[quote]heavythrower wrote:
not sure if it was “crazy”…just real, well, REAL.
I wont repeat some of the stuff that really was uncomfortable hearing, not on the open forums, but if you want to know what I am talking about I can PM you, would be interesting to hear a black mans perspective on this.[/quote]
Whatever you do, Don’t ask a sista. Trust me on this one. You’ll get 2000 dif answers. If you want to know about a black woman, your best shot is to ask a older black woman. They shoot straight from the hip and are less guarded. Meaning they won’t take your question as an attack. Ummmm yeah this goes for my Latin sistas also. [/quote]
Latinas are super feisty and will pick an argument at the drop of a hat, anywhere. Home, the store, church during the message, christmas dinner… they fuck just as passionatly though. I don’t care if I am lumping them by race, it’s true.[/quote]
I have no comment on this since my wife is on here as JLO and she is as Latina as it gets.
[quote]heavythrower wrote:
not sure if it was “crazy”…just real, well, REAL.
I wont repeat some of the stuff that really was uncomfortable hearing, not on the open forums, but if you want to know what I am talking about I can PM you, would be interesting to hear a black mans perspective on this.[/quote]
Whatever you do, Don’t ask a sista. Trust me on this one. You’ll get 2000 dif answers. If you want to know about a black woman, your best shot is to ask a older black woman. They shoot straight from the hip and are less guarded. Meaning they won’t take your question as an attack. Ummmm yeah this goes for my Latin sistas also. [/quote]
Latinas are super feisty and will pick an argument at the drop of a hat, anywhere. Home, the store, church during the message, christmas dinner… they fuck just as passionatly though. I don’t care if I am lumping them by race, it’s true.[/quote]
I have no comment on this since my wife is on here as JLO and she is as Latina as it gets. [/quote]
No comment = enough said.
[quote]heavythrower wrote:
not sure if it was “crazy”…just real, well, REAL.
I wont repeat some of the stuff that really was uncomfortable hearing, not on the open forums, but if you want to know what I am talking about I can PM you, would be interesting to hear a black mans perspective on this.[/quote]
Whatever you do, Don’t ask a sista. Trust me on this one. You’ll get 2000 dif answers. If you want to know about a black woman, your best shot is to ask a older black woman. They shoot straight from the hip and are less guarded. Meaning they won’t take your question as an attack. Ummmm yeah this goes for my Latin sistas also. [/quote]
Latinas are super feisty and will pick an argument at the drop of a hat, anywhere. Home, the store, church during the message, christmas dinner… they fuck just as passionatly though. I don’t care if I am lumping them by race, it’s true.[/quote]
I have no comment on this since my wife is on here as JLO and she is as Latina as it gets. [/quote]
No comment = enough said.[/quote]
[quote]heavythrower wrote:
i find it hilarious that you do not think that a Hispanic man who grew up in a city which is about 70% black and in college and as a young man dated primarily black women, and even married one and had two children with, somehow is disqualified from having anything to say in this matter.
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You got WAY too defensive. You aren’t a white male and you have dated and married black women. You are obviously not who I was referring to.
I also find it hilarious that the white guys I was referring to saw the inherent humor in the situation and you didn’t. Lighten up… seriously. [/quote]
I married and had two children with a red bone. The ONLY time I married. For the record
Out of genuine curiosity, not that I plan to use the terms, but if you were to hear a white person say them in general conversation would it be considered offensive?[/quote]
Yeah, in a way, it would be because it is something I had always seen as just an acknowledgment of background of the person we are talking about. Just like this thread, it is very clear that some of you don’t really get it in the first place…making it insulting to use it outwardly especially if you get it wrong by region.
If I call a girl that speaking to one of my friends (this isn’t a regular term for me anyway) it is meant to just describe how the girl looked. In fact, it is usually meant in a very positive way.[/quote]
I kind of agree, I would feel uncomfortable going up to an attractive black girl and to start conversation with “whats up red/ damn your a fine ass redbone” etc.
not sure why, it just feels creepy or weird somehow.
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Well, I don’t know any black men that do that either so…
[quote]heavythrower wrote:
i find it hilarious that you do not think that a Hispanic man who grew up in a city which is about 70% black and in college and as a young man dated primarily black women, and even married one and had two children with, somehow is disqualified from having anything to say in this matter.
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You got WAY too defensive. You aren’t a white male and you have dated and married black women. You are obviously not who I was referring to.
I also find it hilarious that the white guys I was referring to saw the inherent humor in the situation and you didn’t. Lighten up… seriously. [/quote]
i was not defensive, I found it HILARIOUS, just like you did, unless by “hilarious” you actually meant “upset”, I meant what I said, “hilarious”
[quote]four60 wrote:
Origins the South. (not sure what part)
Not sure what group started it white ref to black or Black ref to each other but it came from the south.
Red Bone - Light Skinned
High Yellow- really Light skinned
Black Bone(never heard of that Shyt)
But like all slang it morphed from region to region. Like In BKLYN we use to call a girl with nice round butt “Thick” or she’s packin “junk in the trunk” but then it left the area an now any chick with a wide ass uses the phrase.
Sigh but it’s lies all lies alas your ass is not thick…just wide. Tear.[/quote]
Hey man where you been? [/quote]
Been on terminal leave since April an official retired since Sept.
[quote]four60 wrote:
Origins the South. (not sure what part)
Not sure what group started it white ref to black or Black ref to each other but it came from the south.
Red Bone - Light Skinned
High Yellow- really Light skinned
Black Bone(never heard of that Shyt)
But like all slang it morphed from region to region. Like In BKLYN we use to call a girl with nice round butt “Thick” or she’s packin “junk in the trunk” but then it left the area an now any chick with a wide ass uses the phrase.
Sigh but it’s lies all lies alas your ass is not thick…just wide. Tear.[/quote]
Hey man where you been? [/quote]
Been on terminal leave since April an official retired since Sept.
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That doesnt sound good man, you okay?
Or is my brain thinking to much medical like it always does?
[quote]Professor X wrote:
^that’s like calling a sister “chocolate”. Nothing special…even though to me, if you put a relation to food in front of it, they better LOOK edible.[/quote]
Now that you mention it I do notice the good descriptions of women always involve Sugar. “She is Thicker than a Snicker”
Okay I see terminal and retirement I think bad.[/quote]
Naaa, terminal is when you use your leave up to your day of retirement so your still paid regular pay but your not at work and not coming back.
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Gotcha. Sorry no military background.
So what the fuck you been doing?
There are movie threads you have not contributed to.[/quote]
A lot of traveling, not many movies but I’ve seen my first Imax in NY, kinda cool, now debating if I will go back to school full time or re-enter the work force.
OR
Find Ice-T’s wife CoCo and see if I can get hired as her official azz oiler!
Okay I see terminal and retirement I think bad.[/quote]
Naaa, terminal is when you use your leave up to your day of retirement so your still paid regular pay but your not at work and not coming back.
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Gotcha. Sorry no military background.
So what the fuck you been doing?
There are movie threads you have not contributed to.[/quote]
A lot of traveling, not many movies but I’ve seen my first Imax in NY, kinda cool, now debating if I will go back to school full time or re-enter the work force.
OR
Find Ice-T’s wife CoCo and see if I can get hired as her official azz oiler!
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Hahahahaahahahaha yea would be a line around the corner for that job for sure.
I say go back to school if it is on GI bill.
Jobs come and go, but a degree will always be yours.
