Can we take a quick pole on guys view of nipple rings vs no nipple rings?? I like them better without modification, am I the only one?
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Can we take a quick pole on guys view of nipple rings vs no nipple rings?? I like them better without modification, am I the only one?[/quote]
+1
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]Sturat wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Hello all.
I have decided to get my nipple pierced to build sexual confidence.
It may be years before anyone even sees it, but I’ll know it’s there and it will make me feel bad ass.
Thanks for listening. [/quote]
Anything, ANYTHING BUT to put yourself out there and risk rejection, eh?[/quote]
I actually laughed at this because it’s exactly what went through my head when I read the nipple thing. Again, she’s happy to take any advice, and do just about anything as long as it won’t actually solve the problem. Because actually attempting to solve the problem means talking to people and that’s totally out of the question, however doing things like this allows her to pretend she’s making progress, when in fact she’s hurting herself. By allowing herself to believe she’s making progress when she’s not she’s simply confirming to herself that she doesn’t actually need to do the things that make her uncomfortable.
After all one day the perfect guy will show up, psychically know that she’s awesome and shy even though she gives no indication other than disinterest, and put up with all that, including her running away to hide during attempts to talk, until they finally fall in love. Totally going to happen. . .[/quote]
Can you shut the fuck up please? [/quote]
Why? Tired of hearing you can’t fix your problem without doing the one thing you don’t want to do? Because I’m too busy telling you the truth to kiss your ass like so many of the guys in the thread who go on and on about how beautiful (true), funny (true on the internet), and confident (also internet true) you are? Because I think the best way to help you is to beat you over the head with the truth until you finally acknowledge it? Because I’d rather see you face the truth and hate me for it than continue to live in a fantasy that never changes but delude yourself into thinking you’re improving your situation?
Nah. . . I’m kind of enjoying this.
[quote]WN76 wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Can we take a quick pole on guys view of nipple rings vs no nipple rings?? I like them better without modification, am I the only one?[/quote]
+1[/quote]
I’ve only been with one girl who had a nipple piercing, and I damn near tore it out by accident one time, so I’m probably leaning towards unmodified, though I wouldn’t say it’s a deal breaker.
[quote]TheJonty wrote:
[quote]WN76 wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Can we take a quick pole on guys view of nipple rings vs no nipple rings?? I like them better without modification, am I the only one?[/quote]
+1[/quote]
I’ve only been with one girl who had a nipple piercing, and I damn near tore it out by accident one time, so I’m probably leaning towards unmodified, though I wouldn’t say it’s a deal breaker.[/quote]
No definitely not a deal breaker, just a preference.
[quote]Sturat wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]Sturat wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Hello all.
I have decided to get my nipple pierced to build sexual confidence.
It may be years before anyone even sees it, but I’ll know it’s there and it will make me feel bad ass.
Thanks for listening. [/quote]
Anything, ANYTHING BUT to put yourself out there and risk rejection, eh?[/quote]
I actually laughed at this because it’s exactly what went through my head when I read the nipple thing. Again, she’s happy to take any advice, and do just about anything as long as it won’t actually solve the problem. Because actually attempting to solve the problem means talking to people and that’s totally out of the question, however doing things like this allows her to pretend she’s making progress, when in fact she’s hurting herself. By allowing herself to believe she’s making progress when she’s not she’s simply confirming to herself that she doesn’t actually need to do the things that make her uncomfortable.
After all one day the perfect guy will show up, psychically know that she’s awesome and shy even though she gives no indication other than disinterest, and put up with all that, including her running away to hide during attempts to talk, until they finally fall in love. Totally going to happen. . .[/quote]
Can you shut the fuck up please? [/quote]
Why? Tired of hearing you can’t fix your problem without doing the one thing you don’t want to do? Because I’m too busy telling you the truth to kiss your ass like so many of the guys in the thread who go on and on about how beautiful (true), funny (true on the internet), and confident (also internet true) you are? Because I think the best way to help you is to beat you over the head with the truth until you finally acknowledge it? Because I’d rather see you face the truth and hate me for it than continue to live in a fantasy that never changes but delude yourself into thinking you’re improving your situation?
Nah. . . I’m kind of enjoying this.
[/quote]
No, I want you to shut the fuck up because I can’t deal with you anymore.
You aren’t some kind of know-it-all on the subject of me just because you “know me in real life” .
We haven’t seen each other in YEARS and we have NEVER ACTUALLY HUNG out aside from some fucking. We’ve barely even spoken face to face!!!
We play scrabble.
We are barely acquaintances.
You aren’t around to witness all my conversations with people on a daily basis and you have no clue how I am working on improving making eye contact/conversing with people.
You have no clue and you have no need and no right to have any clue because nothing in my life is any of your business!!!
I don’t know why you’ve taken it upon yourself to “fix me” and shit, but you seem to really like giving me lectures despite the fact that your life is far from perfect and YOU are far from perfect.
Go fix you own life and your own attitude and leave me the hell alone!!!
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]TheJonty wrote:
[quote]WN76 wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Can we take a quick pole on guys view of nipple rings vs no nipple rings?? I like them better without modification, am I the only one?[/quote]
+1[/quote]
I’ve only been with one girl who had a nipple piercing, and I damn near tore it out by accident one time, so I’m probably leaning towards unmodified, though I wouldn’t say it’s a deal breaker.[/quote]
No definitely not a deal breaker, just a preference.[/quote]
My girlfriend has both of her’s pierced. I absolutely love it. One of the reasons I was attracted to her.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]Sturat wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]Sturat wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Hello all.
I have decided to get my nipple pierced to build sexual confidence.
It may be years before anyone even sees it, but I’ll know it’s there and it will make me feel bad ass.
Thanks for listening. [/quote]
Anything, ANYTHING BUT to put yourself out there and risk rejection, eh?[/quote]
I actually laughed at this because it’s exactly what went through my head when I read the nipple thing. Again, she’s happy to take any advice, and do just about anything as long as it won’t actually solve the problem. Because actually attempting to solve the problem means talking to people and that’s totally out of the question, however doing things like this allows her to pretend she’s making progress, when in fact she’s hurting herself. By allowing herself to believe she’s making progress when she’s not she’s simply confirming to herself that she doesn’t actually need to do the things that make her uncomfortable.
After all one day the perfect guy will show up, psychically know that she’s awesome and shy even though she gives no indication other than disinterest, and put up with all that, including her running away to hide during attempts to talk, until they finally fall in love. Totally going to happen. . .[/quote]
Can you shut the fuck up please? [/quote]
Why? Tired of hearing you can’t fix your problem without doing the one thing you don’t want to do? Because I’m too busy telling you the truth to kiss your ass like so many of the guys in the thread who go on and on about how beautiful (true), funny (true on the internet), and confident (also internet true) you are? Because I think the best way to help you is to beat you over the head with the truth until you finally acknowledge it? Because I’d rather see you face the truth and hate me for it than continue to live in a fantasy that never changes but delude yourself into thinking you’re improving your situation?
Nah. . . I’m kind of enjoying this.
[/quote]
No, I want you to shut the fuck up because I can’t deal with you anymore.
You aren’t some kind of know-it-all on the subject of me just because you “know me in real life” .
We haven’t seen each other in YEARS and we have NEVER ACTUALLY HUNG out aside from some fucking. We’ve barely even spoken face to face!!!
We play scrabble.
We are barely acquaintances.
You aren’t around to witness all my conversations with people on a daily basis and you have no clue how I am working on improving making eye contact/conversing with people.
You have no clue and you have no need and no right to have any clue because nothing in my life is any of your business!!!
I don’t know why you’ve taken it upon yourself to “fix me” and shit, but you seem to really like giving me lectures despite the fact that your life is far from perfect and YOU are far from perfect.
Go fix you own life and your own attitude and leave me the hell alone!!! [/quote]
First, nice work! I enjoy that you’re standing up for yourself! Now go prove me wrong, use that anger. There’s a joke here about letting the hate flow through you but I’ll pass.
Second, you’re right, I haven’t talked to you in person in years. Keep in mind that works both ways and my life is a whole lot different than it was when you knew me so your little rant about not really knowing you applies both ways.
But I will mention that I based most of what I said on what you’ve posted here about your interactions so if that info wasn’t accurate who’s to blame?
Honestly It doesn’t affect my life if you ever improve at this or not. I’m trying to help because you’re an awesome person who’s unhappy with an aspect of your life, an aspect I also used to be unhappy with and one that I worked hard to overcome and as a result did become something of an expert at. I also know how much happier you’ll be once you finally make progress in the area and if that means you hate me, your hate doesn’t affect me any more than your success does so feel however you want about me. It doesn’t really matter. I just know it would make me smile to see you happier about this aspect of your life.
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Can we take a quick pole on guys view of nipple rings vs no nipple rings?? I like them better without modification, am I the only one?[/quote]
Absolutely love nipple piercings. Huge + in my book.
[quote]GrizzlyBerg wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]TheJonty wrote:
[quote]WN76 wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Can we take a quick pole on guys view of nipple rings vs no nipple rings?? I like them better without modification, am I the only one?[/quote]
+1[/quote]
I’ve only been with one girl who had a nipple piercing, and I damn near tore it out by accident one time, so I’m probably leaning towards unmodified, though I wouldn’t say it’s a deal breaker.[/quote]
No definitely not a deal breaker, just a preference.[/quote]
My girlfriend has both of her’s pierced. I absolutely love it. One of the reasons I was attracted to her. [/quote]
Good man.
[quote]Sturat wrote:
I’m trying to help because you’re an awesome person who’s unhappy with an aspect of your life, an aspect I also used to be unhappy with and one that I worked hard to overcome and as a result did become something of an expert at. I also know how much happier you’ll be once you finally make progress in the area [/quote]
This is honestly the exact same thing that drew me out of lurker status for the time being - having been there before, struggling out of it, seeing how different life is on the other side, and wanting to help others get there too, like so many who helped when I needed it.
In any case I don’t want to beat a dead horse, best of luck to you whatever path you take and I hope you get it sorted out.
Hey Spock, check me out on Facebook (Brandon Lenters). Like I said before, I’d love to meet up if you’re ever in the Calgary area.
I’m pretty freakin’ good at Mario Kart.
A random nipple piercing could(COULD) seem out of place, it depends on the rest of the package IMO.
[quote]red04 wrote:
A random nipple piercing could(COULD) seem out of place, it depends on the rest of the package IMO.[/quote]
Ja…
The rest of the package does not scream nipple piercing.
Spocky, let your fear guide you.
What you fear most is what you must do.
You dont fear nipple piercings.
I’ve seen a few of your posts around here and you seem very intelligent and you have a great sense of humor.
I’ve seen a few of your videos that you’ve posted and you look like you’re in great shape.
Then you posted that picture of your face.
When I saw that I said aloud, “Wow, she’s beautiful!”
My wife looked over my shoulder and whole-heartedly agreed.
So, to answer the question “Why can’t Spock get men?”… I don’t know for sure but I have a theory.
Maybe you haven’t met one yet. Sure, they may have been of “man” age but they’re still boys.
Given all of the facts at my disposal I have to draw the conclusion that the problem isn’t on your end of the relationship balance-beam, at least not directly.
Regardless of where you may look for a man, based on physical appearance alone, you’ll have your pick of the litter. To use the parlance of our times. 
Add to that your sense of humor and intellect and suitable men should be fighting to get to you.
Geekiness incoming You’ve mentioned sci-fi a few times, are you a fan of Firefly, BSG or Doctor Who? If so you could join a fan forum or attend an event or two. Again this is just me assuming but, you’d be more likely to find someone with similar interests, quirkiness and a compatible sense of humor. Most importantly I believe you need to find someone who is your intellectual equal and emotionally cohesive with you.
TL;DR = The guys in your area are idiots!
[quote]pushharder wrote:
There are other piercing locations that happen to be sexier still…[/quote]
This!
[quote]The_Jed wrote:
Geekiness incoming You’ve mentioned sci-fi a few times, are you a fan of Firefly, BSG or Doctor Who?[/quote]
Well we know she’s not a fan of Starcraft.
[quote]The_Jed wrote:
TL;DR = The guys in your area are idiots!
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What are we defining as “her area”? I’m trying to decide if I should be offended.
[quote]TheJonty wrote:
[quote]The_Jed wrote:
TL;DR = The guys in your area are idiots!
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What are we defining as “her area”? I’m trying to decide if I should be offended.[/quote]
ALL OF CANADA. You should definitely be offended!
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]TheJonty wrote:
[quote]The_Jed wrote:
TL;DR = The guys in your area are idiots!
[/quote]
What are we defining as “her area”? I’m trying to decide if I should be offended.[/quote]
ALL OF CANADA. You should definitely be offended![/quote]
Do you have any idea how big this country is? I’m in the same province and she’s a three hour drive away!