Why girls shouldn't fake

A girl better not fake her orgasms unless she wants fake diamonds someday. Right?

sometimes we can’t help it! what is more insulting? a fake orgasm or not an orgasm at all?

Don’t know. None have ever faked with me. :slight_smile:

Instead of wasting your time putting on an academy performance, why dont you spend that energy teaching your man (or women in some cases) to cum like a slut? Its seems more productive and beneficial to yourselves… But ultmiately I dont care… Its all about satisfying me baby;)

I’ll step into this one with a little logic – if a girl is unsatisfied and fakes an O, how is she EVER going to expect to be satisfied? There is no reason for the guy to change anything, because he THINKS he’s satisfying her. So if the subject comes up later, and the girl says “I’ll find it more satisfying if you do X.” The guy at least thinks “Okay, what was the orgasms you had previously?” THen she says it was faked and the guy feels like he’s been lied to (which he has). Not a good basis for a relationship.

Let her fake it. As long as you pop yours!

what if it is difficult for one to have one

I’m with Brider on this one. I don’t think that there’s ever any good reason to fake an O. And if you do, chances are you’re gonna be disappointed the next time. If it’s difficult for some women to climax, then they should take more time, make sure the guy knows what they like, make sure THEY know what they like (i.e. put in a little time with a vibrator, etc. until they learn), and so on. Where there’s a will, there’s a way. One thing that really surprised me when I first heard it was that, while guys have this huge explosion of sexuality at puberty and basically learn very quickly all there is to know about their own sexual response (okay, maybe not ALL, but pretty close), women are often still continuing to learn about themselves and their bodies well into their 40s. So while some women seem to just have a natural knack for getting off and others don’t, I don’t think that there’s a real physiological difference from one to the next. Rather, it’s upbringing, psyche issues, lack of practise, lack of a knowledgeable partner and so on that’s to blame.

Maybe they faked it really well.

Maybe, but if I understand my anatomy correctly, involuntary PC muscle contraction, flushing of the skin around the head, neck and breast area, and sudden erection of the areola without direct stimulation are pretty good indicators that she is, in fact, having an orgasm. Sometimes they even do the dishes afterwards. That’s when you know for sure. :slight_smile:

It’s simple. You fake, you get dumped. Faking is a very intamate form of dishonesty. If it’s hard to have one, then find a way to solve the problem. I like to lick, I do not know one female who has not cum that way. It always works. Just wash down there!!!

Once again, who care? If she wants to fake go for it as long as I get off.

Q- How can you tell if your girl has faked her orgasm?

A- Who cares?!