You can’t fix stupid… I don’t know why I try.
More to come on this (and my morning training session. Ugh.) later.
[quote]pch2 wrote:
I can so easily picture you laying on the beach with a large stick next to you just hitting anyone that dares to enter your space. Lol, no words just thwacks. [/quote]
x2
and no, court, you can’t fix stupid. they dont even make a pill for it yet. you can, however, eliminate it. fuck environmentalists (ok not really) but lets clean up the gene pool first.
Okay, training first:
Woke up at 6am, cursed myself and went to the gym after a quick bowl of oatmeal.
Eliptical to warm up / shake the cobwebs out
Shoulder pre-hab cuz it was cranky this morning
Bench
45x10x2
65x5x1
85x3x5
Seated Row
“2nd blue” x 10x3 (no there are no numbers or weights, just colors)
WG Pulldown
75lbsx10x3 - focus on squeezing blades, but not tensing traps
DB Neutral Grip Shoulder Press
25x8x4
Abz and 10 minutes on the bike. Then had to go to class. Did I mention I hate training in the morning?
I don’t know why I manage to get sucked in repeatedly. It makes me just as stupid I think. I’m not sucked in from an emotional standpoint, just from a ‘caring about how much he fucks up his life’ standpoint.
How do you tell someone that you once really cared about that they are fucking stupid when it comes to business plans? And not only that, but to go into debt in a shitty economy without a fall back plan on how to repay said debt is beyond fucking retarded. And the chances of succeeding in said business is less than 10%… More importantly, why do I care what he does with his life? It doesn’t impact me… except when he calls to talk about his latest issue… I’m an emotional sounding board. I don’t deserve this and I shouldn’t put myself through this. Not sure if Polo still reads me, but if he does I’m bound to get a long PM yelling at me (yes I’m asking for one dear).
I’m in a happier time of my life than I’ve been in as long as I can remember. Sure I get homesick from time to time, but frankly, overall, I’m happy. I can’t have negative debbie-downers around me. All it does is drag me down. I’m one of those types that takes on my friend’s emotions when they share them with me. When they’re sad, I’m sad. Thankfully I’m around happy positive people except this one person who comes in my life when it is convenient for him or when he needs something from me. Ugh
End rant. You can’t fix stupid. Therefore I need to just stop being fucking stupid myself.
PS. I saw AF guy this weekend at a bbq. Tons of sexual tension. He’s so f-ing sexy. I wanted to take off my clothes and jump on him right then and there, but didn’t think it was appropriate. I’ll likely only see him once more before my internship starts…but his is actually near to mine and his apartment is near where I will be staying this summer. Perhaps a summer romance is in the making?
PPS. I’m seeing Marine Boy on Wednesday. Told you I had a thing for military guys… Don’t think I’ve mentioned him before…met him through some friends at my NFL season game watching bar. He’s kind of a manwhore, but still fun to hang out with / make out with. We’re watching Game 7 of Pens/Habs on Wednesday… he’s a huge Pens fan. His closing line was “I have an extra Pens jersey. When they win, that will be all you have on”.
I’m actually not whore-y despite how it may sound… horny, not whore-y.
Awesome training in here - 20 reps squats with 135 are badass, as are early-morning sessions (I hate them too).
Sorry to hear about the ‘debbie downer’ of a ‘friend’. You shouldn’t have to be his emotional sounding board. They have therapists/counselors for that.
Jealous of your proximity to the beach, and your sexy military men. Have lots of fun! Nothing wrong with being horny. 
Hi Court - hate training in the am too. I’m having family issues right now which are sucking my good energy. It’s hard to keep a distance when you care. And keep writing about those tasty men. It’s a blast to read.
Court don’t fool yourself … there’s no real distinction between horny and whorey
Summer lovin’… havin’ a blaaaaaast … haha it sounds like you’re having a good time with the guys. Living by the beach over the summer is going to be incredible - I’m jealous!
Anyway, the friend thing sounds like a rough situation. I know what you mean about negativity though. I had a friend who only ever complained about things in her life (like ALL the time) but never bothered to do anything to fix them or take advice or anything, and it became so frustrating and sad that I ended up letting the friendship go. I really think there are some people that aren’t worth sacrificing your own happiness for.
[quote]polo77j wrote:
Court don’t fool yourself … there’s no real distinction between horny and whorey ;)[/quote]
There is…because horny means I’m not getting any. I’d prolly be less horny if I was being whorey.
Go ahead. Be whorey. Those of us who have been married far too long will get a real thrill reading about it.
Hello Court. Just wanted to say, I’m envious of your close beach ness, and I hate morning training. I hate mornings in general!
_Mel
oh, and you type very nicely when you’re intoxicated.
[quote]kpsnap wrote:
Go ahead. Be whorey. Those of us who have been married far too long will get a real thrill reading about it.[/quote]
Those of us that are single will also get a big thrill out of it.
In case nobody has noticed, I’m really bad at keeping this updated. I’d rather waste my time in TK than dig in my gym bag for my journal. Mainly because I usually am on my computer when I’m not at home. That said, I have been very regular in the gym. I realized I need to keep my diet in track again because, well, I’m much heavier than I want to be and don’t look how I want to look either.
Call me crazy and yell at me or something please because I’m thinking of leaning up via cardio (aka running) and supplementing with lifting heavy shit. I was definitely my leanest when I was running regularly and my body has actually been asking me to do it. I went last week and felt really great during and after. The reason I turned to the iron in the first place was because after my half marathon my body didn’t ask me to run. In fact it said “if you run I’ll kill you”… so now that it’s asking again and now that I have some incredible places to run around here I’m thinking of doing it.
In other news, I figured out where I’m moving to in the fall. Also, I have to register for classes tomorrow (for the fall). There are 5 I want to take but should really only take 4. Let my reasoning and your voting begin:
- Leadership Strategies - it’s being taught by a prof that I am determined to take.
- Designing/Growing Entrepreneurial Organizations - another one being taught by a prof I am determined to take.
- Marketing on the Internet - I’ve heard it’s a good class. I’m focusing on marketing.
- Experiential Learning - It’s basically a 10 week ‘consulting’ project for a real company. I’ll learn a fuckton, work hard, but really truly learn a fuckton.
- Macroeconomics - I have to take either this or a course on Business & Govt (offered in the winter). I took macro in undergrad and didn’t really like it, but I met this prof on Friday and he just won best prof for the 3rd year in a row.
So… 1 and 2 are definites. 3, 4 and 5 I really don’t know. I’m going to bug one of our academic advisers tomorrow but I doubt they’ll be able to share much. I should talk to some of the 2nd years and figure my life out. I thought I was all set until I met the macro guy… Damn him!
Oh and my weekend looked like this:
Friday
8am-2pm - wake up, gym, school stuff
5pm-1am - Awards dinner for our school program (mostly honoring the graduating class), after party at a bar, Courtney gets really intoxicated, calls her friend for a ride home (he thought I got a ride with someone else). He asked if someone else was there to drive me and apparently I told him there was nobody else there. He comes back and gets me (he was like 7min away).
As I’m getting into the car, there are like 20 people leaving, lots of whom live where I do. Not only that, but the other 2 members of our group walk out of the bar (1 is my neighbor). I won’t live this down for a bit. I was making absurd comments the whole way home too. I love me 
Sat
130am-730am - I got back to my building and ran into some people I know. They call me to where they are. One of the 2nd yr girls is passed out in the back of a car. There’s a nursing student with us (she’s dating a classmate) and basically she’s trying to figure out if she’s responsive (she was breathing, but just not responding to wake up/open her eyes).
After a bit, we call an ambulance. When they got there, her pulse on her wrist was so weak they couldn’t read it. Also, using this thingy they put on her finger to read her oxygen level in her blood, they couldn’t get a reading. They calming but quickly loaded her up in the ambulance. I ended up going with her to the hospital because her 2 friends that were there weren’t stepping up and the nurse/her bf would have both gone. Figured I’d just inconvenience myself.
730am-1030am - Sleep
1130am - 4pm - Went to Disneyland California Adventures with my friend who had picked me up the night before. It’s at this point he tells me about the guy I’d been dating (for those of you in TK)
4pm-11pm - Went to the Angels/A’s baseball game with 25 people.
I’m tired just typing all that. Anyways, I did school work today and was totally confused as to what day it actually was. Ugh. Time for bed though. Long day of class/school work tomorrow. I’m going home (aka Canada) from Wednesday night - Monday night so I’m super excited!
busy busy busy!
so what happened to the girl that got taken to the hospital??!
I’m the same way about the TK thread, it’s just easier to keep conversation going there. You do have a busy busy weekend. I’m adding steady state cardio to help lean. We hate on cardio so much around here, but it’s actually about balance. All cardio or all weights isn’t the answer for most people, your happy medium will work itself out.
Oh, and sorry about married guy. Worst comes to worst and I know some fighter guys in San Diego, I can make things happen if you need it
[quote]Court wrote:
Call me crazy and yell at me or something please because I’m thinking of leaning up via cardio (aka running) and supplementing with lifting heavy shit. I was definitely my leanest when I was running regularly and my body has actually been asking me to do it. I went last week and felt really great during and after. The reason I turned to the iron in the first place was because after my half marathon my body didn’t ask me to run. In fact it said “if you run I’ll kill you”… so now that it’s asking again and now that I have some incredible places to run around here I’m thinking of doing it.[/quote]
Come up to my neck of the woods and do 1mi tire drags!
Apologies in advance for my naivety… what’s TK?
[quote]Chimera23 wrote:
Apologies in advance for my naivety… what’s TK?
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The Thread Killer threads
court, im just catching up.
whorey vs horny- whore’s get paid. its ok to admit you’re a slut. (mom told me several years ago a whore would be smart enough to charge for what i was giving away.) and ime, the more i get, the more i want. in summary, GET ON IT!!
stupid ex boyfriend with stupid business plan- you’re experienced enough, tell him you’re going to start billing him for the time you spend talking to him. if he’s going to use you, and call only when it’s convenient or he needs something, he’ll have to pay. he’ll either be more respectful or leave u alone.
alcohol poisoning- always fun.
disney- much more fun.
baseball- more fun when drunk. playing or watching.
classes- stick with the first 4. leave 5 for winter, you already know it’s offered then. sounds easy.
regular gym time- awesome.
cardio- go to hell. really? i mean, if your body is “asking” you to do it, by all means, im not one to ignore urges myself, but yuck. try hill sprints instead, maybe?
married men- suck when they lie about it, but it’s hard for them to get too clingy. watch out for wives who feel scorned. they never forget that shit. if you want me to go break someone’s knees, it won’t take much convincing.
alright. whew. i need a nap now.