Thanks, all, for the helpful and encouraging commentary!
@carlbm literally as soon as I read your post I started eating, because the short answer is, to be honest, I had internally let my goal slip down toward what @magick said: Look good naked, be strong everywhere, and do a variety of tasks, while prioritizing being a good husband/father.
What it’s supposed to be is: squat 315lb, while prioritizing being a good husband/father. Way different!
So to your questions:
Do I have a solid workout with clear progression? Erm, I guess. As noted above, a several-week schedule of dropping reps and adding weight at the moment. No exact percentages there but it’s something I can follow and to me the trajectory is pretty clear. As stated before, no clear guidance on assistance/accessory work.
Do I have a diet plan? NO. I’ve tended toward lower carb, higher protein and fat, and as much protein as I can easily eat, but I’m aware that’s not nearly the quantity of protien or calories that is needed.
What percentage of session do you give 100% to? . Every single work set of squats for the past several weeks has felt like the absolute most I can do. So I give 100% to those. The accessories/assistance, conditioning, and upper body work, I do not give 100% to.
How often do I eat till I’m full and then eat some more? Pretty much, I haven’t been. See above. After reading your post I started eating and haven’t stopped LOL. I’m 188lbs and have a bit of spare tire (no 6-pack) and I have to GET OVER IT and just eat like a pig until I can squat heavier, I guess.
Do I schedule 8.5h sleep? Hell no. Not even close. I have a little one, and he keeps the wife and I up a lot, and I frequently wake up extra early so she can get some deep sleep while I take the baby out. And that’s not gonna change any time soon. With 4 kids and several jobs I don’t think I’ll be getting good sleep the next several years. I’m 33 by the way.
I’ve gone on too long but the point is, I get it, thanks for the wakeup call! I’ll put up some videos soon and allow you guys to help even more. @simo74 @wiseman83 @magick Sorry out of time and space for longwinded replies to each of you individually LOL but will be back!