[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
That reminds me that I haven’t seen any naked female trampoline tag competitions in awhile.
That is not a good thing.[/quote]
I concur.
More nekkid women on trampolins would make the world a better place. [/quote]
Or more nekkid wominz with hula-hoops…
Poor Spocky. So much confusing bullshit.
Spocky:
There is some good advice buried here in this thread, some of it mixed with needless insults and blind biases, but good advice nonetheless. To get a boyfriend and eventually perhaps a husband, you will need to work hard on modifying certain behaviors. If you get too caught up in nipple piercings and whatnot, that is likely to weaken your focus on what is really needed to accomplish your goal.
Good luck.
[quote]anonym wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
This screams volumes about who you are as a person and a “man.”
I can amost smell the stench way over here.[/quote]
While I’m confused about the auditory/olfactory vacillation in this post, and also not sure about the unstable/needy part, all it really projects is that he has a blunt delivery. I absolutely agree that there are likely more red flags than what we are privy to online.
Spock – I don’t know if anyone bothered to address this, but a person who cannot even make eye contact with herself in the mirror, much less name the color eyes any member of her immediate family has, is a woman with issues that a nipple piercing won’t fix.
Between that and the crippling disablement you find yourself subjected to in basic social interactions, I would recommend seeking professional help to figure out what’s going on under the surface and how you REALLY need to go about addressing it. I think this is a shitty environment for such an exploration and I’d bet most of the info you will find here will remain useless until that is resolved.[/quote]
^^^^ There it is ^^^^
Anonym for the win!
[quote]K.F.P wrote:
[quote]anonym wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
This screams volumes about who you are as a person and a “man.”
I can amost smell the stench way over here.[/quote]
While I’m confused about the auditory/olfactory vacillation in this post, and also not sure about the unstable/needy part, all it really projects is that he has a blunt delivery. I absolutely agree that there are likely more red flags than what we are privy to online.
Spock – I don’t know if anyone bothered to address this, but a person who cannot even make eye contact with herself in the mirror, much less name the color eyes any member of her immediate family has, is a woman with issues that a nipple piercing won’t fix.
Between that and the crippling disablement you find yourself subjected to in basic social interactions, I would recommend seeking professional help to figure out what’s going on under the surface and how you REALLY need to go about addressing it. I think this is a shitty environment for such an exploration and I’d bet most of the info you will find here will remain useless until that is resolved.[/quote]
^^^^ There it is ^^^^
Anonym for the win!
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EDIT Forget what I wrote here before this edit, if actually cannot make eye contact with self in mirror. Maybe should look into profession evaluation if feasible, if cannot make eye contact with self in mirror.
But if the eye contact with self thing is a misconception and there is nothing else other than severe social anxiety and a tendency to build up fantasies around people attracted to: then in that case focusing on behavior modification makes more sense than rooting around for hidden causes.
[quote]undoredo wrote:
EDIT Forget what I wrote here before this edit, if actually cannot make eye contact with self in mirror. Maybe should look into profession evaluation if feasible, if cannot make eye contact with self in mirror.[/quote]
Page 11 at 01-10-2014, 11:18 AM:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I never look directly at people.
I don’t even make eye contact with myself in the mirror.
I don’t know why that is to be honest?
It’s a really bad habit that I need to work on.
I cannot tell you the eye color of a single one of my family members.[/quote]
Sorry, Spock, but after everything I’ve read so far, I don’t think this is something as benign as a habit. I would bet my left nut that it’s a symptom of deep-seated issues that require a different environment to address… the egocentrically relentless White Knighting and Tough Loving being the most blatant reasons why that would be so.
[quote]K.F.P wrote:
^^^^ There it is ^^^^
Anonym for the win![/quote]
Got yo back, dawg.
[quote]anonym wrote:
[quote]undoredo wrote:
EDIT Forget what I wrote here before this edit, if actually cannot make eye contact with self in mirror. Maybe should look into profession evaluation if feasible, if cannot make eye contact with self in mirror.[/quote]
Page 11 at 01-10-2014, 11:18 AM:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I never look directly at people.
I don’t even make eye contact with myself in the mirror.
I don’t know why that is to be honest?
It’s a really bad habit that I need to work on.
I cannot tell you the eye color of a single one of my family members.[/quote]
Sorry, Spock, but after everything I’ve read so far, I don’t think this is something as benign as a habit. I would bet my left nut that it’s a symptom of deep-seated issues that require a different environment to address… the egocentrically relentless White Knighting and Tough Loving being the most blatant reasons why that would be so.[/quote]
I definitely overlooked this.
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]anonym wrote:
[quote]undoredo wrote:
EDIT Forget what I wrote here before this edit, if actually cannot make eye contact with self in mirror. Maybe should look into profession evaluation if feasible, if cannot make eye contact with self in mirror.[/quote]
Page 11 at 01-10-2014, 11:18 AM:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I never look directly at people.
I don’t even make eye contact with myself in the mirror.
I don’t know why that is to be honest?
It’s a really bad habit that I need to work on.
I cannot tell you the eye color of a single one of my family members.[/quote]
Sorry, Spock, but after everything I’ve read so far, I don’t think this is something as benign as a habit. I would bet my left nut that it’s a symptom of deep-seated issues that require a different environment to address… the egocentrically relentless White Knighting and Tough Loving being the most blatant reasons why that would be so.[/quote]
HEY! We were making some progress moving this thread toward naked trampolining and along you come…
[/quote]
I definitely didn’t overlook this.
[quote]anonym wrote:
[quote]undoredo wrote:
EDIT Forget what I wrote here before this edit, if actually cannot make eye contact with self in mirror. Maybe should look into profession evaluation if feasible, if cannot make eye contact with self in mirror.[/quote]
Page 11 at 01-10-2014, 11:18 AM:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I never look directly at people.
I don’t even make eye contact with myself in the mirror.
I don’t know why that is to be honest?
It’s a really bad habit that I need to work on.
I cannot tell you the eye color of a single one of my family members.[/quote]
Sorry, Spock, but after everything I’ve read so far, I don’t think this is something as benign as a habit. I would bet my left nut that it’s a symptom of deep-seated issues that require a different environment to address… the egocentrically relentless White Knighting and Tough Loving being the most blatant reasons why that would be so.[/quote]
Wow I missed this. I had no idea it’s this bad for her.
Spock, serious questions, can you look your son in the eye?
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]anonym wrote:
[quote]undoredo wrote:
EDIT Forget what I wrote here before this edit, if actually cannot make eye contact with self in mirror. Maybe should look into profession evaluation if feasible, if cannot make eye contact with self in mirror.[/quote]
Page 11 at 01-10-2014, 11:18 AM:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I never look directly at people.
I don’t even make eye contact with myself in the mirror.
I don’t know why that is to be honest?
It’s a really bad habit that I need to work on.
I cannot tell you the eye color of a single one of my family members.[/quote]
Sorry, Spock, but after everything I’ve read so far, I don’t think this is something as benign as a habit. I would bet my left nut that it’s a symptom of deep-seated issues that require a different environment to address… the egocentrically relentless White Knighting and Tough Loving being the most blatant reasons why that would be so.[/quote]
Wow I missed this. I had no idea it’s this bad for her.
Spock, serious questions, can you look your son in the eye?
[/quote]
At this point, this thread has to be very uncomfortable for Spocky and will not accomplish anything constructive.
Why don’t we just suggest that Spock get professional evaluation; end the thread; and talk about other stuff.
[quote]undoredo wrote:
At this point, this thread has to be very uncomfortable for Spocky and will not accomplish anything constructive.
[/quote]
I would strongly agree with this.
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]anonym wrote:
[quote]undoredo wrote:
EDIT Forget what I wrote here before this edit, if actually cannot make eye contact with self in mirror. Maybe should look into profession evaluation if feasible, if cannot make eye contact with self in mirror.[/quote]
Page 11 at 01-10-2014, 11:18 AM:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I never look directly at people.
I don’t even make eye contact with myself in the mirror.
I don’t know why that is to be honest?
It’s a really bad habit that I need to work on.
I cannot tell you the eye color of a single one of my family members.[/quote]
Sorry, Spock, but after everything I’ve read so far, I don’t think this is something as benign as a habit. I would bet my left nut that it’s a symptom of deep-seated issues that require a different environment to address… the egocentrically relentless White Knighting and Tough Loving being the most blatant reasons why that would be so.[/quote]
HEY! We were making some progress moving this thread toward naked trampolining and along you come…
[/quote]
I definitely didn’t overlook this.[/quote]
I feel this topic could use its own thread. Maybe even some naked female bouncy castle dodgeball, or something.
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]TheJonty wrote:
[quote]undoredo wrote:
At this point, this thread has to be very uncomfortable for Spocky and will not accomplish anything constructive.
[/quote]
I would strongly agree with this.[/quote]
Spockerita is a sweetheart and has a lot going for her but that doesn’t mean a smidgeon of tough love is out of order.
In the meantime…JUMP, BABY, JUMP![/quote]
Oh, I’m not saying some tough love is a bad idea, but I’m not convinced that tough love coming from what are essentially strangers on the internet is having or is going to have the desired effect.
My previous (first) post in this thread got deleted because I made some Jeapardy stinky pussy joke that was an obvious troll attempt. I posted that before I knew what this thread was about and that it was, at first, a semi-serious topic. With that in mind, I’ve had a look at the photo and I can undoubtedly say that as a 21yo 6’3 fit dude, I’d hit it. So I don’t think sex should be a problem for you, especially if you take the (great) advice at the start of the thread about using make-up and beginning to express yourself through FASHION. Non-commitment sex is largely about physical attraction. One of the most important factors in meeting new people is environment - if you want to get laid go to a bar or night-club. The chances of meeting Mr. Right are pretty slim in those kinds of places so if you want a longer-term relationship you need to go to more social events; sports, functions, education, work, hobby clubs, societies, etc.
I’m not fully versed on your behavioral and social traits, nor do I have any curiosity and therefore intent on finding out, but from I have read from other peoples’ posts it’s not superficial-over-night shit. So as previously commented and established, I won’t bother to discuss those issues.