This is too long. Don’t bother reading it. Just a place to write my thoughts and straighten myself out.
I finally have a few minutes to think about things. It’s more than just one bad press session - I had a major lifestyle (job) change a couple weeks ago, and in a few more weeks we’re having a 4th child, so there’s a lot going on and I need to be straightened out so I can do my job and be there for my family. The lifting is insignificant in comparison, but I think the bad session was a symptom - the next symptoms would be getting snappy with my family, or dropping the ball on the job; and those are unacceptable.
So a bit of post-mortem:
- I had a “bad day” on press yesterday. Not a big deal.
- I’ve hit multiple PRs in the last few weeks.
- My elbow has not really bothered me lately, and I’ve been pushing it.
- On press day I was at basically a lifetime low bodyweight, at 171 lbs.
- Physique is coming along just great.
- I’d barely had any carbs for weeks.
- I’ve been getting up extra early, daily, for weeks, to get more hours out of the day
- I’ve been doing daily work with increasing volume over the past few days/weeks
- I’ve been running
- I have a new job with about 3x the responsibility/demands as before
This combination of total work output, fatigue, rest, weight loss, nutrition, physique etc is not sustainable and something (work, family, lifts, runs) has to give.
So for today, Saturday 4/10, I’m taking it easy. Some light home improvement projects but nothing tough; walk with the family but no weight vest; I’ll do my swings tonight but no HTFU circuit. Had friends over last night and drank a beer, had a sandwich with actual bread on it, and a cookie!!! And, perhaps most importantly, slept in this morning, getting over 8 hours of sleep for the first time in a while.
And from now on, I’m going to have to compromise on some of my inputs and outputs. I need more sleep; so on weekends and one weekday every week I won’t wake up super early for running/dailywork. Perhaps I’ll eat more carbs? I’ll reduce the runs to just one per week. And, I accept that as a result, I may not have awesome abs. I really liked where the physique was headed but I can’t afford to reduce job performance or attention to family, and I’m not going to burn myself out.
Make smart choices, be there for family, do your DAY JOB, and be strong. Abs are a luxury.