[quote]stallion wrote:
He seems too obsessed with the whole thing (as many are on this forum too). Put down your foot and see where he stands. Does he love training more than he loves you? Just tell him to stay away from the steroids, or else you will leave him.
I know it is not as simple as that, and I don’t know either of you, but if he does things that concern you that might be dangerous, he doesn’t really love you as much as he should.
It is possible to enjoy training and have a healthy life without steroids. Working out 6-7 days a week with weights intensively is not really necessary for a hobby lifter, and for a natural lifter it is likely to be too much.
There are many women that has experienced their husbands die from steroid use, don’t be one of them. This is a very serious matter.
Using steroids when you are in a serious relationship, is extremely selfish. There are more to life than huge ripped muscles.
If anyone want to flame me for my advice, then go right ahead, I am not going to respond to any of the attacks, in fact I am not going to read any responses in this thread whatsoever. Good luck, whatever you decide, I have seen so many bodybuilders having a problem with serious relationships, because of their usage of steroids. Usually it is the users of steroids that becomes very angry of opinions like mine.
– stallion[/quote]
last female to “put her foot down” ended up putting her foot down right outside my door as I told her ass to kick rocks
any female that will say choose training and steroids or me is the selfish one.
my point is this.
While training and “on steroids” I am healthy,I am happy ,strong,and I feel like a man.
if I was not training I would feel less healthy,weaker,less like a man and less happy.
if any woman tries to infringe on my happiness again I will tell her the same thing I told my ex “when I am happy your happy, when Im miserable I will make you miserable,you dont like me spending time under the bar you can kick rocks cause we both will suffer for it”
Ultimatums are for children.
this woman is doing the right think educating herself of the things hes doing and not being a typical woman about telling him do as she says or else.