This is an actual message i received just now:
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07/19/10
09:20 AM
Akuma01 I would just like to say thank you. Its almost the end of my 3rd year of training and I slowly realized that my training has been shit.
I use to program hop like crazy and read and reread all the articles here on T-Nation. But I realized more and more that after these few year I’m still really unsatisfied with the lack of progress. Even though I was considered the buff guy(Good set of traps), I’m still not satisfied.
So I slowly stepped away from all the article reading and started to really listen to people that are actually in the trenches and know their shit. Your body part specific threads eventually led me to realize the greatest lesson of all. And that is that Bodybuilding is an individual journey full of trial and error. Its about experimenting whats the best way for YOURSELF.
I use to blindly follow programs and I realized that because of that I don’t really understand my body as much as I should. This was the first week of my own body part split and each different body part day I found my own alternate and variation of exercises that gave me the best mind-muscle connection I could find. Each day I learned more about myself than I have in a long time.
And I gotta tell you, sitting here with triceps and hams that have never been this sore before(arms yesterday, hams the day b4 yesterday) and heart still pumping from the hardest and most effective quad day I’ve ever had, I’ve never been happier.
Again, Thank you Akuma. I promise you that one day I will be one of the biggest guys on this site."
Each one of us on this site will have different eye opening experiences that will not only nudge us in a different direction, but will fucking plow into us and take us 30 yards through that growth path. I still remember mine, it was a Diet realization, and what do you know, in a year and a half i slabbed on 80lbs.
Though we all walk our paths differently, and choose different routes or shortcuts, the main goal is the same. Keep pushing, keep growing. You arent a amongst the Elite group of Olympians, so that means YOU cant narrow your field of vision, you have room to grow more, to learn more.
What we do to ourselves daily, most will never realize. Most dont know what its like to put 500lbs on your back, and slowly creep to floor, feeling your whole body scream at you, “WTF ARE YOU DOING!” You have people in this world that blindly think someone takes steroids, and wakes up the next morning 280lbs of muscle.
There are probably people on this site that think there is only 1 right way. Stew this over…Every Major Olympia winner has done things differently. Coleman, Yates, Arnold…These programs are night and day in differences.
Take the example from the man who sent me this message, keeping growing, keep pushing, and keep an open mind.
Happy lifting everyone.