same thing. You’re wrong.

Really? So who is the better expert, you or Renzo?

That’s a strawman argument (I know you don’t know what it means, go look it up) and completely irrelevant.[/quote]

You really are a condescending prick; typical for Jersey. I would say the fact that you get into fights in bars, brag about it and even say you would kick a defenseless person in the head (punk move),says more about your intelligence and education, or lack thereof. I call bullshit.

Nice job avoiding the question though and it’s not a strawman argument, it’s a question. Maybe you need to look up the definition.

[quote]Miss Parker wrote:
Legendaryblaze do any women train where you do?[/quote]

Yes, m’am.
I’m a small guy so i tend to train with them too. For wrestling more so than karate.
it helps me work on my technique (i try to use as least strength as possible) so it’s helpful.
Unfortunately i’m in the process of moving so i am currently not training in anything :expressionless:

[quote]zecarlo wrote:
And how is fightinloudmouthfromjersey’s opinion, based on barfights in scary NJ, any more relevant?[/quote]

This is besides the point but i’ll tell you anyway:
Experience.

The mentality of “punk moves” such as kicking someone when they are down or using a gang of people to take one man down is actually an intelligent one.

Does your country go to war having it’s soldiers only use ak-47s, a few RPGs and some burkas?
No, they bring f-16s,f-15s, m-16, grenade launcher attachments, special forces, artillery, air strikes, etc etc. They use every advantage you have.

I used to think that you shouldn’t kick a man when he was down or blind side someone. You don’t need to bite or break anyone’s arm. You should fight fair.
Maybe i watched too much batman when i was a kid and thought about being the better man, taking the moral high ground and believing in true justice. Maybe you did too.

Then i witnessed a guy get his ass handed to him by 8 people. Soccer kicks while he was down was pretty much the brunt of what happened.
It made me realize that even if you believe in honor and fair fights, when you are in the real shit there is no such thing.
The people who are coming at you will use every advantage they have to take what they want. Whether it’s your daughter, wife, money, car or your life. Why should you have to hold back while these people give you everything they’ve got? Where is the logic in that?

Fightin’ Irish understands this.
He understands this from experience. He also understands that when a woman is in serious danger, these are the sort of things she has to use and watch out for (how is a man versus a woman a fair fight? That’s a punk action all in itself) and learn to use (sharp nails for gauging and so forth) her advantages.
She is going to also have to learn how to use those punk moves.
She has to, if she wants to walk away.

I’ve said it before but i think you missed it: BJJ has it’s merits.
For a lone woman, it is not ideal.

damn. miss P sounds like someone who’d be awesome to train with.

[quote]legendaryblaze wrote:

I’ve said it before but i think you missed it: BJJ has it’s merits.
For a lone woman, it is not ideal.
[/quote]

Awesome point.

miss parker

no shit taken good Q. ya i thought about it and well shes still watching daddy everynight actually i was reminded to check this board about 20 mins ago she damn near had me in a triangle when i was blowin rasberries on her tummy. i dont mind her talent but just the point that between now and the time she learns to know better (wich were workin on) the damage she could do! cause it seemed like she really hurt him. he is almost an entire year older than her and she hurt him bad enough to make him cry for damn near 45 mins, my sisters still gonna kill me when she finds out but we just figure ya know why stomp on a rose bush, we just nuture her and teach her as best we can ya know and my son hell no i wouldnt stop him he live with his mom he can woop the shit out of his cousins on that side of his family GOOD LAUGHS HAHAHAHA

[quote]Miss Parker wrote:
Sentoguy wrote:

On the topic of eye “gouges”, are you placing your thumb/finger(s) on the actual eyeball itself and pressing? If so, stop. It’s a much, much less effective method of eye attack. The eyeball itself is actually a fairly resilient structure in terms of compression forces.

Where the eye is vulnerable is:

  1. on it’s surface- the lense is extremely delicate and can be scratched easily, which is extremely painful. Great for real life, but not great for training purposes as you do not want to accidentally scratch your training partner’s lense/cornia.

  2. the trigeminal nerve- this nerve runs behind the eye and up under the supra-orbital ridge. Find the notch in the ridge above the eye with your finger, then insert your finger/thumb up and in at that point. Keep pressing up and in until you get a flinch reaction from your partner (the flinch will be that their head will go back violently). This takes very, very little strength to make work, and even the biggest, strongest opponents will be unable to resist you pushing his head back (also great for breaking grips, making space, and in the event of a real combative situation you can so some serious damage if you brace the back of the head with the other hand).

Honestly though, I haven’t seen many (really only 2 that I can think of) people teach eye attacks right though. Just like very few teach fish hooking right, or truly understand how to use biting.

If you eye attack correctly it only takes very little pressure to get a reaction (I’ve seen little kids make it work on grown men), but you can safely do it fairly hard (unless you brace the back of the head, which I wouldn’t suggest doing) in practice because the opponent will naturally move away from the pain. Of course you need to play around with it to see how hard you can safely go. Start light, then gradually increase intensity.

Yes, it looks like I’ve been doing it wrong. I’ve been trying to “dig” (press extremely lightly) in around the tearduct intending to shoot my finger or thumb in with a scooping motion. Reading your post, I pressed on my own eyes & they were much more sensitive right where you said they’d be. Thanks, Sentoguy!
[/quote]

Well, there are a number of ways to attack the eyes. You can do an “occular lock” by squeezing the tear ducts which does hurt, and we also use a fish hooking thechnique to attack the eye (still attacking the nerves), but the method I described above is probably the most versatile.

Yes, an eye jab or eye pluck/gouge can definitely work too. But, like you mentioned can’t really be trained full speed while rolling/sparring. The eye attack that I’m talking about can be trained full speed while rolling/sparring, in fact we do it all the time.

[quote]
The whole “gouging” thing for me is based on a lesson I had years ago with a karate instructor who just told me do dig in aggressively & deep & pop that little sucker out. He said you have to go a lot deeper than you’d think & that its very squishy in there.[/quote]

There are a lot of people who teach similar things. Again, I’m not saying that it can’t work, but usually these people have never actually tried doing it full speed/in a real fight. In other words, it’s just theory. They’re the type of people who try “eye gouging” or fish hooking the BJJ/sport MMA guys (by no fault of the BJJ/MMA guys mind you) and are unsuccessful. Hence you get a lot of people claiming that these techniques don’t work. If they’re done right, they work and work well.

[quote]legendaryblaze wrote:
Sentoguy wrote:
Miss Parker wrote:
legendaryblaze wrote:
Ms. Parker, how would you react if an assailant was on top of you and you were facing down?
How about if he was facing you while on top of you?
You can also give us more scenarios.
I am curious.

Well, if my attacker was on top of me & I was facing down I’d probably react by getting killed. Seriously. We have a technique where we shoot our knees in & our back, um, back, ending in a sort of face down curled up position which causes the attacker to pitch forward & us to escape. I have never been even remotely close to being able to do this.

If he were sort of behind & on top of me, maybe trying to get at me doggie style I’d probably kick & thrash & send backward elbows & hammerfists until I could get turned around. Having someone behind you on the ground is not good for your survival chances, so I would fight extremely hard to avoid it, even in class.

On top & facing me, well if he’s in my guard I like to do an arm drag & pin him down with one of my calves while sending a hard elbow to his face. If he’s in mount, ugh, buck trap & roll, I guess, though I’m not great at this. A lot of times I grab the shirt collar or ear or hair of someone who has me mounted to jerk them down closer to me so I can reverse him - I have to be fast & aggressive, though, or I’ll get arm barred. As I reverse him I like to come down with an elbow or forearm strike to the throat, that’s quite easy to do and very helpful.

I don’t know what other scenarios you’re curious about, and I’m not very good on the ground, though I am very aggressive, much more so than when standing. I accidentally bit someone very hard tonight. They say you’ll do under pressure what your body has trained to do, and I always practice throat strikes, eye gouges & groin strikes on the ground, by basically just touching or lightly digging with my fingers or elbow where I’d like to strike.

On the topic of eye “gouges”, are you placing your thumb/finger(s) on the actual eyeball itself and pressing? If so, stop. It’s a much, much less effective method of eye attack. The eyeball itself is actually a fairly resilient structure in terms of compression forces.

Where the eye is vulnerable is:

  1. on it’s surface- the lense is extremely delicate and can be scratched easily, which is extremely painful. Great for real life, but not great for training purposes as you do not want to accidentally scratch your training partner’s lense/cornia.

  2. the trigeminal nerve- this nerve runs behind the eye and up under the supra-orbital ridge. Find the notch in the ridge above the eye with your finger, then insert your finger/thumb up and in at that point. Keep pressing up and in until you get a flinch reaction from your partner (the flinch will be that their head will go back violently). This takes very, very little strength to make work, and even the biggest, strongest opponents will be unable to resist you pushing his head back (also great for breaking grips, making space, and in the event of a real combative situation you can so some serious damage if you brace the back of the head with the other hand).

Honestly though, I haven’t seen many (really only 2 that I can think of) people teach eye attacks right though. Just like very few teach fish hooking right, or truly understand how to use biting.

I don’t do it hard because I don’t want to injure my partners. But I tend to bite extremely hard because I have a mouthpiece in & its very difficult to bite, so it doesn’t hurt them at all. But tonight I wasn’t wearing my mouthpiece & we were going really hard & I just automatically bit the shit out of this poor guy’s chest.

If you eye attack correctly it only takes very little pressure to get a reaction (I’ve seen little kids make it work on grown men), but you can safely do it fairly hard (unless you brace the back of the head, which I wouldn’t suggest doing) in practice because the opponent will naturally move away from the pain. Of course you need to play around with it to see how hard you can safely go. Start light, then gradually increase intensity.

Damnit man. So much information! Share!
Can you school us a bit on biting. I would have thought the best places to bite: neck, nose, cheek, breast and inside of arm.[/quote]

It somewhat depends on what the purpose of the bite is, what your position is in relation to your opponent, etc… Most people think of biting in a 1 dimensional fashion, to maim. When in reality you can use a bite to maim, weaken, anchor yourself to your opponent, cause a flinch reaction, create space, intimidate, distract, or even kill.

This is the stuff that you don’t see getting taught much, and is really where my instructor stands out. It’s how he makes his living and hence I don’t want to go giving away too much. Hopefully you understand.

A very simple bite application would be:

-from a clinch (collar tie) bite hold of the opponent’s ear (anchoring yourself to them) preferably using the rear teeth (as the front teeth have a greater possibility of being pulled out if the attacker pulls away hard) while also grabbing hold of the opposite side of their head (basically still in the collar tie) and perhaps either their wrist or bicep (to check that arm) with your free hand.

-next, while continuing to bite step backwards while simultaneously dropping your center or gravity in order to pull their head forward or their center of gravity and force them to their stomach.

-continue this process (you can talk to them as you go, telling them what you want them to do as you go) until they are completely laid out flat on their stomach on the ground

-From there you have lots of options (pin down the head with your hands, use the hair if they have it as a body handle, while you stand up and drop a knee on the back of their head/neck/spine, use both hands to smash their face into the ground (you can use the hair if they have it as a body handle), stomp their hand(s) to incapacitate them, spin around behind them and take rear mount; then finish however you want to from there, etc… hopefully your training has provided you with some simple yet effective techniques that you feel comfortable with and could use from this position).

There you have a simple biting application which requires very little (if any) fine motor skill, can be learned very quickly, requires very little strength, and yet is effective.

If any of you guys are interested in more of this stuff check out Walt Lysak Jr.'s videos, or better yet, do a seminar with him. You really have to feel a lot of this stuff to realize just how effective it really is, and Walt is an excellent teacher who also practices what he preaches. You can also PM me if you have further questions about his stuff.

[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:
zecarlo wrote:

You really are a condescending prick; typical for Jersey. I would say the fact that you get into fights in bars, brag about it and even say you would kick a defenseless person in the head (punk move),says more about your intelligence and education, or lack thereof. I call bullshit.

That’s funny, because I think you’re a whiny coward who’s backed down from every threat they ever came across, and tries to compete in sport where you don’t get punched in the face but allows you to still feel that you’re compensating for backing down every time someone crossed you.

This, of course, doesn’t keep you from commenting about how “real fights” would happen and how “self-defense” works.

Nice job avoiding the question though and it’s not a strawman argument, it’s a question. Maybe you need to look up the definition.

No dicksmack, it is a strawman. Who is more of an “expert” on self defense is irrelevant. I asked several questions and responded to many of your posts line for line. You refuse to answer- which means you can’t. [/quote]

It’s only irrelevant because you know the real answer. A BJJ expert, Renzo, knows more than you. Why should anyone value your opinion more than his?