[quote]Duke wrote:
Doc, that was a hell of a workout you did 3 days ago (above), I reckon that’d have me sprawled on the ground writhing in pain for more than a few days afterwards, you seemed to pull up well though, so congrats. It’s always great to finish a tough session with nothing but the ‘good’ pain.
Just to share something - ‘twas my birthday yesterday and my father gave me a solid gold ring that was my great grandfathers’.
How stoked am I! However, when he gave it to me, he wasn’t being nasty but he said - “this was my grandfather’s, then my father’s, then mine, now I can pass it on to you, that’s 4 generations… I don’t know who you’re going to pass it on to though”
To explain - I don’t have kids of my own, I have step kids which he treats as his own grandchildren, but what he said really is cutting me deep…
cheers guys.[/quote]
I wasn’t going to post today, nothing much to say, but I’m always glad to respond to you, Duke.
As to my workout the other day, I have this masochistic streak. The fifteen sets after the 460DL were “punishment” for missing the lift. I was already spent, but I made myself do them. See, I’m still a little nuts.
Some exercises I am recovering from much better than others. I was surprised I could lift with one day rest after the heavy DL workout. However, after that short workout yesterday with the PR squat clean, I am more sore and spent today than I have been in a long time. It's mostly just my legs and hips, they are relatively weak and when I kill them they kill me back. Maybe I'll bench tomorrow or nothing at all.
Regarding your family "issue." Although I have a son, I have almost no other family, just a wife and a dying Mom. So I understand a certain feeling of emptiness that these kinds of situations can bring. It seems to me that we are always given the opportunity to look at less than optimal situations with one of two perspecitives. A. This really sucks and there's nothing I can do about it. or B. Maybe there's something else I can do.
In the case of your family "heirloom," it is still 100% clear it is your decision to make regarding who to pass it on to. I would guess your life will take you to some moment where there will be someone you really care about, even love, that you can pass it on to. Blood doesn't mean everything.
I once gave a beloved, loyal secretary of mine a family heirloom-a medal my father had earned in Nam, because to me she had earned it. She had my back for ten years, protected me from all the stalkers and other loons who wanted to invade my personal life, and kept an ear to the ground regarding hospital and doctor politics. She was a stoic Norwegian who never cried, but this time she did. It made ME feel great.
Your Dad’s cutting comments you gotta let go. Sounds like someone needs to go for a deadlift PR. Doc