Am I an A-Hole?

Yes. When they go to Vegas.

[quote]Go heavy fool wrote:
sasquatch wrote:
Go heavy fool wrote:
sasquatch wrote:
Your direct quote is above:

No man I’ve ever known…

I don’t think X assumed anything. You did it to yourself, didntcha.

C’mon Sasquatch… is that how you talk to women? How do some of you guys ever find a woman, talking to them like that?

Save those harsh words for me. Seriously dude, no need to beat up on women, beat up fools like me.

Now to adress your first paragraph. It seems like your only response to most guys refers to their ability/inabilty to find a women just because of how they respond on here. I have been maried to a beautiful women for almost 20 years–who, by all accounts, deserves much better. Nonetheless, we love and trust one another totally. I don’t care what time of the month or what age my children were, this situation would have never come up. Are their moments–hell yes. Does it ever border on mistrust–never. My present and future actions and her reaction are based on my past actions. None, of which, have ever been unfaithful.

Great, keep the faith Sasquatch. But, don’t ever talk to a woman like that. That’s disrespectful man. Whether she’s your wife or not. If she had the power to belt you one back whenever she didn’t like what you said, then you can talk to them on another level. Until then, talk to someone like me like that, or any other man that is capable of handleing another man. That’s why you don’t talk down to women. They don’t have the power of the fist to knock you out when they get disrespected; well some of them do, but not many. Sure they have the power to yell back, but that’s not always enough when the man can just ball up and crack her one. You may want to do it, but you can’t do it. Any man that ever touches a woman is just a punk pussy asshole if you ask me. Ya know, what I’m saying. I’m not saying you would or ever did hit a woman, but the way you talk to them has me wondering.

Now I would knock a man the hell out, I have done it a few times. You will not see me disregard harsh words for another man when he deserves it. But, when it comes to a woman, you bite your fuckin’ tongue. Plain and simple, or else she’ll find some man to take care of your ass and knock you the fuck out… do you see what I’m saying? I would rather you just insult me and talk down to me, because I have the power to defend myself. Say we were on the street, how would a woman defend herself against a naturally more powerful man? She can’t. But, I could. Therefore, if you’re going to do any slingin… sling it my way.
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Who do you think you are? The great defender of all women or do you think you’ll run into chinadoll or77 and get laid. You’re a game player fool and that is about the worst form of man I know. Only a liar is worse and you border on that with every post.

There is a great deal of difference in disagreeing with a woman or sarcastically talking to a woman than beating her. You talk a twisted game fool. You speak of trust, but your relationship advice borders on dishonesty and superficiality.

Do you think women want to be treated a second class citizens who need big bad you to protect them. I don’t. In case you hadn’t noticed, I’ll repeat it. My tone in my post reflected hers. Nothing more nothing less. If she can’t take that, then no need to reply or post further. If she has an issue, I’ll deal with that, but I don’t need to go through you for anything.

You’re a fake and a phony fool. You want to be all Mr. tough with the guys. You put your tail between your legs to X. You want all the girls to like you. You are a needer. You are insecure with yourself. I mean, how many times did you just say you could defend yourself.

My bet is…you can’t.

[quote]sasquatch wrote:
Go heavy fool wrote:
sasquatch wrote:
Go heavy fool wrote:
sasquatch wrote:
Your direct quote is above:

No man I’ve ever known…

I don’t think X assumed anything. You did it to yourself, didntcha.

C’mon Sasquatch… is that how you talk to women? How do some of you guys ever find a woman, talking to them like that?

Save those harsh words for me. Seriously dude, no need to beat up on women, beat up fools like me.

Now to adress your first paragraph. It seems like your only response to most guys refers to their ability/inabilty to find a women just because of how they respond on here. I have been maried to a beautiful women for almost 20 years–who, by all accounts, deserves much better. Nonetheless, we love and trust one another totally. I don’t care what time of the month or what age my children were, this situation would have never come up. Are their moments–hell yes. Does it ever border on mistrust–never. My present and future actions and her reaction are based on my past actions. None, of which, have ever been unfaithful.

Great, keep the faith Sasquatch. But, don’t ever talk to a woman like that. That’s disrespectful man. Whether she’s your wife or not. If she had the power to belt you one back whenever she didn’t like what you said, then you can talk to them on another level. Until then, talk to someone like me like that, or any other man that is capable of handleing another man. That’s why you don’t talk down to women. They don’t have the power of the fist to knock you out when they get disrespected; well some of them do, but not many. Sure they have the power to yell back, but that’s not always enough when the man can just ball up and crack her one. You may want to do it, but you can’t do it. Any man that ever touches a woman is just a punk pussy asshole if you ask me. Ya know, what I’m saying. I’m not saying you would or ever did hit a woman, but the way you talk to them has me wondering.

Now I would knock a man the hell out, I have done it a few times. You will not see me disregard harsh words for another man when he deserves it. But, when it comes to a woman, you bite your fuckin’ tongue. Plain and simple, or else she’ll find some man to take care of your ass and knock you the fuck out… do you see what I’m saying? I would rather you just insult me and talk down to me, because I have the power to defend myself. Say we were on the street, how would a woman defend herself against a naturally more powerful man? She can’t. But, I could. Therefore, if you’re going to do any slingin… sling it my way.

Who do you think you are? The great defender of all women or do you think you’ll run into chinadoll or77 and get laid. You’re a game player fool and that is about the worst form of man I know. Only a liar is worse and you border on that with every post.

There is a great deal of difference in disagreeing with a woman or sarcastically talking to a woman than beating her. You talk a twisted game fool. You speak of trust, but your relationship advice borders on dishonesty and superficiality.

Do you think women want to be treated a second class citizens who need big bad you to protect them. I don’t. In case you hadn’t noticed, I’ll repeat it. My tone in my post reflected hers. Nothing more nothing less. If she can’t take that, then no need to reply or post further. If she has an issue, I’ll deal with that, but I don’t need to go through you for anything.

You’re a fake and a phony fool. You want to be all Mr. tough with the guys. You put your tail between your legs to X. You want all the girls to like you. You are a needer. You are insecure with yourself. I mean, how many times did you just say you could defend yourself.

My bet is…you can’t.[/quote]

Fuck Sasquatch! You got me. I’m really a 112lb little boy. I almost pulled off the fact that I am married to Tonia for 5 years. Shit! Now you want to beat me up because the girls side with me. Dammit! I almost thought me, Chinadoll, & 77 were going to have a threesome… shhhh! Don’t tell my wife. I’m screwed now, especially because I agree with the “prof” most of the time. Except in this thread… forget the fact that I just said the opposite of everything he posted in this thread. True, I agree with the professor almost all the time with regards to training. But, when it comes to relationship issues, him & I hardly ever have the same view.

I never went to college, I’m still in high school. What I did was dream about going to college, and my retention from the classes comes from that. I printed out a fake doc of my degree. You’re also right about defending myself, I can’t do it in an argument or in real life. People make fun of me all the time because I’m forthright and upfront. I cower when it comes to confrontation. I wish I was built like you too, my muscles are so small & I’ve never trained once. I got all this information on training from a book I read, I just decided I would tell other people in case they feel like exercising. Now I have to call my wife and tell her I’m not coming home, because some guy on the internet said I wasn’t a real person. Who am I? I must be fake. I have to go find my identity now.

Oh yeah, and make sure you talk down to women, they love that… it turns them all on. If you can, slap them around a little, they like that too. And don’t ever, I repeat “don’t ever” try to defend a woman, its just the wrong thing to do. Especially if you’re a real men. Real men like to make themselves superior to the weaker sex. Women are fucking dumb too… they just can never be as mentally tough as a man, that’s why we are always right and women are always wrong, we’re mentally and physically better.

I have to go call my mommy now… because some guy is jealous of me. He didn’t get the attention he wanted on this site, now he’s throwing a hissy fit… boo hoo hoo. Lets all drop Sasquatch a line and make him feel more wanted. Make sure you don’t disagree with big bad professor x either, rumors out that he eats little children. Oh no! I’m a little boy, I’m outta here… mommy!

Sasquatch, you’ll never beat a man. You can convince your wife all day long how much of a man you are. But, you’ve never faced one. A man stands up for what he believes in, that includes standing up for others. Don’t be jealous because I took the side of someone that I agree with, and it happened to look like I was protecting her… because that’s exactly what I do. You couldn’t protect a warm cup of piss.

I’ll be in the gym, then I’ll be fucking my wife tonight. Any questions?

[quote]sasquatch wrote:
Go heavy fool wrote:
sasquatch wrote:
Your direct quote is above:

No man I’ve ever known…

I don’t think X assumed anything. You did it to yourself, didntcha.

C’mon Sasquatch… is that how you talk to women? How do some of you guys ever find a woman, talking to them like that?

Save those harsh words for me. Seriously dude, no need to beat up on women, beat up fools like me.

Now to adress your first paragraph. It seems like your only response to most guys refers to their ability/inabilty to find a women just because of how they respond on here. I have been maried to a beautiful women for almost 20 years–who, by all accounts, deserves much better. Nonetheless, we love and trust one another totally. I don’t care what time of the month or what age my children were, this situation would have never come up. Are their moments–hell yes. Does it ever border on mistrust–never. My present and future actions and her reaction are based on my past actions. None, of which, have ever been unfaithful.[/quote]

I think I found your problem sasquatch. It’s women! After reading this post, it’s clear what you feel insecure, jealous, and upset about. You clearly have women issues. Only makes sense now, that’s probably why you like to degrade them and argue with them here… because at home your wife gets the best of you. I knew there was something about you. You feel inferior to women. Well big foot, keep insulting them here, I’m sure you can overcome your inferiority complex and start treating women with respect in due time.

[quote]Go heavy fool wrote:
Sasquatch, you’ll never beat a man. You can convince your wife all day long how much of a man you are. But, you’ve never faced one. a man stands up for what he believes in, that includes standing up for others. Don’t be jealous because I took the side of someone that I agree with and it happen to look like I was protecting her… because that’s exactly what I do. You couldn’t protect a warm cup of piss.

I’ll be in the gym, then I’ll be fucking my wife tonight. Any questions?[/quote]

This was your afterthought! Wonderful stuff. Especially as nothing like this was referenced in my post. Then again, I’ve questioned your comprehension before. By the way, this is at least the 3rd post where you had to tell someone you’ll be fucking your wife tonight.

Funny-most guys don’t like seconds.

You wouldn’t know the first thing about being a man. Come to think of it, you don’t know much about acting like one either. Your blowhard bs is quite transparent.

Tell me again–why would I or anyone else choose to protect a cup of piss? I’m sure something truly witty will result

[quote]sasquatch wrote:

By the way, this is at least the 3rd post where you had to tell someone you’ll be fucking your wife tonight.

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That is my new sign off… I’ve been using it and I hope I promote more sex. Sex is not a bad thing sasquatch, you should try it sometime. Guess what?.. women actually like this. They don’t like insults but they do like to have sex every night or three. Go figure.

Go ahead sasquatch… tell me what you think being a man is in one sentence. I already wrote mine in this thread, I’ll just have to quote it.

Lets see whose line is better. Be careful, think of something witty. I hardly ever lose.

Why does it take you 5 posts to respond to one?

I should have taken Sxio’s advice–

Never argue with a fool. He’ll just drag you down and beat you with his experience.

Alas…

This thread is so fucking depressing.

I understand why people get drunk, now.

[quote]Go heavy fool wrote:
Go ahead sasquatch… tell me what you think being a man is in one sentence. I already wrote mine in this thread, I’ll just have to quote it.

Lets see whose line is better. Be careful, think of something witty. I hardly ever lose.[/quote]

This is but one of the many differences between us. You think being a man can be boiled down to a one-liner. Nowhere in you diatribe can I find the definition of a man. Oh yah, I’m gonna fuck my wife tonight? Or was it I can beat people up? Or is it…no can’t be, not a damn thing made sense. Keep rambling.

This quote should be in every thread. I’ll start by putting it in this one…

Today’s tip comes from Christian Thibaudeau:

More Effort, Less Program

It seems that every trainee is looking for the “perfect program” that’s sure to give him the body of his dreams. These people think that doing a certain workout, even if they’re only going through the motions, will give them the gains they want. Let me tell you something: the worst program in the world performed pedal to the metal will bring on more results than the best possible program done half-assed!

You are not an A-hole. Your only problem is being a man… sometimes you will get flack for it. Helping someone in need is very T-man. Even though your wife complained, deep inside I expect that she knows you did the right thing and respects you for it. This is who you are. Take the beating on your wide shoulders without complaining, and then drop it.

I have no idea where this post has gone over the past 6 pages, but I wanted to respond to the original post.

[quote]sasquatch wrote:
Go heavy fool wrote:
Go ahead sasquatch… tell me what you think being a man is in one sentence. I already wrote mine in this thread, I’ll just have to quote it.

Lets see whose line is better. Be careful, think of something witty. I hardly ever lose.

This is but one of the many differences between us. You think being a man can be boiled down to a one-liner. Nowhere in you diatribe can I find the definition of a man. Oh yah, I’m gonna fuck my wife tonight? Or was it I can beat people up? Or is it…no can’t be, not a damn thing made sense. Keep rambling.

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You cant expect to win a debate over “whatever” sasquatch without ever having proven yourself to none other than yourself. If this is an argument about who knows more about what it means to be a man, then lets proove it. I have another thread right now where I have to prove I know more about sports prediction than someone who said i was full of shit. Guess what? He’s losing. Come up with a better quote than mine, and I will call you the victor; otherwise I’m just going to keep making you look like the fool who can’t bear the load. It has to be original, then I will say that you know more than me about what it means to be a man. Regardless if you actually live your life by the quote or not. I do, but you don’t have to.

You guys wanna battle me but you don’t show up to fight. The only one that did was escot4 and he’s getting his ass kicked. sxio never produced a pic, I put up two.

I will put my quote up as soon as yours is posted. I just made it up 5 minutes ago. Look it up, its original.

ok, I’m not going to read 6 pages of this.

You did the right thing, nothing wrong.

However, she probably felt you were choosing this woman need over her when she herself was in need of you.

Even though you wern’t.

You have to suck it up and do something nice for her and show that you put her above others.

[quote]nephorm wrote:
This thread is so fucking depressing.

I understand why people get drunk, now.[/quote]

I only get drunk to remember how great life is when I sober up.

[quote]SBB wrote:
Derek, since this isn’t an isolated event, what specific reasons does your wife give you for why she doesn’t trust you?

From what you’ve told us, your actions seem trustworthy, so where do you think her fear/insecurity stems from? If not from you, could it be from examples she’s seen in other couples’ relationships? [/quote]

I was “dating” two other women when we met. One was 160 lbs with a defined six-pack (bodybuilder-type)and the other weighed 94 lbs and went on to win or place in 4 or 5 beauty contests since.

(I was just lucky, not a stud for sure!)

The thing is though, is that I broke it off with them to be with her. At the time, I was anti-kids and anti-marriage. She changed all that for me and she KNOWS it well. We joke about it often. I am the epitome of a family man and it shows in my current behavior and in the cessation of my past behavior (casual dating).

Back when we met over four years ago (not very long ago, I suppose) she had this idea that I had a “reputation”. I really didn’t. I was a popular trainer at Gold’s Gym at the time which by itself gave that image but that’s all it was. I was very professional and still am.

My actions since we met have been those of a stand-up, faithful, trustworthy, honest and relationship-minded man.

I do not drink (out at bars), I do not come home late, I am always on time or call if otherwise.

I do not know where the problem lies.

[quote]Go heavy fool wrote:
sasquatch wrote:
Your direct quote is above:

No man I’ve ever known…

I don’t think X assumed anything. You did it to yourself, didntcha.

C’mon Sasquatch… is that how you talk to women? How do some of you guys ever find a woman, talking to them like that?

Save those harsh words for me. Seriously dude, no need to beat up on women, beat up fools like me.
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I see there is a battle going on here. This was the start of it. If Sasquatch’s reply was “harsh” toward women or A woman, we all better re-think women as we know them.

I cannot fathom with all my being and by any stretch of the imagination how that was harsh.

I saw a woman painting men with a very broad brush as being weak and unable to cope with what women cope with. X called her on it as well. Her statement was patently false,ill-informed and trite.

I personally do not know any woman that needs a man to come to her defense. In fact, I’d imagine the women I associate with, including my wife, would be insulted by the “knight in shining armor” treatment.

Maybe women DO need a man’s protection afterall (but I doubt it).

[quote]jbodzin wrote:
ok, I’m not going to read 6 pages of this.

You did the right thing, nothing wrong.

However, she probably felt you were choosing this woman need over her when she herself was in need of you.

Even though you wern’t.

You have to suck it up and do something nice for her and show that you put her above others.
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Sounds about right!