[quote]Alpha F wrote:
jacross wrote:
Alpha F wrote:
chinadoll wrote:
My other point. When I was single, I had both single and married male friends. When I had a car issue or needed “guy” help, I’d call my single guy friends for help. Never ever ever would I EVER call any of my married male friends to help me.
Why? Out of respect for their wives, their children and for their marriages. Because I respect my guy friends and their wives and their marriages, I would never want to put my guy friends into any kind of ackward or questionable-seeming scenario.
This is very noble.
This is a load of shit.
But before I go here is to illustrate to you something not noble.
And it is desreptectful and simple enough for you to comprehend at your level of existence.
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Calm down Alpha F, no need to make these men look like little boys just yet. You’re right, they are looking at things from the wrong perspective and not understanding afuckin thing the women are saying, as usual. Instead of trying to understand the womens point of view, they try to make logic of the situation.
That is great for dealing with a man to man problem. But a pile of crap for dealing with a woman. They only perpetuate the problem by trying to make sense of their actions and disregarding the womans feelings. Men are only men, they don’t know every fuckin thing. They make mistakes all the time, even though unintentional and most of the time unconclusional, they do it and then try to justify it.
If men realized that WOMEN CARE ABOUT PEOPLE LISTENING TO THEM AND UNDERSTANDING THEIR FEELINGS and not making logical conclusions to what the man did was right or wrong… then they wouldn’t have this problem in the first place. Women don’t give a fuck about logic, excuses, what’s right or what’s wrong. They care about feelings and people understanding their feelings.
If you can’t contimplate that for a few seconds, I say good luck in your relationship failures.
Look if you’re in a relationship with a woman, you can’t treat her like a man. We want answers and conclusions and things that make sense to us. We want justifications. Its your responsibility as a man to tend to your wifes needs… NO MATTER WHAT. Either do that, or be a lonely fucking man.
If a man could figure out a logical way to let his wife cheat on him… he would for christ sake. A woman throws all that horseshit logic out the
window and sees the whole picture for what it is.
Now, if your woman says that 2+2 = 3,4 or 5 depending on what she wants it to be. Then goddam it, that’s exactly what the fuck it means. Accept that, or else you better find another woman that you can understand. You’re supposed to be on your womans side of every problem she has. You don’t take sides in a relationship.
There is no me vs you. there is only an us and lets do it together. every time your wife has a problem, YOU have that problem too fellas. Most of the time she doesn’t want you to solve it, she wants you to understand it. Is any of this sinking in yet? If so, learn to relate with your woman or she has every right to be upset. I’ve mentioned this before… but, I had to agree with my wife that she is actually alergic to water(certain water).
You have all day long to agree or disagree with what makes SENSE or doesn’t make sense with a man to man discussion. When it comes to your woman, you better goddam well learn how to listen to her or you won’t have her for very long. Would you rather be “right”; or actually think you’re right, as a man or try to “understand” your woman and still have her at the end of the day.
Toss your bullshit “logic” aside with women fellas. They don’t give a fuck all about that shit. You better learn how to relate to a womans problems without using a mans tactics for relating with men. You don’t talk to and understand a 2 year old the same way you do a 30 year old. The same goes for a woman, you don’t try to treat her like a man and expect her to “get it”.
“I can see how you would be alergic to water, sure. I feel so bad for you that you have to watch what kind of water you drink. I’m sorry baby” -GHF
