[quote]Professor X wrote:
skor wrote:
Professor X wrote:
skor wrote:
You are contradicting yourself. On the one hand you claim that most likely I have no clue about what your are talking about. On the other hand, you are surprised that your feeling of being overwhelmed with sheer number of negative comments and media labeling needs explanation on the forum on which, as you know, most people are not getting tons of comments in public.
Any more questions?
Yes, both of the initial questions. Your speech, while informative, doesn’t answer my two questions.
Your two questions are irrelevant. Unless you are about to claim that any time someone voices an opinion about how they are being treated this points to INSECURITY, then you have no point. I can very well be secure with myself and my actions AND STILL voice an opinion if I feel that people like me are being mistreated in some way.
Are you saying this is impossible? That unless someone is completely apathetic to how they and those like them are being treated that this makes them INSECURE?
You inferred too much from my questions that wasn’t there. Having re-read the context, I can see how you could have interpreted them as a start of an argument you mentioned above.
My questions (the second one mostly) are relevant to my understanding of your psyche (as a representative of advanced BB). I haven’t mentioned anything about insecurity in my post.
I’m sorry, but what school of psychology did you graduate from? Are you conducting a study?
You don’t understand because you don’t want to.
You wrote:But did you not realize this effect of successful bodybuilding before starting out? Would you prefer to have an option to “take off” bodybuilding?
Every bodybuilders understands that bigger muscles than average will make them stand out. That doesn’t mean that speaking against NEGATIVE STATEMENTS makes them insecure or means they didn’t expect to stand out.
The dumbest thing about this thread…is that this needs to be explained on a fucking BODYBUILDING WEBSITE to people who apparently can’t even comprehend what bodybuilding is about.
Why do people like this come to this site in droves?[/quote]
You are tilting at windmills - not in general, but in regards to my comments. Let me narrow the context of my initial question:
[quote]Scott wrote:
Secondly, no other hobby or sport do you “wear” around like bodybuilding 24/7 unless you count people that tattoo or pierce themselves dozens of times.
Grapplers that get mocked are only grapplers while they are training or in competition, the other 22 hours of the day they are Joe Average and nobody gives a crap what they do for fun 3 nights a week. Even in a sweat shirt you can’t hide 250 lbs of mostly lean muscle… the comments and the looks never stop.
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[quote]Professor X wrote:
…and that is why we talk about it. I can’t “take off” bodybuilding. People know I lift seriously EVERY FUCKING PLACE I go. There is no break from it. Who the hell can tell you know martial arts just by looking at you unless you tell them?
No one is making fun of karate students when they are walking through the mall in regular clothes. "
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Keeping the reactions of people towards you (visible as a bodybuilder) fixed, would you prefer to have an option to “take off” bodybuilding while walking through the mall - the way karate students “take off” their sport?
P.S. I’m neither a psychologist by training nor conducting a directed study.