I don’t care if people bench or press more often - I usually have people press more often due to people having done 1000000000 more reps of bench press than press.
The squat is done more often than the deadlift due to recovery issues.
Best advice I can give you is to find some strong ATHLETES, not just lifters, and start training with them. Load their bars and keep your mouth shut. Do sets when they aren’t. You will learn 100% more than reading forums. 99% of the shit on forums/social media is from people who has as much experience as you but seem to have all the answers. Blowhards who can recite verbatim but haven’t the strength, muscle or experience to form any sort of opinion other than whether or not their momma’s meatloaf is better than grandma’s.
Lots of blowhards and never-was’. Be wary.