[quote]Yolked Up wrote:
Big_Boss wrote:
Yolked Up wrote:
aussie101 wrote:
Yolked Up wrote:
Hey, I know many people here lift because they think it’ll get them more ass, but the fact of the matter is that girls prefer leaner guys with abs, who are athletic.
So if you do pump iron for these reasons, you’d be better off doing a martial arts.
Guy in pic is the ideal physique.
oh man thanks so much for clearing that up. I’ve just been chilling in the gym lifting weights for years so I didn’t know, I’m not actually going to go out and find out a girls opinion on the matter until i’m olmypia stage ready. Yeah of course the girls would be more impressed by my ability to hurt other guys than if I was just big and ripped. And, although being a less effective form of exercise compared to training purely for looks I know that using a martial arts style of training will mean I won’t blow up into a ronnie coleman overnight.
And I’m so glad you included a picture of the ideal physique, I mean I thought all that shit was relative but you proved me wrong, thanks…
But seriously, how easy do you think it is to look massive? Training naturally most people will never look freakishly big, if someone is lifting purely for the girls then why would martial arts be better? It would just be a slower way to achieve a slightly worse physique. And yeah, you’d know how to fight, but I don’t live in downtown bagdad, the amount of times I’ve needed to fight in my adult (and teenage) life could be counted on one closed fist.
You never know where or when it’s going to kick off, even if you don’t go looking for a fight. When you’re waiting for a bus, at the mall, having a pint at your local, anywhere, i’ve seen it. And it doesn’t matter how big you are, if the guy knows how to fight, you’ll get your ass handed to you. Period.
And in general it’s better to have a decent physique, be in excellent condition and know how to fight than just have a useless heap of muscle. Having the ability to handle yourself definately increases real self confidence, Ever since I started training muay thai I walk tall everywhere I go cause it’s really satisfying that I know I can kick ass or at least handle my self anywhere I go.
And girls love self-confidence in a man. And tbh bodybuilder types just scream low-self esteem. That turns them off big time. Because they know it’s the pursuit of insecure guys who think they can make up for their lack of height and facial shortcomings.
Wow…the hypocrisy is golden in this one. Way to take away the momentum of calling HH on his regular troll bullshit.
But my boosted confidence is justifiable.
I agree with the OP when he said BBs just hide behind their muscles. They are delusional when they think it makes them look bold and tough, because it doesn’t. Just the other week I got into a fight with a bodybuilder type at a bar in town. He was cocky, very arrogant and thought his size meant he was untouchable and was just being a prick in geenral. He squared up to me and threw the first punch, but he couldn’t fight for shit, he was too bulky, slow and wasn’t trained for it.
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A personal experience with a couple of “bodybuilder types” doesn’t justify saying that they are examples of the norm. Just as you’re definitely not an example of the norm when it comes to guys who train/compete in combat sports. You almost exemplify the stigma that guys who are serious about combat sports try to avoid.
I can understand the boost in confidence you have gained…but a boost in confidence doesn’t pick up where intelligence,common sense,and humility fall short. But you are young…so I understand…somewhat.