Vc to a post on another thread
Sexyj-“From my experience, girls don’t care what you do to get look the way you do, they care about how you look, and they always place a six pack over chest and arms. A guy with a six pack and a small chest (not flat) and arms will win every time over someone with a big chest and arms but with a flat stomach (in the sense of there being no definition).”
I was wondering what some of the T-Vixen/Women think about this,
What do women find most attractive on a guy?
Most women I’ve been shirtless around have really like serratus definiton and shoulders. They don’t like a gut, but flat abs are ok with them.
Well if it between ripped abs or big chest/arms, I like a muscular, well developed chest, and nice thick shoulders and arms with a moderate amount of chest hair that I can bury my face in. But, in general, I really love a nice set of legs. Long, thick, legs. Defined hams and quads, a firm, round ass with a nice tight gluteal fold, and thick calves.
I also like some well developed gray matter, and an attitude. Balls if you will, I do love a man with balls.
I have always liked well-developed arms, delts, and pecs, and my eye certainly falls there first before ever noticing a six-pack versus “flat abs” or even a bit of a belly. Let’s face it, scrawny guys with very low body fat often naturally sport a six-pack, but a real T-Man who’s sweated for it can adorn himself with a meaty upper bod. And let’s not forget about traps! A good, thick pair of traps makes for excellent hand-holds when the clothes come off!
Whoa! Stop! What the hell was that? That was not ME submitting! That was Jester9! I copied the link in an email to her and told her she’d like it; she obviously went there via the URL in the email and it unwittingly connected her with my logon name.
(Gawd is THAT embarrassing.)
Hey, girl! Get back over here and correct these impressions or I swear this weekend won’t be any fun!
OMG! TShaw speaks the truth! He knows how much I enjoy lending my two cents about what kind of male physique I prefer, so he sent me the link and when I pasted it into my browser, I never realized that it logged me on as him!
T, please forgive me! It’ll never happen again!
I prefer a guy with bigger shoulders/chest, even if it means a little more body fat than a scrawny guy with abs!
TShaw,
Don’t be embarrassed by your first reaction to the question. We support your coming out like this…and you don’t have to blame it on Jester9 either. We accept you switching sides. Who wouldn’t like nice big traps to hold onto when the clothes come off!
Yeah cause if you’re pulling on your ‘partners’ ears all the time their going to get sore.
TSHAW,
it’s ok if you’re gay.
Not that there is anything wrong with that.
LOL! You guys are dicks!
i always thought girls cared about the size of a mans ‘love’ muscle
K-TRAIN,
I humbly apologize for the unintentional hijacking of your thread.
And as for the REST of you…oh, heck! I can’t be mad at you guys!
I AM actually driving to CT this weekend to visit she-who-hides-behind-the-handle “Jester9.” Shall I mock her for the snafu, or do I just open myself up to mocking FROM her for her “outing” of me? (And just so you know: she WAS talking about ME!)
(signed)
Confused in Rochester
Ok guys, give me a break! I want to hear from the Ladies
Come on Ladies were are you?
Tell your T-man how you like it!
A man who keeps himself in shape and cares about the way he looks is a plus, as long as he is not more into his looks than I am. I would not want to have to wait for HIM if we are going out and I don’t want him asking me if his pants make his look fat. That is my job, thanks. A muscular back is so hot. While a six pack is nice, it is not necessary. I don’t want a guy with bigger boobs than I have, and looks are not EVERYTHING. The size of “down below” is only an issue if it is lacking, or packing 
For first appearances, girls notice chest, arms, and abs first in that order according to surveys. RLTW
rangertab75
rangertab, where are you gettin these surveys brother…cause if they’re true, i’m gettin copies and handin em out like free candy…
It’s forearms for me… that’s the first thing I look at… seriously…
If a guy has some serious forearms happening then bi’s, tri’s and everything else usually follows suit…
OMG… forearms… sorry… having a moment…
Now where was I… oh yeah…
FOREARMS…
With great forearms comes the certainty of being tagged hard up against a wall, with a firm throat hold…
C.
Clothed guy: A guy could have a smoking body, but even more appealing is when he’s walking away from you and you can see the definition of his developed Traps through his shirt…yeow!!!
Nekkid guy: Of course, defined abs and developed glutes do much to enhance a woman’s sexual reponse…or at least mine, hehe.
~chinadoll 
its gettin hot in here!
now, where did I put that wrist roller…