That bus girl from last yr at about this time put a couple things in the school newspaper for me just before school started (one said “you still want me nate” if it matters). It’s already the 3rd week & I haven’t seen her anywhere. I don’t think she’d go to the trouble of putting something in the paper if she was just going to avoid me. Some people have said that it’s the 3rd week so that can’t be good because they usually find a guy asap before they get bogged down with assignments, etc while others say 3rd week doesn’t matter or make a difference. If I can’t find her anywhere (even in the business & econ buildings where I thought I’d be sure to find her) what should I do? A guy @ work thought I should put up bullitins saying “have you seen this girl” with a drawing or something & others have said just ask around. What else can I do? (PS since anything could sound silly only post if you mean it & nobody say give it up because I’m not going to so don’t bother)
You’re setting yourself up for a huge disappointment.
Most acts of romance performed by courting men are largely seen as stalking or an act of desperation by women.
You’re a bright guy, dont be a love fool.
I wasn’t thinking ‘act of romance’, I just want to bump into her ‘by accident’ & then be my usual cocky/funny/ sometimes-an-asshole self & sweep her off her feet instead of being clingy/desperate & turning her off. I can’t think of any other ways of doing that though besides hanging around where I think most of her classes are.
GD it Say. Stop whining and ask her out for crying out loud. If she says yes, good luck. If she says no, you don’t need to tell us.
She put an add in the paper??? Dude go for her!!! Ahhhhhhhhh. Ask her out and if she blows you off you can always say “well ya you put an add in the paper for my hot ass!!!” There no fear brother. Now I just have to go get that one girl I want. Sighhhhhhhh oh the pain. 
Well I will ask her out (& this time I mean it), I just need to find her.
So, you know her name? Or is she still just “the bus girl?” Ask around. She might be on an odd schedule.
I know her name so I could ask around. I just say bus girl to people because they probably don’t know who Shannon is.
Why don’t you try an ad to her?
She’ll show up when you least expect it. That’s always been the case with me.
Lets pray for Nathan.